What should I do if I break up?

Yes, you have a lot of free time. But look on the bright side, you have so much time to do what you like. Don't cut your hair, don't have sex with people you don't love, and don't drink all night.

When you go through a breakup, lonely moments are inevitable, even if you are the one who ended the relationship. Your thoughts will convince you to go crazy, but try to avoid this impulse by your own reasoning. You'd better be single. No, no, really, you'd better be single. Please, you know you'd better be single!

2. Don't be sad.

This is stupid, but it is also completely inevitable. When you break up with your lover, you will begin to like those sad and painful songs, like those empty walls and the beautiful scenery of half-empty wine glasses. Stare at the wall for a while, then slowly walk backwards until the hypnotic effect of the blank wall disappears. Read books instead, or play stupid games on the tablet.

3. Remember the rule of no contact.

We like to break the rules, especially the rule of no contact after breaking up. When you avoid your lover in this relationship, you will be happier. But now that you are mentally forbidden to contact your ex, you may feel very affectionate towards your ex. Gee, you may even miss your predecessor. But there is no contact rule for a reason.

4. Keep yourself busy doing what you like.

Will reduce the chance of falling into chaos, love and desire. Whenever you miss your ex, you always slap yourself in the face. If this doesn't work or your cheeks become mottled and red, going shopping, watching movies or playing games can force time to fly by in your hurry.

5. Take some time out of love.

Remember, love is a trap that will eventually lead to unbearable pain. Believe in this idea for the time being. What kind of relationship do you like? Flirting and groping. So go there and do two things. Just don't fall in love.

6. Do what you have always wanted to do.

Yes, you are happy in love. But in fact, how many things have you sacrificed? You gave up those late-night chicken soup for your lovely friends, gave up grinding with other sexy people, and gave up many things you like to do. Now that you are free, indulge what you like and let your life come back.