Learn a mature classic: if you can't beat yourself, you must learn to be at the mercy of fate.

First, don't laugh at "leftover women". 90% of the "leftover women" are not unwanted, but she is rejecting 90% of people.

Second, in ordinary life, modesty and hard work. One day, you will stand in the brightest place and live the life you once longed for.

Third, the journey of life is a struggle between strength and cowardice. If you can't beat yourself, you must learn to be at the mercy of fate.

When an enemy becomes a friend, it is more reliable than a friend, and when a friend becomes an enemy, it is more dangerous than the enemy. It's good to know something, needless to say. It's good that some people know each other. There's no need to be intimate.

Five, people have three things can't hide, cough, poverty, love; You want to hide the broken glass. People should not squander three things: body, money and love; You want to splurge, but it's not worth the loss.

Six, life is exquisite, is a thousand words, no one will live for a great epitaph.

Seven, now is the best, don't say there is still a long time. Time is hard to stay, only gone forever.

Eight, in the so-called world, there is a truth: everything will pass.

Nine, there is always an unreachable distance in life, and there is always a heart that can't be knocked open. Actually, you don't need to knock too much. You just need to knock on your door and find your heart.

X. Daughter's body, male sex. Keen but not fragile, deep and respectful. The vast feelings of mountains and rivers and deserts, the pragmatic duty of daily necessities. Walk freely in the world, be bold and unrestrained, and behave appropriately.

The mature classic says: learn to endure loneliness before you mature.

First, maturity does not depend on how old you are, but on how much responsibility your shoulders can provoke. True happiness is earned bit by bit and accumulated day by day. Don't hurt the people who love you, and don't let the people you love get hurt.

Second, the uncertainty is not in the other person's heart, and there is no need to test emotions at all. It is enough to have those well-known feelings.

Third, we can forget the past, but we must let it go.

Fourth, just because a good-tempered person is not easy to get angry doesn't mean that he won't get angry; Just because a person with a good personality is playing dumb doesn't mean there is no bottom line.

Five, along the way, every season is incomplete, and every story has a dark wound.

Six, two people together is to be happy, break up is to alleviate the pain, you can't make me happy anymore, I have to leave. When I left, I was also in pain. However, you must be more miserable than me, because I said goodbye first, and I was the first person to pursue happiness.

Seven, the things that have gone can't be kept, and the lost feelings can't be loved anymore. If you could stay and love, there wouldn't be today.

Eight, when you determine your principles, don't give in again and again, learn to say no, and learn to be yourself.

Make your own decisions, and then be prepared to bear the consequences. Remind yourself from the beginning that there is no regret medicine in the world, and I will always have a plan B.

10. In an era when idealism is widely ridiculed, one should persist in being an idealist, not because of naivety, but because of spiritual maturity and consciousness.

In the early days of life, the more troublesome and lazy you are, the more likely you are to miss the people and things you are interested in and the new scenery later.

Twelve, don't take everything seriously, don't go to a dead end, don't be too proud, don't be narrow-minded. Don't care, it is an open-minded and free and easy.

Thirteen, there are so many things worth loving in this world. When we discover this, we will not be afraid of pain and loss. Don't be afraid of loneliness, learn to spare no effort to what you love.

Whenever you say "I love you", please be sincere. Whenever you say "I'm sorry", please look the other person in the eye.

Fifteen, love is not precious until it is separated, and many people don't know how to cherish it. I didn't find it until I lost it. In fact, what I know best is the most precious.

Sixteen, love a person, is to grow up with him for a long time and die together in the last few years of life.

17. Don't try to make any excuses for yourself. No one likes the excuses before mistakes.

I don't know what to say, but I suddenly miss her at that moment.

Each of us lives in our own past. It takes a minute to get to know someone, an hour to like someone, a day to love someone, and finally, it takes a lifetime to forget someone.

Twenty, growing up and maturing are two different things. I like growing up and hate maturity. Growing up is a sad thing, because maturity contains restraint, forbearance and hypocrisy. If something is not yours, it will never be yours. This is for you. You take it.

Twenty-one, love is like picking fruit, picking it too early, the fruit is not mature, bitter and astringent, and it is difficult to swallow; Picked too late, the fruit is fully mature, either falling from the branches or being preempted by others. Picking fruits in time is not only a kind of wisdom, but also a kind of fate.

