Article 19: Accompanying ideas

? The year 2020 is finally coming to an end. Standing at the end of the year, I have no nostalgia, I don't want to look back, I just want to turn the page quickly.

? However, 2020 is destined to go down in history and will leave a deep imprint on everyone's heart during the experience. In the face of this sudden epidemic, success is redefined and wealth is forgotten. "Being alive" has become the best blessing for each other. During the epidemic, medical staff became the most lovely people of this era. In the face of danger, their responsibility and dedication make the whole society have a new understanding of medical staff, and no amount of praise is enough to express their respect.

? Because my family works in a hospital, my father met many doctors and nurses during his two-year hemodialysis career in County People's Hospital/KLOC-0. So I know more about the hardships of the medical industry and the regret of impermanence of life and death than ordinary people. Last year, in the last eight months of his life, my father wandered between the ward, hemodialysis room and intensive care unit. As a family member of an elderly patient, he witnessed the hardships of medical staff more truly, felt the truest humanity, and had a deeper understanding of medical care, life and humanity. Record what you see and feel today, pay tribute to the doctor and pay tribute to life.

Hemodialysis room-the patient's second home

This is a special department. These are some special patients. They walked in the street, seemingly normal. In fact, they are a group of people who rely on machines to maintain their lives. They repeat for more than four hours three times a week for many years until the end of their lives. They have basically lost their labor force, can't work, can't walk far, drag down their families and wronged themselves. For them, hemodialysis is just to live, and living is hemodialysis.

Today, there are 46 machines in the hemodialysis room of the county people's hospital, with more than 160 patients. Every morning and afternoon, when boarding the plane, patients waiting at the door file in. The nurse greeted the patient's name familiarly, and the patient consciously changed his shoes, barked and reported his weight, which was very tacit. Hemodialysis rooms are mostly old patients, ranging from three to five years to seventeen or eight years. Because of this, the nurse-patient relationship in hemodialysis room is no longer a simple doctor-patient relationship, but a relationship of "not relatives but better than relatives". Nurses know the physical condition, personality, temper, hobbies and family situation of each patient.

Because you know, you are kind. The mood of hemodialysis patients is like a turbulent undercurrent, which will pour out once there is a gap. It is often not their wives and children, but the nurses in the hemodialysis room who can feel this kind of fluctuation in their hearts most. Only they can feel the despair and pain of the patients. Therefore, nurses in hemodialysis room are more patient than sons, more caring than daughters, and more professional than psychotherapists, while coping with complex blood vessels, sudden dangers and busy work, and should always capture patients' psychological changes. The patient was wronged outside and played a little temper when he was doing hemodialysis. Nurses not only didn't take offense, but used the treatment interval to quietly pull their families and do psychological counseling. Praise Doby, the patient cried several times and then began to cry. Therefore, many patients regard nurses as their relatives, share happy events and worry about things together, and the hemodialysis room is their second home.

Here, I sincerely thank the hemodialysis room, a special "home", for giving my father careful medical care and warm-hearted company in the last twelve years of his life.

Intensive care unit

-there is no ward where the sun and the moon alternate.

? There has always been a saying on the Internet that if one wants to know the meaning of life, it is best to visit three places: hospital, prison and crematorium.

Allow me to add that it is best to go to the intensive care unit (ICU) of the hospital.

In my life, I'd better never step into ICU as a patient or a patient's family. This is my truest thought at the moment.

Dad was admitted to the ICU repeatedly because of his illness after the operation in June 5438+last year 10. As an accompanying family member, I witnessed the fragility and struggle of life, and also witnessed the hardships and difficulties of ICU medical staff. The patients here, old and young, men and women, are all naked and have no dignity in order to cooperate with the treatment. Because there is no place to talk about dignity here. The patients here are all inserted with various tubes: tracheal intubation, infusion tube, catheter, stomach tube, dialysis tube and so on. Some patients will never wake up (vegetative), some will fall into a coma, some will scream in pain, some will be so weak ... they are all fighting death.

Nurses in ICU are all in the mood for love. After work, they may be drinking coffee, drinking milk tea and holding their boyfriends' flowers, but at work, they are always witnessing the cruelest picture of life, and even calling "Grandpa" and "Grandma" to help them turn over, wipe their backs and suck phlegm in the drizzle. ...

ICU is a place around the clock, with lights on 24 hours a day. Because there are no stable patients here, we should always observe, treat and rescue them. In the middle of the night, the outside world is quiet, but here is always the sound of various therapeutic instruments, mixed with the footsteps of nurses. I have been thinking for several times that if I have a daughter working in ICU, I will feel distressed.

