China, an English girl, found relatives: no resentment. Is it necessary for abandoned children to find relatives?

Finding relatives is a personal choice of the party concerned, which is related to his education and growth environment. Needless to say, it depends on how the parties consider it.

I can talk about my views here. There are too many people and facts involved in finding relatives.

From a human point of view: will finding relatives now have a negative impact on parents and siblings?

If it is a positive influence, of course, no problem. If adoptive parents are very concerned about this matter, they may run away for fear that their children will find their biological parents. Obstacles may still be trivial. If you love your adoptive parents, and the adoptive parents don't want their adopted son to find relatives, then the whole family may fall into endless pain and trouble. Therefore, the relationship and feelings of adoptive parents should be communicated in time to avoid misunderstanding and relieve the concerns of both sides. After dealing with this relationship, consider how to deal with the relationship with your biological parents. Of course, it may not be found. It's too early to say this, but it's not.

It is very important to communicate fully with adoptive parents, because they are the source of all information. For example, how did the adopted son come? It was sent by relatives and friends, bought with money, adopted by a charity, or picked up by the roadside.

This is the beginning of all the clues, and we can also see the attitude of our biological parents: are they too poor to support, or are they trafficked, or for other reasons? From here, you can at least give a reason why you want to find a relative. This is the part about things. He can know whether his parents don't want to see him.

After you have a certain knowledge of psychology, you will have a bottom in your heart. When you successfully find your loved ones one day, prepare your tears.

The last question is the question of cost and benefit. Looking for relatives Some people may not get what they want after looking for it all their lives. Fortunately, I found my relatives in more than ten years. However, there are also some mental and economic pressures in this process. Spending money is the premise of doing things, and it costs money to see relatives everywhere. Besides, you have to calculate what kind of bear you are. If you need charity every day, forget it. No one likes moths to throw fire to eat and drink.