Life is short, you should go crazy, love, waste, dream and regret.

Twenty-three, people's feelings are sometimes like sweaters. You should be careful when knitting. Just pull it gently when you open it, maybe it's just a joke, maybe it's an unintentional misunderstanding, and all the feelings will never be seen again! There are not many friends, but you are in the storm; No matter how long you have been in love, it is important to be responsive.

24. Don't trample on your dignity. You can live without him, but you can't live without dignity. Remember, he doesn't love you and he can't see anything you do.

Twenty-five, even if individuals can wait, the times are hasty and are already being destroyed, and more harm is yet to come.

Twenty-six, find some time alone.

Twenty-seven, the so-called maturity is to truly understand the decline of life. There must be a reason for gains and losses. No longer resist, accept this desolation calmly. There were more and more joys and more losses. Once dazzling, it will be dim. Treat the sadness of life with an accepting attitude. Don't leave anything.

Twenty-eight, graduation is a cruel season, mature and immature to harvest together; Cherish the happiness in front of you, don't wait until you lose it to regret it; Don't make promises easily; Please continue to be ambitious. Great ideals may not come true, but you will move forward and not fall down.

Twenty-nine, from each according to his ability, and strive to achieve a hundred points.

30. Life is when you take an umbrella and it doesn't rain, but you forget to take it when it rains. Life is that the boss didn't see it when he worked hard, and was caught when he was lazy to fish; Life is that the man you like doesn't like me, and the man you don't like still doesn't like me; Life is when you start to think about what life is, and you mature.

Thirty-one, don't choose love because you are lonely. In fact, a person can have many beautiful things.

32. When a woman meets love, she will become cautious and find all the shortcomings of a man.

No matter how sad you are, don't show it easily. There is no need for others to bear your pain.

34. Love is when a person turns from a one-way street to a two-way street with a hazy mood.

Thirty-five, broad-minded. Mature men don't haggle over every ounce, don't covet petty advantages, don't care about eating small losses, and don't complain endlessly. Their eyes are never caught by trivial matters, and they are often "angels who turn back first" in small family quarrels.

I don't want my family to start with lies. It's disgusting.

Thirty-seven, some things, not care, but care. There are no ifs in life, only consequences and results. Maturity is to face all the little things with a smile.

Don't just live for yourself. People don't live just for themselves. Parents, lovers, children. Maybe we will do many things we don't like, but please don't complain about them. Because love is a responsibility and a responsibility.

Thirty-nine, not self-centered. Mature men respect themselves and others. They are good at empathy, will consider problems from the standpoint of others, do not force others to accommodate themselves, and are good at cooperating with others. All men "like me" are typical little emperors and have not grown up.

Forty, pointing to my heart, I tell you, there are wounds you scratched here.

41. Many people's so-called maturity has just been worn away by customs and become sophisticated and practical. That's not maturity, but premature mental decline and premature death of personality. True maturity should be the formation of unique personality, the discovery of true self, spiritual results and gains.

Forty-two, walk with your head held high. When you are in a bad mood, you don't want to say hello, nod and smile, and walk straight through.

43. Society is hierarchical and many things are unfair. Don't complain because it's useless.

44. If you are afraid of failure, you will never succeed.

Forty-five, learn to endure loneliness, and you will mature.

Forty-six, love this thing, time is critical. It doesn't matter whether you meet too early or too late.

47. People's biggest opponent is often not others, but their own laziness. Don't count on luck. Luck can't be with you forever. You have to rely on your own ability to eat at any time. You must do your best to qualify as unlucky.

48. Don't lie, because you will be exposed one day.

49. Some troubles are imaginary, but we regard them as real.

In this world, there is an angel in everyone's life, but it is not absolutely only when you meet someone who really loves you and you love him, then you find an angel in life!

I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I can be before you.

52. Mature people need masks. Put it on and face the society strongly; Take it off and be gentle with your family.

Do what others don't want to do today, and you can do what others can't do tomorrow!

Roses are always beautiful. She can make you feel immersed in your heart, and she will also make you feel the pain of being stabbed in your finger.

55. Sometimes, there is no next time, no chance to start again, no pause to continue. Sometimes, if you miss the present, you will never get another chance.

