Children are afraid of life. What caused it?

Many children's cognition of strangers is related to their conditions. The first thing parents need to know is the reason why they recognize strangers. Children's tactile disorder

Tactile disorders can be divided into tactile sensitivity, insufficient tactile response and poor tactile discrimination. Children's tactile sensitivity shows as follows: they don't like washing their hair and taking a bath, they are very strict with the material of clothes, refuse to be touched by passers-by, and hate crowded places.

Tactile disorder is caused by the lack of corresponding tactile stimulation in neonatal stage. At the same time, parents' excessive maintenance of children, such as wearing more clothes and less sense of touch, will also damage the development trend of children's sense of touch. For this matter, parents must give their children as much touch as possible, such as playing some tactile hand games at home or doing some outdoor themed activities, such as playing with sand and water.

In addition to tactile disorders, children are also shy in front of strangers, and there are other reasons that can cause children to be shy in front of strangers:

Always stay in a state of understanding.

Nowadays, many children are only children, and because of family rules and regulations, many children have been staying in their natural environment. It's rare to have a chance to go out and see the natural environment of strangers out of your sight, and it's even more rare to get along with the rest of the passers-by. In the long run, children will be shy, so parents must take their children to outdoor theme activities, such as going to parks and children's playgrounds.

Parents' training methods are unreasonable.

Parents are likely to be busy with work, have no time to wait for their children, or get bored with their children. Their children are also shy easily. For this matter, parents must start from themselves and give their children careful education.

lack confidence

Children lack self-confidence for some reasons, which leads to their lack of self-confidence in personal performance. They often choose to retreat and avoid to cover up their shortcomings, which leads to recognition. If children are timid and not confident, parents must give them appropriate incentives to make them confident.

Children's recognition of strangers is probably due to tactile impairment. If it is clear that the child is a tactile disorder, it is recommended to take the child to a professional training institution for sensory integration training. For example, Zaion Education focuses on 17 sensory integration training, which can effectively help improve sensory integration disorder.