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1 Daughter-in-law can say in-laws outside, right? (In-laws do have problems) If you can, what kind of person should you talk to considering the impact?

As a mother's daughter-in-law, my warm suggestions are as follows:

1, I will definitely say. Not depending on your will. I'm embarrassed to say that there are contradictions after having children (I don't believe there is no friction). There are 10,000 kinds of happiness for young couples and 10,000 kinds of happiness for young mothers in this world, but there is one misfortune that is common all over the world-the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. This misfortune must be combined with subjective feelings. Everyone has the hope of telling and getting recognition. My mother-in-law will also say that my daughter-in-law will definitely say something to ease her mood or ask for help. I can tell you responsibly that a woman who flaunts that her family is one of the five revolutionary families is also unpopular among girlfriends. It's so fake, you know.

2. When to say it is very important. Don't always be like Sister Xianglin, as if everyone else's family is fine, and only your business is the best in the world (in fact, it's all bullshit for everyone). If you have suffered a great injustice and want to complain, tell your girlfriend immediately, and don't rush to tell your husband; To ask for help, we should look at the essence through the phenomenon and throw questions, instead of nagging specific people.

3. Who is the most important person to talk to. The speaker must be able to listen and understand your feelings; Try to be objective and help your problem, not add fuel to the fire, but a fire extinguisher; Be sure to keep it a secret and don't talk; See who your wife can communicate with. If you can't do it, it's a pity or a pity that your wife has to find an outsider (although you may be the best partner), and those who are not married will not help, tell you what to do or don't want to listen; Married, best friend, similar situation, similar age, optimistic, good relationship between husband and wife, there is something to learn from dealing with problems, and the way to deal with problems is more suitable for your family. You can communicate, talk more, learn more, and even talk more.

4, resolutely can't tell them (trouble) is:

Neighbors, relatives, friends, brothers and sisters of the man's parents are all about the same age. This is a mother-in-law camp. It's only a matter of time before they step on mines in front of others. Not only did you not say anything, but people also said that your mother-in-law spoke ill of you. You should also say hello to your mother-in-law with a smile. After three times, the image was immediately shaped;

The woman's parents, brothers and sisters (except those who are objective and fair and conducive to harmony) are now only children. If the woman's relatives can focus on the overall situation and enlighten them, it is ok. If they always sprinkle salt on the wound, they should find it in time and seal the wound!

5, remember: a good son hides at both ends, and a bad son spreads at both ends! The key is you!