It's hard to love someone, and it's even harder to give up the person you love. When a man meets love, he will become tolerant and tolerate all the weaknesses of a woman.

There are so many cities and pubs in the world, but she just walked into mine.

Fifty-eight, sometimes, your words can make me remember for a few days. Sometimes, your words can disappoint me for days. This is caring.

Fifty-nine, clean and tidy. Mature men respect their appearance. They keep the hairstyle that suits them best, their chins are clean and stubble-free, their faces are not greasy, and they don't leave long nails. Clothes don't have to be famous brands, but they should be neat and generous, and they won't be wrinkled like couriers. They will never wear black shoes with white socks or travel in suits.

60. Maturity is a bright and unobtrusive brilliance, a mellow and non-greasy music, a calmness that no longer needs to observe others, an atmosphere that finally stops complaining to the surroundings, a smile that ignores the hustle and bustle, and a kind of extreme indifference.

Sixty-one, the only thing that can make you let go is the following nine words: eat, sleep and love.

Never judge a book by its cover. Speak slowly, but think quickly.

Sixty-three, time is a wonderful thing, forgive the unforgivable, the past can not pass, maybe I occasionally want to go back to the previous time, but I know that people always have to learn to look forward.

The most tiring thing in the world is that you have been living a hypocritical life.

Sixty-five, before love begins, you can never imagine loving someone like that; You can never imagine that love will disappear before it is over; Before love is forgotten, you can never imagine, and unforgettable love will only leave a faint trace; Love, just say it out loud, because you never know which will come first, tomorrow or accident!

Sixty-six, when you have nothing, you will always cling to warm things.

67. No matter what choice you make, is it the right choice? Please don't regret. Time can't go back, everyone is responsible for everyone's mistakes. A mature person should know how to be responsible for his actions. Many times, what is missed will never come back.

68. Don't comfort me if you leave me, because every sewing will also meet the pain of puncture.

Sixty-nine, no regrets. No matter what choice you make, is it the right choice? Please don't regret. Time can't go back, everyone is responsible for everyone's mistakes. A mature person should know how to be responsible for his actions. Many times, he missed it and never came back.

Seventy, don't brag. A mature man never speaks casually. He will keep a proper silence and speak clearly, but he won't shout. Just drink a little wine and tell your story all over the table. You can hear it in half a room without a speaker. This kind of man will laugh at the audience at most, and no one will take your so-called "road to struggle" to heart.

Seventy-one, there are some things we say but can't do, that is, we are still young; There are some things that we do without saying it, and that is maturity.

72. One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange songs. Then one day, you will find that the things you have tried so hard to forget are really gone.

Seventy-three, love, either makes people mature or degenerate. Love hasn't come yet, and life is carefree; The most painful things are tests and exams. I felt a lot of pressure at that time, but in retrospect, it was so small.

Seventy-four, if you want to cultivate a person who can do great things, you must let him suffer hardships and be dissatisfied, so as to develop a patient character.

Learn to give up, learn to bear, learn to be strong, and learn to smile.

Introduction: The most beautiful scenery in life should be hard work. Hard work is a mental state of life and a childlike love for life. Effort is the mother of possession, and possession is the son of effort. All roads lead to Rome. Therefore, instead of stipulating what kind of person you must be and what you will get, it is better to hone yourself to be a hard-working person.

1. Life is like love. If you miss love, you miss life. What is love? It makes people more attractive, confused and fascinated. When facing love, be brave and speak your love boldly. If there are flowers, be sure to pick them straight. Don't wait until they are empty. People will always be born and die, and how to live is a lifetime. If you miss love, you miss a wonderful life.

2. When I was a child, I hoped I would grow up quickly. When I grew up, I found that I lost my childhood. When I was single, I began to envy the sweetness of my lover. When I am in love, I miss the freedom when I am single. A lot of things always feel beautiful when they are not obtained. Only when they are obtained do they begin to understand, and when they are obtained, they are lost. There are gains and losses, and face them indifferently.

I want to stand on my own feet in this world, have enough influence and money to protect the people I want to protect, and I will not be defeated in the face of any sudden disaster.

4, accustomed to weakness, the heart will gradually become weak, accustomed to dependence, will gradually forget how to rely on yourself. Once tears lose their effectiveness, once they fall into a helpless situation, how can they protect their loved ones and themselves if they become weak?

