I'm not so scared when I have a baby. I'm going to have a second child soon, and I'm beginning to be afraid. What should I do?

Because the only child Bao Ma is a novice Bao Ma, ignorant people have nothing to hide. They don't know the deep-rooted pain of opening their fingers, the physiological milk surge that makes people die again, the fact that babies cry day and night due to flatulence, the fact that breast-feeding babies have insomnia, and the fact that they suddenly go out of shape because of the arrival of babies and have no time to have private parts with their husbands, which makes them feel less afraid of giving birth. When it comes to having a second child, these pains have been experienced once, and it really takes a lot of courage to experience them again. How can you not be afraid? How can we overcome these problems? Love comes from the love of a family, the baby's mother, I miss you, my mother is hungry, my mother tells me stories, my mother ... My wife has worked hard, my wife has you, and the whole family is laughing, which is also the motivation for you to have a second child. There are bitterness and sweetness, and we have also experienced the pain of childbirth continuously. Then, you can actively prepare and prepare before pregnancy. Walking more in the late pregnancy will make the delivery more smooth. After delivery, you can ask a prolactin to solve the milk problem, understand the knowledge of baby-rearing, and make full preparations. The arrival of the second child is also a very happy thing

When I had my first child, I just heard people tell me how to have a baby. I didn't know what it felt like until I experienced it once. You know, having a baby again is undoubtedly the most painful thing in the world.

Delivery is an essential process for pregnant women. Because after ten months of pregnancy, pregnant women will begin to appear from the signs of labor, and then enter labor. After the fetus leaves the mother, the heavy responsibility of pregnancy and childbirth is unloaded.

For many pregnant women, when giving birth, they don't know much about pregnancy and childbirth, or even know little about it. They just go to the hospital for a check-up at a fixed time and then listen to the doctor's guidance. During pregnancy, pregnant women don't know why folic acid should be supplemented in the first trimester, calcium should be supplemented in the second trimester, and fetal movements should be counted in the third trimester. Many pregnant women can't count fetal movements, and the whole pregnant woman has never counted fetal movements. As for childbirth, because pregnant women have not experienced it, they don't understand it. The only understanding of giving birth to a child is probably the scene in which the mother shouts twice and the child is born in a TV series.

Therefore, for most pregnant women, because they are ignorant when giving birth, they are "fearless because of ignorance", and naturally they will not have "awe or fear" about childbirth because they don't know enough about childbirth.

When pregnant with a second child, pregnant women can be regarded as "experienced people" because they have had the experience of giving birth to a child, so they pay more attention to this aspect. During childbirth, because I had experience in childbirth, I went into the delivery room and experienced the process of childbirth with my own eyes, as well as possible accidents during childbirth. Therefore, because they know that pregnant women will have fear, they will feel that childbirth is full of danger, not only afraid of the pain of labor pains, but also afraid of uncontrollable abnormalities during and after childbirth.

In fact, this is a very normal and common phenomenon. In addition to some pregnant women's understanding of childbirth and the influence of previous childbirth on pregnant women, pregnant women may have anxiety because of the upcoming expected date of delivery, which is often said: prenatal anxiety. It shows that pregnant women are impatient, anxious, afraid of childbirth, full of worries about childbirth, and always imagine the bad situation during childbirth to themselves.

For childbirth, serious complications that may occur during and after childbirth include: massive bleeding and amniotic fluid embolism. Under normal circumstances, as long as the rescue is timely, there is a chance to rescue it, especially postpartum hemorrhage. Because of the development of medical technology, as long as the puerpera pays more attention to their own situation after delivery and informs the doctor in time if there is any abnormality, even if there are delivery complications, the treatment for the puerpera will be very quick and effective. And generally speaking, the probability of accidents during childbirth is very small.

Because this is a common situation, pregnant women can relieve anxiety in the following ways. Of course, family members also need to pay attention.

Pregnant women are not afraid to have children because they don't know enough about childbirth and have no experience. Before giving birth to a second child, because of the experience of giving birth and the cognition of childbirth, I know the abnormal situation that may occur during childbirth, so I will be afraid because I know more. Of course, although this is a common prenatal anxiety, in order to alleviate the anxiety of pregnant women, pregnant women must correctly understand childbirth, do a good job in prenatal examination, and cooperate with doctors during childbirth. Of course, families also need to pay more attention to the situation of pregnant women.

I'm glad to answer your question. Having a child is not so scary, but having a second child is scary. This is a normal phenomenon. The first child doesn't know the process, and the second child knows exactly what to do next.

1. Don't be born in the same hospital.

2. Make sure your husband goes in to accompany the baby.

3. Find a guide if necessary.

The above is my own experience to share with you, I hope it will help you.

After I was pregnant with my second child, I was always afraid to think that I was born. I couldn't sleep well every night, and all kinds of messy things in my heart needed the care of my boss. I'm also worried that the first child will be delivered by caesarean section, and the pain of the second child will never be forgotten. The more I think about it, the more scared I am, and it is more painful than I thought. After the birth of the second child, it must be much easier than the second child. The second child is generally obedient and sleeps once in the evening after eating in the month, even when the milk is not sleeping. Don't make trouble. I haven't eaten overnight milk since I was half a year old. Very worry-free. Second brother is getting old, and the two brothers are still playing together. It is very happy to see them happy every day.

There is a saying that newborn calves are not afraid of tigers, and their firstborn babies don't know anything, so they passed in a fog. After learning some knowledge in the second child, I know that there are certain risks, but I am not calm. I'm more worried about what to do if something happens to me.

I thought about it when I had a second child. The probability of my friend advising me to take risks is too small, which is lower than winning the lottery. After listening to her, I relaxed. Think about it, doctors will take some precautions in extreme cases. Don't worry.

You are going to have a baby now, so welcome the baby happily.

Because you don't know how the first child was born, the pain and many dangers. People often say, "I don't know if I'm fearless." You are experienced and know a lot about the second child, so you will be afraid, but you don't have to think too much and worry too much. You must be happy to welcome the birth of a baby. On the contrary, being too nervous will cause anxiety to the baby in the belly. Babies can feel their mothers' nervousness. In short, you should remember that only my mother is strong and says that I will give birth to the baby safely. The baby will feel her strength and try to cooperate with her and meet her as soon as possible. Come on, Ma Bao. This is the only thought in my heart when I gave birth to a child. I want to refuel. Only in this way can our baby be born safely.

I had one myself. Have already had the experience of giving birth to children. Under normal circumstances, the first child is much smoother than the second child. Because the uterus has been conceived once, the corresponding pain will be alleviated. And the delivery is faster, and it will not be as painful as the fetus. You don't have to be so nervous. It doesn't hurt as much as you think.

The newborn calf is not afraid of tigers, and the second child is experienced and knows the process. I am afraid it is normal.

Don't worry, I'm looking forward to the baby coming soon.

My family hasn't given birth to a second child yet. I don't know what it's like to give birth to a second child! hahaha