Often deny children in front of others, what effect will it have on children's psychology? Should adults do this?

It is very incorrect for parents to deny their children in front of outsiders, which will bring great harm to their bodies and minds. Next, I will talk about the psychological impact on children:

1, self-esteem is damaged. Although the child is still young, he already has his own thoughts. At this time, parents need to use their brains to talk. Before speaking, they should consider what to say and what not to say. After all, the child's mind is very delicate. Once he hurts his young heart, the consequences are unimaginable. If parents often talk about their children in front of outsiders, he will feel ashamed. In fact, adults are also like this. No one wants to be blamed when there are many people! Therefore, parents should put themselves in their own shoes and don't hurt their children's self-esteem.

2. Lack of self-confidence. If you are denied for a long time, you will feel like this in your heart. No matter how good you are, your inner self-distrust will make you feel that you can't do anything and nothing is good. What's more, the people who are accused are their parents, and they are the closest and most trusted people. Their denial can be regarded as a bolt from the blue and a great blow to themselves.

3. Unwilling to communicate with others. You know, you have lived a life denied by your parents since you were a child. After a long time, you will feel that you are really poor and can't see your own advantages at all. At this time, you will feel more inferior. As a result, people are becoming more and more unwilling to communicate with others, and they are afraid of being accused of saying the wrong thing, and their personality will become more and more withdrawn.

In short, parents have a great influence on their children, and they should be encouraged and praised more for their growth.