Is there any girl who can tell me about her experience?

1. Take it seriously.

This is the basis of everything. Since you absolutely pursue or accept it, you must seriously treat the other person as a partner who will spend a lifetime together in the future. Neither cowards nor cowards are worthy of true love.

Don’t stop being sincere just because you are afraid of getting hurt in the end. Love is not a college entrance examination. What matters is the process, not the result.

Don’t treat yourself and the other person’s feelings casually with a dissolute heart. In the end, it will be really miserable if you are unable to love.

2. Do not do to others what you want others to do to you.

What you like to do, what you think is useful to you, what you think is the right way to behave, and what you think is a reliable direction in life - don’t impose it on anyone, of course you can’t impose it on anyone. The stranger finally forced himself on his lover.

3. Do what others like, rather than being moved by yourself.

Many, many, many boys (myself included), when they first fall in love, always have the feeling that I want to give all my heart, liver, and lungs to the girl.

4. The basis of love is equality. Equality brings trust, and equality gives freedom.

If you dig deeper into this sentence, you can cure many problems.

Don’t spread your own ideas, lifestyle, and life path under the banner of “being good to you”—especially to your lover and relatives.

The basis of this idea is - I am better than you, I have been there, I am smarter than you, I want to help you and guide you.

Because you are powerful, you don’t trust her; because you don’t trust her, you don’t give her freedom.