If you are too thin-skinned in life, you will miss many opportunities. Then come in and take a look

Personally, I think that if a person always cares about his own shortcomings and always thinks about how to prevent himself from losing face, it will be difficult to influence the pattern of things. "Sorry" is a common mentality that many people have, but it is also this kind of embarrassment that makes the idea that should be implemented blocked by the good face. Once the opportunity is lost, it is impossible to come back. (I used to be thin-skinned, sorry, but I missed a lot of opportunities)

Thin-skinned and successful people are extremely rare. Generally, those who achieve superhuman success are thick-skinned. The most famous one is that Gou Jian, the king of Yue, tasted Fu Cha's stool in front of his eyes in order to take revenge. However, he eventually exchanged his shamelessness for the glory of "three thousand Vietnamese troops can swallow Wu". Let’s talk about two modern figures: In order to attract investors in the early days of his business, Jack Ma was called a liar and visited more than a dozen investors a day. Wang Jianlin was sued hundreds of times by the bank in the beginning! They were still unyielding despite every setback, which shows that they didn't value face too much at that time. Talking about what we encounter in life, those promoters and salesmen, if they are too thin-skinned and embarrassed, how can they promote the product and attract customers! Those with good performance are usually very thick-skinned and say that sales salaries are high, but you don’t know the sadness behind them. Being scolded by customers and ignored by strangers on the street are all common things.

There is a Chinese proverb, "If you are thick-skinned, you will eat enough; if you are thin-skinned, you will not be able to eat." In fact, this principle is very useful for the success of a person's career. Everyone has their own concept of face. It’s about dignity and status. However, when we have no money and strength, face is really not important. How to achieve our goals is the most important. When we have no money, we put down our face and dignity to make money. When we have money, we use money to earn back our face! By the time you can use your face to make money, you will already be a great person! If you miss the opportunity because of face, embarrassment, or thin skin, what a pity, what a pity!

If you think about it carefully, being thick-skinned is actually the common sense of "even if you win, you will be happy even if you lose", the courage of "walking your own way and letting others have their say", the more you are frustrated, the braver you become, and you will never give up. Perseverance, lofty ambitions, a high-minded mind, and the confidence to succeed. In the final analysis, good psychological quality is a must-have in life for today’s entrepreneurs and strivers

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