What if my mother-in-law doesn't like my family?

1, first analyze the reasons why my mother-in-law doesn't like her family.

Mother-in-law doesn't like your mother's house, which means she must have a sense of superiority. I don't like what your family does. We can analyze the reasons why her mother-in-law doesn't like her from her daily words and deeds, such as her mother-in-law has no money, her brothers and sisters are in poor condition, and her brothers and sisters always ask you to come forward to deal with the aftermath. She hates the dowry she gave at the beginning.

If your mother-in-law always beats around the bush and says ugly things, then you don't have to refute them, as long as you have a clear conscience. Your mother's house is also your house. It is impossible to give up your biological parents because of her mother-in-law's dislike.

2. Rely on the husband to ease the relationship.

It is normal for two generations to have different ideas and contradictions. You can rely on your husband to ease the relationship and make your mother-in-law more friendly to her family. Now we are a family behind closed doors, and our daughter-in-law is not an outsider, so we can't always make irresponsible remarks about her family. This is not conducive to the harmonious development of families. Let the husband come forward and analyze the pros and cons with his mother-in-law, and stop pretending to be superior, which will only aggravate the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

3. Make her mother-in-law change by her own efforts.

Your mother's family is your home for the first half of your life, and your husband's family is your home for the second half of your life. Both families are important. If it is because her mother-in-law dislikes her poor economic conditions, she will make money by herself. Women must be financially independent! This is the bottom spirit of the counterattack! Find things that touch the principle and the bottom line and solve them decisively in the first time. Don't think that patience can bring corresponding understanding and goodwill. Human nature is bullying people, not to mention that she is your mother-in-law and your elder.

In marriage, please make important decisions from the perspective of your own interests. Only if you live well can the people you care about be happy because of you. You are married, so it is not convenient to interfere in your mother's affairs. Then take some practical actions to change her mother-in-law.