Nanny, two or three things

My family never hired a nanny before giving birth. Since I gave birth to two children, my mother-in-law didn't help, my mother worked too hard, and my husband and I had to go to work, so we had to hire two nannies at home.

My requirement is that the house is clean and free from dust, and the most important thing is to take good care of the children. Most nannies who have worked in my family think that we are more reasonable as employers.

This nanny has been working for two years. In the past two years, there have been seven or eight nannies coming from my house, except for three, all of them have been replaced because they are too wonderful. For example, those who believe in Buddhism will not cook meat dishes; If you come out to work and don't adjust your mentality; Concerned about the employer's business; Blx always wants to be lazy ... In short, in recent years, various nannies have directly refreshed their views on the nanny industry, and the world is really wonderful, especially the nanny industry. To tell the truth, finding an ideal nanny can only be a dream. It is very, very difficult for a few people to do their duty without causing trouble to their employers.

Why?

Generally speaking, most nannies don't find their own position, do their jobs well, lack the skills to get along with others, and finally can't integrate into the employer's family.

Employers who can afford to hire nannies have good economic conditions, while nannies generally have poor economic conditions. Differences in living conditions will lead to differences in culture, education, literacy, knowledge and many other aspects, which is also the biggest gap between people at the two levels.

My family found a nanny through a well-known domestic housekeeping service company. After communicating with many nannies later, most of the intermediaries did not have formal training for these ordinary nannies. The so-called training is also a formality, just like every nanny has a small red book-health certificate. Therefore, the quality of nannies is uneven, and most of them come out to be nannies because of economic difficulties, because the industry threshold is low, the market demand is large, and the wages are not low. According to statistics, the monthly salary of second-and third-tier cities is 3K-4K, and that of cities above the second tier is 5000K+, with a monthly salary of tens of thousands.

However, this industry itself is a service industry, and its job is to clean up and serve the family, so it is inevitable to be crowned as a "servant". Even if employers don't think so, they will gradually be replaced by nannies after getting along with them for a long time.

My first nanny, Pang Jie, is also the longest-serving aunt at present. Needless to say, we workers have strength. She experienced the last glorious stage of China's light industry. After all, she worked in a famous factory in China. After years of organizational discipline and ideological education, she is still relatively self-disciplined and observant.

Pang Jie's family is not short of money, and she has always been open to the outside world. Her husband's family also divided several houses in the reconstruction of the village in the city. Fat sister hates her mother-in-law, and often says that she can do whatever she wants after her death.

Fat sister likes copying her employer's shopping very much. Generally speaking, she will buy whatever the employer can afford. Therefore, I don't think I have made any money during the period when I came to work in my home. She will ask me to help her buy things from time to time.

The nanny who works in my house at the same time as Pang Jie has a nanny named Shi Jie, who is lazy by nature and always smart. Whenever we appear in her sight, she will be very diligent. When we go to the bedroom to rest, she will lie on the sofa to rest, or when we can't see, she will say loudly, "It's time to feed the baby" and "I'll apply some medicine to the eczema baby". In fact, she is really just talking. When the child has a little resistance to eating, she stops feeding at once. When the child is hungry and crying, she will say, "It is the child who doesn't eat, not me who doesn't feed."

Although Shi Jie is skinny, he eats a little more than a young man in his twenties and thirties, and pulls a little more accordingly. I looked for her several times and found her in the toilet. Every time she has meat and vegetables, she can definitely eat them cleanly.

Once, I came back late from work and was about to eat. I found that there were no meatballs in the melon meatball soup. My mother told me angrily: I ate a big pot of meatballs and finally let Xiaoshi eat them.

I can't help thinking of the time when I went to school for military training. A table for ten people, four dishes and one soup. The instructor asked us to eat standing up. At first, we didn't understand why we had to eat standing up. Later, after training, I went to the canteen to eat, and I suddenly realized-good food! Whoever is slow will starve! Now, senior sister makes me think hard. ...

When she dismissed Shi Jie, she looked very confused. I said I don't need a long time to remind me of China decades ago, and I don't have time to be with you. Do you really think you can play with people whose income is dozens of times that of you? She left without saying anything, her face was not red, her neck was not thick, and she didn't look embarrassed, just a little confused. Nothing. I have plenty of time to think when I go home.

After Ding Wei left, there was another Sun Jie at home. Although her surname is Sun, she always thought she was a grandfather.

Before Sun Jie came to my home, she only took over one client and worked in the home of a senior secretary in the province for one year. I thought, it's not crazy to be a nanny for more than a year. After getting along for a while, I think she is quite satisfied.

But I always felt that she was awkward at work, and finally I felt that she just couldn't put herself in the right position.

My husband just gave me a bottle of Givenchy perfume, and the next day this girl came to work wearing perfume. I said that you feel fragrant, and children will only feel smoked.

