Why did that worthless ex-wife become a good wife and mother after the divorce?

Everyone has his own ideas and thoughts about marriage. But in this world, it's hard to be alone without scruples. So sometimes, some people will compromise on some things, including their own marriage.

Some people say that marriage is a major event in life, and you must marry the person you want to love according to your own wishes. It is also said that although marriage is very important, young people need to accept their parents' opinions to choose the other half because of their shallow experience.

So, in real life, there are many couples who actually did not enter marriage from love, but came together for various reasons.

In the face of such a marriage, they always feel unloved and feel that the other party is not as good as the woman they think of.

But after it was really lost, it was suddenly discovered that the person who was never looked down on by himself had long been an inseparable part of his life.

Recently, I received a letter from a male reader. His ex-wife finally became his regret that it was too late because of his indifference and dislike.

Letter from readers:

Hello, I am really depressed and regret it. So I want to write my story, on the one hand, to vent, on the other hand, I also hope to remind men who don't know how to cherish like me.

Actually, my mother forced me to marry my ex-wife. At that time, I already had my own love in my heart, but my mother felt that that woman was not suitable for me, and forced me to break up with her by hunger strike and marry my ex-wife.

for this reason, I am very resistant to her and feel that she is not good anywhere. I often dislike her cooking, often accuse her of dirty clothes, often complain that her salary is too low, and often use the topic of ex-girlfriend to stimulate her and make her sad and wronged.

at first, she chose not to care about me, just doing her own thing silently. Because she used to be my mother's student, she has always had a good relationship with my mother. Otherwise, she would not have been willing to marry me.

later, in my various ways? Torture? Now, she may be really tired. So in the end, she chose to leave me and ended this marriage with me.

I am ecstatic, thinking that I can finally be with the woman I love. But when I went to find her, I found that she had already fallen into the arms of a man who was better than my family.

I was devastated by divorce and lovelorn love, so I was decadent for quite a while. It was two years later when I heard about my ex-wife again.

I heard that she later married a man who was very kind to her, and she became a good wife and mother praised by everyone. Somehow, when I heard the news, I suddenly missed her cooking.

In fact, she has always been a good wife and mother, but at that time, my heart was blind and my eyes were blind, and I always felt that she was useless.

Now, knowing that she has become someone else's wife, my heart suddenly empties, as if I have lost something most precious.

until now, I found out that she had already integrated into my life, but I just didn't want to admit it.

emotional summary:

first, in marriage, you should be good at discovering the beautiful side of your wife.

Everyone's attitude towards marriage is different, and so is his attitude towards his wife. But in a happy marriage, men's attitudes towards their wives are basically the same.

Because of these smart men, they know how to look at their wives with appreciation and are good at finding the beautiful side of their wives.

No matter how good a swift horse is, it is an ordinary horse without Bole's discerning eye for gold. Just like a woman in marriage, no matter how excellent she is, she is a useless woman if men don't look at her seriously.

second, when husband and wife get along, they should know how to treat each other with affection and cherish them with heart.

The most unlikely thing in this world, besides going back in time, is to appear if. Therefore, we must cherish the people in front of us and keep the present happy life.

In fact, the most regrettable thing is not that you don't know I love you when I stand in front of you, but that I once owned you, but I broke your heart and let you leave me. Then, after you became someone else's wife, I found out that you have always been excellent, but I mistook pearls for fish eyes and treated you badly.