Dear little nurse, although I am familiar with your figure, your voice and your eyes, I have never seen your true face under the mask. If you are in Lu Yu, I may not know you, but please believe that I have decided that you are the most lovely person in my mind!

? Ward Nanny —— A profession with mixed opinions.

In life, common nannies are divided into several categories. The first nanny takes care of the baby full-time. Although there are many things, the baby is growing up every day, lively and lovely, and still has feelings after a long time. The second kind of nanny cooks, washes and cleans instead of the hostess, and eats and lives with the host. Generally, the families who serve are quite rich, and the nanny enjoys it. The third category is the nanny who takes care of patients specially, which is called ward nanny! As the saying goes: there is no dutiful son in front of the hospital bed for a long time, let alone an unrelated nanny. Even relatives are dirty, they can't clean their bodies, and they can pick up phlegm and pour urine. The nanny must be doing this for the money. But if you do, will your family feel at ease? There is no distinction between high and low occupations, and I have no intention or dare to denigrate the profession of nanny. However, it is an indisputable fact that the professional quality of ward nannies is generally low. See grandma and dad in the same ward, very sick, and said nothing. I heard that the children have paid for their meals separately, but the nanny has to eat three meals in the morning. It's probably really terrible when nursing, but she just tries not to look elsewhere and refuses to eat. Jaco, an old neighbor, was hospitalized. My mother and I went to visit, just as the nanny was feeding, fried rice was a little dry. Jaco had difficulty swallowing and choked several times after a small stroke. If it is a family member, he will pat his back and feed it slowly, but the nanny seems to be unable to hear our reminder, deadpan, and put rice into Jaco's mouth at a constant speed within a few seconds. The best friend of the hospital said that after many years as a nurse, this kind of thing has been seen a lot. The patient is just a nanny's money-making tool. Of course, the nanny's attitude towards the patient is related to the child's attention. Children visit frequently, so the nanny can't expect too much for fear of patients complaining. The child thinks that he has paid the money and comes here every three to five times. Your parents may be a little miserable. If the child is far away from home and entrusts the nanny with full authority, it will be considered as writing Les Miserables.

In another twenty or thirty years, we will all be in a single family. There are at least four old people on each young couple. When people are old, a little headache and brain fever are not a problem, and it is just as well to directly cross myocardial infarction and cerebral hemorrhage. I'm afraid I'll fight a protracted war to death. Children have a career and a life, so they can't stay in your ward all day. So it is no exaggeration to say that our old age is probably related to the ward nanny. Don't feel how beautiful, handsome, successful and multi-level you were when you were young. When you are old and sick, you may have to look at the nanny's face one day when you drink saliva and pee.

About medical care, life and death and others

Nowadays, mud and sand are everywhere, most people are trapped in it, and few people really care about their health. Headache and brain fever, hanging needles in the yard is just an episode in life, working overtime, getting drunk, staying up late, indulging ... When you are declared seriously ill one day, you are caught off guard and desperate. So Chinese medicine and western medicine have been exhausted, and all kinds of therapies have been exhausted. That's exactly what I said: Most people exchange health for money when they are young, and money for health when they are old. Not to mention spending money to lose money, but also dragging the whole family to run together. Being sick is never a person's business, especially long-term hospitalization, which tests the energy of the whole family.

The doctor-patient relationship should be the closest relationship, and a successful treatment is the result of good cooperation between doctors and patients. The professionalism of doctors and timely feedback from patients are indispensable. Patients questioning and confronting the doctor's profession will only delay the treatment of the disease. Doctors are unprofessional and careless, and patients are like mirrors. Doctors should be good doctors and patients should be good patients, which are all within the scope of their duties. Killing doctors will only make doctors more cautious and conservative, and it will not help the progress of the overall medical level. It is the sorrow of the whole society, and the consequences will be borne directly or indirectly by you and me one day. Because in this world, no one is an island.

People often say that money is a thing apart from the body! This is only half right at best. When family members are dying, money will bring more convenience and dignity. Go to a superior hospital, live in a VIP ward, use imported medicine, and hire a ward nanny. Family members will not give up treatment because of money, and they can live for a few more days. Therefore, you should earn more money while being healthy, at least when your family is sick, you don't have to worry about money.

I went to the hospital, experienced a serious illness, and suddenly looked back, only to know that there is another definition of success: an 80-year-old man died of natural causes.