I just bought a set of tableware for Zyrna. Sister Sun asked me what brand it was. Then one day, Fat Sister winked at me and told me that Sister Sun had recently bought a set of tableware that looked almost the same.

For safety reasons, I usually ask the nanny what to do when I have nothing to do. Asked about Sister Sun, she said her husband was a businessman. I said we are in the same trade. What industry are we in? Sister Sun said evasively that she was doing some business on the other side of Liming Street.

I thought about it and said, oh, all the shops in the cloth industry have it. They must be dealing in cloth. She didn't say anything.

It can be seen from this that you are not telling the truth.

One day, my mother asked me, does your classmate who works in the industrial and commercial bureau still contact me? what did i say? I just know that Sun Jie's husband sells vegetables in the vegetable market. Recently, because of the planned land use, my husband's food stall was closed, and these scattered vegetable vendors were driven away. Sun Jie is worried that there is no place to rent a booth, so she wants to borrow her mother's enthusiasm to inquire about the nearby vegetable market.

During this period, due to the sharp decline of family economic conditions, Sister Sun frequently suffered child injuries in the process of taking care of her children. One night, I took time to talk to her about taking care of the children. I didn't expect her to resign just after I said a few words, because I deliberately found fault.

I said, okay. You don't have to come, but I want to find fault with you clearly.

Then in the next ten minutes, I said all kinds of "finding fault" and scolded her, but she couldn't say a word. First my face was flushed, and finally I thought it was purple before I left. I think this elderly person can't stand this kind of atmosphere. If she gets dizzy with me again, she will be in trouble, so she stopped and let her go.

? Pang Jie told me after work, "I should persuade her (Sun Jie) ... the employer is the leader, and it is appropriate to say a few words about you. Besides, I can't stand the way she has taken care of the children recently ..." At this time, Pang Jie was secretly pleased. Who doesn't like jokes?

? Before going to bed at night, I received a short message from Sister Sun. She said that what she said during the day was a little inappropriate and wanted to continue working in my house. I didn't answer her. I slept with the screen locked.

I dare not use people who have already torn their faces. What if they do something bad to my children? In fact, I tried to be lenient with them when I hired a nanny at home. Even if the nanny sometimes does not do well, I turn a blind eye to prevent them from being bad to the children. Unless you touch my bottom line.

After Sister Sun left, several particularly unreliable people came one after another.

? The first one is not much older than me. She is full of lies. She could change her age three times, and finally said she didn't remember. After working for two days, she made up a lie and left.

? My relatives introduced one and made fun of me on the first day, which scared me. I have no front teeth, and I am very superstitious ... I must go.

? It's almost the end of the year. Pang Jie went home to have an operation and rest because she was pregnant unexpectedly. A few days later, she came back to work and broke a bone because the snow was slippery. She said that she would catch up with her family this year, and all her relatives would be hospitalized nearby, and then she would continue to take turns to do it again. She didn't escape the robbery either. Wish her and her family all the best.

? Just before and after Pang Jie left, a Bluetooth headset I just bought disappeared. I have no other advantages, but I never leave things lying around. Particularly precious items will be cherished more. Bluetooth headset should be the first time to lose what you really love. Besides, the house is so big that I have looked everywhere and found nothing. But I have no evidence to prove who stole it.

After Pang Jie left, a new nanny came. I forgot her last name and worked in my house for two days. On the first day, she said that she was too tired. Let me think about it. I fell asleep on the sofa at noon the next day, dragged the floor all day, and basically didn't do other work. Since today is the last day, I'm too lazy to waste my breath with her.

? When she got off work at night, she said, I think it's ok today, so I'm not so tired.

? What the hell is this? No check.

I appreciate two nannies more than these beauties.

? Sister Niu is a new moon, and she will happen to take a job as an ordinary nanny just one month during the Chinese New Year. Her care for the children is the best since I became a nanny. Coupled with her family difficulties and personal pursuit of progress, I have to look at her with special respect. The key is that she really takes good care of the children, which is what I am most satisfied with.

? There is also a sister Liu, with a unique name, who is the protagonist of Stephen Chow's film. This girl's flashy appearance is really not worthy of the name, and during her work in my family, everyone felt too "sloppy". She is relatively calm about others and indifferent to what Pang Jie told her to do: nothing, don't listen to her. Although Liu Jie's working ability is average, she is a real person. She should have her own life beliefs, whether she believes in God or ghosts, or just tries to improve her family's life. At least she did it inside and outside.

? After working hard in my home for half a year, Sister Liu finally bid farewell to her career temporarily because of flashing waist.

For a while, I completely lost patience with finding a nanny. After a friend complained, there was a warm response of "I can't find a good nanny". The jobs of the nanny group are rather embarrassing. If you are not trained to standardize your behavior and work content, and both sides do not face up to each other's relationship, it will be more difficult to get along for a long time.

? I wish all the nannies in the world, talk less and do more, and be sincere in order to achieve your ultimate goal.