Daughter-in-law: I want to go back to my mother's house for the New Year. Grandma: Who cooked at home after you left?

Today, when the only child is in power, where to spend the New Year has become a common problem for married young people: no matter who the husband and wife go to, one parent will spend the New Year alone. How can children stand it? In non-only-child families, parents and children are mostly in different places or even thousands of miles away, and they all expect to spend the New Year with their children. But one week is short, so it is inconvenient to travel in Spring Festival travel rush during the peak hours, which satisfies parents' wishes here. How can we meet the expectations of parents there? On this issue, it is true that each family has its own laws and opinions.

I have been spending the New Year at my husband's house since I got married. My parents never wanted us to go back for the Spring Festival. In fact, some daughters go back for the New Year with their husbands and children, and they don't have to stick to their daughters' marriage, but they have to spend the New Year at their in-laws' home. I think it is very happy to go back to my husband's house for the New Year. Some people cook, others work. As long as they have food and shelter, it is the same everywhere. The important thing is a happy new year.

I am the second child in my family, and I have a brother. Now my brother and sister-in-law all work here. Before we got married, my brother and sister-in-law went back to Qingyuan's parents' house for the New Year. I was very busy as soon as I came back. When my brother was unmarried, I spent the New Year at home, helping my mother cook, wash dishes and clean. My sister-in-law happened to be pregnant and went back in the first year. Of course, I was the only one at home to help her.

A confident woman is not only confident in appearance, but also has a certain heart. I will not be crushed in the face of pressure, nor will I be a person who deliberately likes others and loses himself in feelings.

Marriage is a contractual relationship established because of love. When you need a partner, he will be there for you, holding your hand and moving on. This love can eliminate your fear of the unknown life.

But if you choose a lover who always ignores your needs and pressures like a shopkeeper when you need him most, it is only a matter of time before such a marriage deteriorates.

In the book Rational Choice, there is a passage that says:

-"Women don't make decisions by intuition or sixth sense. In fact, women pay more attention to analysis than men when making decisions because they are more cautious. "

After a woman chooses a marriage, she will not make a decision easily unless she has to, especially a woman who knows how to manage her feelings with reason, and she will not casually say the word "divorce".

Why are married women so reluctant to go back to their in-laws for the New Year?

If she is happy enough in her husband's house, how can she leave her lover's place? Therefore, men should think about it. What is the real reason why his wife doesn't want to spend the New Year at her husband's house?

Didn't you give her enough love and security? When you are enjoying the festive atmosphere, has your wife been busy in the kitchen all day? When you have a family reunion dinner and go to sing and play cards with friends and brothers for fun, does she have to take care of the children hard and even endure the oppression and nagging of her mother-in-law?

If a man only considers the feelings of himself and his mother and never considers his wife, his marriage will come to an end sooner or later.