Who can explain the psychological explanation of "impatience"? Say it.

In this era, patience has gradually become a luxury. It is more and more easy for us to feel impatient, disgusted, irritable and angry with people close to us.

Many mothers tell me that they are impatient with their children. When I put my child to bed at night, I especially hope that the child can climb into bed early and fall asleep quickly, especially because he can't stand doing all kinds of work without sleeping. When I sent him to kindergarten in the morning, I especially hoped that he would pack up and go to school quickly. If he dawdles a little, he will yell at him. I accompany my homework, which is simply a big challenge to patience and a big test to life. I often feel that the biggest torture in the world is giving birth to a bear Haizi.

Impatience is often reflected in marital feelings. Some people will show zero tolerance for their partner's shortcomings. Where he doesn't do well enough, he will be disgusted and picky. I hope he can correct it quickly. It is easy to get angry where your partner is not good enough and you don't pay enough attention to yourself. A visitor often urges her husband to do housework, accompany the children and make progress in his work, especially because he is lazy and indifferent.

At work, impatience is common. For subordinates who are not in place, biased and stupid, their tolerance is particularly low, and they feel that they are delaying their work progress and getting angry with him.

Impatience means that you can't stand others doing things against your will. That kind of feeling out of control, scratching my heart, just want to use extreme control to force the other party to obey their own will and not allow resistance.

In fact, if you want others to do something for you, you can spend a lot of patience to teach him, guide him and cultivate him. But you don't have that much patience. You just want him to correct it. It'll be all right in a minute, and it won't take up your time, energy and mind.

In fact, you are impatient, but you just can't stand others taking up more of your time.