5. What if you don't like it? It's good to know. It is impossible to ask everyone in the world to be your friends and people who care about you. Cherish those who are kind to you, and let the rest go!

I love you very much, but I don't know how to get close to you, so I think it's ok to leave. It makes no difference. The result is the same anyway. It doesn't matter whether it is good or bad. What's important is that I once had a crush on you, just like a carved chair in the late Qing Dynasty. Love is a science, and it takes a lifetime to learn management.

I want to give you happiness, but I can't enter your world. I want to trade my whole world for a ticket to your world, but that's just my wishful thinking. My world, you don't care; Your world, I was exiled. I really like you. I closed my eyes and thought I could forget, but the tears I shed didn't deceive myself. Promise yourself that you will bear all this alone.

8, don't let happiness pass by, the person who knows you best will always protect you by your side, and won't let you feel a little wronged; People who really love you may not say much about loving you, but they will do a lot of things that love you. If you find such a person around you, please cherish it ... happiness will not wait for you all the time, and the person who loves you and the person you love will not appear at any time. Grasp it well and don't let yourself pass by happiness.

9. I should have understood that the most beautiful thing is not the moment of success, but the hardships in the struggle afterwards.

10, life, there is no eternal pain, there is no hurdle. Let's learn from the willow tree, which looks weak but tough, and the wind blows constantly; The trunk is too strong, but it will break in the wind. Learn to give up, learn to bear, learn to be strong, learn to smile, that is a different kind of beauty! Giving up properly is an elegant turn of life.

1 1. God will not only care for a person forever, but also give her a lot of luck and suffering in the future. All she can do is to seize the opportunity of happiness and try to reach the highest possible level. Therefore, we can't miss any opportunity.

12, not to compare with others, but to surpass yourself. If you want to cry, you can cry with excitement. smile happily shows a growing character.

13 is an enemy who is happy for your sadness, a friend who is happy for your happiness, and a confidant who is sad for your sadness.

People are forced out. Everyone has potential, born in happiness and died in worry, so don't be anxious when facing pressure. Maybe this is just a little life test for you. Believe in yourself, everything can be handled well. If you are in a hurry, you can go to Liangshan, where the times make heroes, and the poor will think about change. Only when there is pressure can there be motivation.

15, as long as there is hope in the heart, there is happiness.

16, simple life can lead to happiness. People should be self-sufficient, always happy, tolerant and generous, and nothing can be complicated. If the mental load is heavy, they will complain and worry about others. Delete your memory regularly and discard unpleasant people and things from your memory.

17 I occasionally think that if life is really like a video game, if you don't play well, you can choose to start over. What will life be like? It is precisely because time is gone forever and every day can't be recovered, so we should cherish every inch of time, honor our parents, love our children, be considerate of our lovers and be kind to our friends.

18, man, don't be self-righteous. Without the earth, everyone will turn. Throughout the ages, arrogant people have no good end. Therefore, no matter how capable you are, you should be modest and prudent and do your own thing well, because gold will always shine.

19, not very strong, can't appreciate the delicious wine, but can feel the beauty of knowing yourself and yourself. Life without friends is lonely and incomplete. However, because of the busy life, the contact is gradually less, and the friendship becomes weak. So, take some time to contact friends and chat, so that friendship can rise in laughter. When a friend is in trouble, he must remember to stand up. Even if they can't help, comfort is the greatest support.

20, people, it is always difficult to correct their own shortcomings, people, it is always difficult to find their own mistakes, sometimes, knowing that they are wrong, but can not stop, make mistakes again, grasp the direction, adhere to their own principles, there are many temptations in the world, the pie will never fall in the sky, don't pay a painful price for temporary happiness, if you find a mistake, you must stop.

2 1. There are two tragedies in life: despair and complacency. Modern people seem particularly vulnerable. Every day, newspapers report that many celebrities suffer from depression. These people must have gone from one extreme to the other. It is because of complacency that I firmly believe that I am perfect and omnipotent. If I suffer a little setback, I will become extremely inferior and even lose the courage to continue living. Find the right position for yourself and enjoy life.

22. To succeed, you need friends. To achieve great success, you need enemies. There is competition to develop. Because of the existence of the enemy and indomitable determination, we will try our best to do our own thing well. So, sometimes, enemies are stronger than friends. There are no eternal enemies in the world, but there are eternal friends. Sometimes, enemies can be friends.

