The teacher keeps calling me, saying that children can't control themselves in class. What should I do?

It is common for children in lower grades to talk, do little tricks and be distracted in class, which is related to their age characteristics. How to solve the problem of children's love of talking is very important for parents and teachers to guide them correctly.

? What if children always talk in class?

1. Parents should spend more time with their children and take every opportunity to communicate and interact with them to improve their mood. For example, play games with children, communicate with children more, guide children to speak freely and fully express their ideas.

2. Parents should keep in touch with teachers and keep abreast of their children's performance in class. Once a child has a problem, parents should first control their emotions, face it calmly, discuss with the teacher more, solve it rationally, and don't scold the child.

3. If children have some incorrect behaviors in their daily life, parents should give correct guidance in time. Parents should help their children develop good study habits, which can effectively improve their bad habits of speaking in class.

Parents should let their children learn to reflect on themselves. Only when children realize their mistakes will they correct them. When children make mistakes, parents should guide them to choose the right way to deal with them, so as to effectively solve the problem of children's love of talking in class.

5. Improve children's attention in a reasonable way. Many children often talk to each other in class, which is also the most serious behavior that disturbs the class order. Faced with this situation, parents can solve it by playing small games. ? "Draw a black spot with a diameter of 5 mm on a piece of white paper, and let the children concentrate on it. When a child sees a black spot turning into a small white sun, it means that the child is focused. " In addition, parents can go to the bookstore to buy a book about attention training to train their children's attention. Through effective training, children's attention will be greatly improved.

? The reason why children always talk in class:

1, children lack interest in learning.

Interest in learning is a kind of motivation. If you are not interested, you can talk nonsense in class. To solve these children's discipline problems, we should start with cultivating and strengthening their interest in learning. It is worth noting that children's interest in learning is related to their close relationship with teachers.

2. Poor self-control.

Self-control is the ability to control yourself. When children are young, their self-control ability is relatively low, which is manifested in talking nonsense, making small moves and even walking around at will in class.

3. Conflict with the teacher.

Sometimes, due to simple teaching methods or teachers' careless work, some children are criticized, over-responsible, and even sarcastic, which makes children have resistance to teachers.