Is the procrastination of children's homework related to parents' urging?

To change children's procrastination, parents' role models are more important. It is said that parents are a mirror of children, and children will perfectly copy their parents in addition to genes. Especially before children come into contact with society, parents are the earliest and most exposed people, and their behaviors and concepts will guide children. We always complain that children have no sense of time and procrastinate. Have you ever thought that we really gave our children a regular life and a standard for doing things?

Children's life rhythm and physiological rhythm are different from those of adults. They eat slower than us, and wash slower than us. They don't deliberately dawdle, but their ability is nothing more. Judging whether a child is dawdling should not be based on the rhythm of parents, but the real standard is the speed of children of the same age. Respect the rhythm of children, and don't ask children by the standards of adults; Allow your child to be slower than you, don't blame your child for being impatient. They may have tried their best, but they just can't meet your requirements. Don't be too hard on the children you like.

There is a saying that is good? Practice makes perfect? The more times you do it, the more skilled you will be, and the faster you will be. Children do the same thing. In the face of unskilled things, there is always an idea of avoiding and delaying. Especially in the face of different homework every day, children can't fully find their similarities, so in the face of unfamiliar exercises, they can only rack their brains to write step by step, and they have to rethink and write again if they make mistakes in the middle. This kind of behavior can be understood by adults from another angle. When you are faced with strange things, can you finish them as quickly as usual? I believe many people's answer is no.

Procrastination and resistance to doing homework are common manifestations of many children, which is also the most annoying place for parents. In fact, it's not that children don't like learning, but that children have personality? Procrastination? And then what? Dependence? Children always hope that their parents will come to help them until the last moment. Therefore, parents should start with overcoming their children's two kinds of psychology, let their children bid farewell to procrastination and learn independently.