23. Perhaps the more beautiful things are, the more fragile they are, just like the summer bubble.

24. No one is always seventeen, but there will always be seventeen. I grew up because I relied on a memory that only I remember. Long enough to face all the ups and downs in the world bravely.

25. I always like afternoon sunshine. It makes me believe that everything in this world will turn for the better, and I believe that fate is generous and beautiful. We will grow up eventually, and grow up quietly with a feeling of no regrets. In the final analysis, growth is a kind of happiness.

Editor's Note: On the road of life, we are all running, we are always catching up with some people, and we are always being surpassed by some people. The essence of life is to appreciate the scenery along the way and to reach a distant destination. The secret of life is to find a speed that suits you best. Don't be overwhelmed by illness, and don't waste your life because of slowness. The happiness of life, go your own way, see your own scenery, surpass others' dissatisfaction, and others will surpass without losing their ambition. In despair, look up at the sky and think about the meaning of existence.

Learn to grow into a mature personality.

1. What is growth? Growing up means that we no longer love and worship blindly. Growing up means that we finally learn to look back from the distant sky and cast our eyes on the solid ground.

As for the universe, no one is lonely unless all the people who love him are dead, but that's all. The person who loves him is not dead, and he is still not lonely!

In this life, it's always good to have one or two hobbies.

4. Short reunion, short excitement, dreamlike.

Traveling without you is wandering. I didn't know how painful this sentence was until I read Sanmao's works, and I didn't know its true meaning. Everyone has his own suffering, which is unclear.

6. I really want to read my favorite books like this.

7. Some things are meaningless if they are divided too clearly.

8. I used to say that I couldn't sleep, but now it seems that I was not tired enough at that time.

9. Life when you grow up is like this: it will neither make you too happy nor completely disappoint you.

10. There is a place called heaven in front of the dream.

1 1. Keeping love in your heart will only lead to loneliness and decay. It is better to send love out and build a bridge to make others happy.

12. Growth is a transaction, and we all exchange innocence and impersonal whiteness for the courage to grow up.

13. The so-called growth is to force you to get hurt and force you to be strong.

14. To love someone is to grow up with him for a long time and die together in the last few years of life.

15. Everyone's growth is accompanied by terrible pain. The more mature, the more black and blue. When they fall, they are no longer afraid of pain, and this is the moment of real maturity.

16. This is a test from the past. People grow up to overcome their immature past.

17. Growth is like this, painful and happy. You have to accept all the harm that the world has brought you, and then grow up without fear.

18. Growth is a transformation. When the old one is lost, it must be because the new one has come. This is fairness.

19. People must be injured to be silent and focused. No matter whether it is mental or physical trauma, it is beneficial to growth.

20. Growth means being gentle, restrained, simple, not complaining, not asking, not remembering, and gradually realizing the greatness of life in silence.

2 1. People are full of vitality, self-repentance, self-reflection and self-growth; Don't complain to anyone.

22. There will be many farewells in one's life. And every farewell is accompanied by pain, which is called growth.

Sometimes, we have to shut up, put down our pride and admit that we are wrong. This is not to admit defeat, but to grow up.

24. The secret of many things in the world lies in one sentence. Only when you grow up can you understand the meaning of this word.

25. Eggs, food is broken from the outside, and life is broken from the inside; Life, what is broken from the outside is pressure, and what is broken from the inside is growth.

26. Each of us should learn to grow, and to learn to grow, we must first learn to face loneliness and learn to be strong.

27. Life always makes us black and blue, but later, those injuries will eventually grow into our strongest place.

28. Men grow up in this process, that is, in the process of abandoning others and being abandoned.

29. The older you grow, the more timid you become. I don't know whether the world stumbles the brisk pace or the years have worn away the brave heart.

30. It is probably because you don't have the courage to worry that you become so-called mature and steady.

3 1. With the slow growth, the young soul has matured, and the original simple things have gradually become complicated.

32. Human growth is not knowledge. In fact, there is a core problem behind everyone's growth, that is, he knows that time has passed.

33. Only when you stand at the peak of success and look back at yourself who had nothing in the past can you grow up in the surging heart of Cang Sang.