Is it because of love that you forgive a cheating man?

The news of Lin Dan’s cheating was like a bombshell, which left netizens confused. All kinds of disappointment, accusations, and abuses were overwhelming. Lin Dan also quickly posted an apology on Weibo: As As a man, I won’t do more to defend myself, but my behavior hurt my family. I apologize to my family and I’m sorry. In this Weibo, the language is fluent and coherent, just like his movements on the court, he can move freely without any sloppiness. He looks very responsible and domineering as a man, and it is also in line with Lin Dan's tough public image. Only there is no sincerity that an apology should have.

?However, when I saw this Weibo, the word that came to my mind was not domineering but rogue. The subtext of this apology is actually: Whatever happens if I cheat on you, I only apologize to my family. When a man cheats, the wife is hurt the most. Lin Dan apologized and only said that he apologized to his family and did not mention his wife Xie Xingfang. Maybe someone wants to say that family members also include wives. Yes, this is the theory. For a man who has changed his heart, his wife is just that woman. Lin Dan's attitude is: I apologize, it's your business whether I forgive you or not. If you forgive me, it's your family's fault. If you don't forgive me, it's up to you, hahaha. As for the many people who want to cheat, my cheating is none of your business, so don’t be blind.

Xie Xingfang’s response came out quickly, and she chose to forgive.

Xie Xingfang’s response is better than silence. She was in confinement, and when Lin Dan was revealed to have cheated on her, 90% of netizens would sympathize with her because she was a weakling and was in an absolute disadvantage. And she responded quickly and chose to forgive. Some people would think that such a quick forgiveness had other meanings? Xie Xingfang is also an Olympic champion. She and Lin Dan once stood side by side, like golden boys and girls; now, Lin Dan is not only an Olympic champion, but has also shot many commercials. It can be said that if it were not for Lin Dan, Xie Xingfang would be like many champions. Like a shooting star, it suddenly disappears from the public eye. Therefore, as soon as Xie Xingfang’s Weibo post about forgiving Lin Dan came out, there were comments saying that after marriage, both parties should grow together. The implication is self-evident.

?Xie Xingfang also used the phrase "we stand together through thick and thin" on Weibo, which is really inappropriate. This storm is actually just Lin Dan's storm. The subversion of Lin Dan's personal image and the blow to his career caused by the "infidelity scandal" is obvious. Ma Yili said at the time, "Practice and cherish". She kept her words hidden but never said anything to death. She demonstrated a woman's forbearance and gentleness and won more support. Xie Xingfang said: Our family is in the same boat through thick and thin. It seemed like her man was not cheating on her, but was in a car accident. To be honest, no matter whether Xie Xingfang forgives Lin Dan or not, this storm is destined to wash away all Lin Dan's aura and leave him in a terrible state. Lin Dan has been pushed off the altar and broken into pieces.

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