These feelings are profoundly realistic

1. Don’t be unscrupulous towards the people around you just because you have a good relationship. Whether it’s family, friendship, or love, you all need respect.

2. Many years later, when you look back at such confusion, you may not even be able to remember the reason for your persistence. Youth is what makes you smile openly, but also gives you inexplicable pain.

3. It is best to live an elegant life. The time is lazy and the days are simple. The biggest confusion every day is whether dinner should be salty or sweet? Deep in the years, age is forgotten, and there is still innocence and innocence in the laughter and fun. In fact, we are not that ambitious. We just want peace and tranquility in this world, blooming indifferently, on the other side of time.

4. For a period of time, I felt like I was stuck in a quagmire. On the surface, I was calm, but inside I was infinitely collapsed. Every night, when I lay down, I could hear the sound of tiles crashing. "The house collapsed and no one can hold it up." I told myself, but there was nothing I could do.

5. It is better to use the time alone to make yourself better, give the people who come a surprise, and give yourself a good explanation.

6. Love life with people who like you; see the world clearly with people who don’t like you.

7. People survive more or less according to their own patterns. You will feel angry when others are too different from you, and you will feel sad when they are too similar to you. That's all.

8. Everyone and everything cannot escape the test of time. You have to believe that time cannot hide a bitch.

9. The so-called shortcuts are the paths of others, and hard work is your own path. In fact, the "shortcuts" are the hardest to take!

10. If you can’t squeeze into a circle, don’t squeeze in. Why bother being hated by others when you are tired.

11. Many people are sad just because they want to show everyone that they are sad. In fact, no one in this world can understand the sadness of another person.

12. Those who accompany you when you are at a low point are the most precious, and the little things you do when you are stagnant are the most touching.

13. The happiest state is probably that the person you like to stick to will never find you annoying.

14. The reason why I hate blind dates is because if I meet someone with poor conditions and I don’t like it, my parents will criticize me for being demanding; if I meet someone with good conditions and people don’t like me, I will be criticized by my parents. You see, at your age, people with good conditions will look down on you, and then they will openly introduce people with worse conditions. However, I have managed myself seriously for so many years, and I really don’t want to give in.

15. I hope you will learn to play tricks as soon as possible, and I hope you will get used to the differences between things and people. After all, not everyone is as easy to be moved by true feelings as you are naive.

16. If you are in a bad mood, listen to less sad songs. When you are hungry, find food by yourself. If you are afraid of the dark, turn on the light. If you want, just make money and buy it. Even if life gives you all kinds of obstacles, you can still do it. There is no need to use pretense to magnify your own difficulties. The reality is so cruel. How can you pretend to be innocent? Don't care too much about things you can't change. Try to learn to give up when you can't keep people. Try your best to heal yourself when your heart is hurt. Except for life and death, it's all trivial. Don't embarrass yourself.

17. I like the way you are cruel to others but very gentle to me.

From the age of 18 to 30, it may be the most difficult period in life. You have just left school and got rid of your student spirit, but you find that you have to face many problems that you have never thought of. Marriage and work make you extremely anxious. You are hesitant and hesitant, but you still have no clue. In fact, everyone will experience this period of time, and the best way is to calm down and get on with it. If you think it is worth it, wait for it; if you think it is happy, cherish it.

19. We often threaten the people we love most in the most childish ways, such as not answering the phone or texting someone if they are unhappy, blocking them, or threatening to no longer need them. Seeing him begging you like crazy, you feel an unprecedented sense of satisfaction and revenge, but this feeling will disappear soon, and you may lose this person later. When he stops looking for you, you will realize that the only person who is willing to be bullied by you is gone.

20. I believe that I will be with you for a long time, so I dare to say that the future will be long.

21. Our greatest kindness is to be polite to strangers, patient to family members, considerate to loved ones, and not to disturb old friends.

22. It is very comfortable to get along with some people, because they can talk about funny and inappropriate topics, and they can also share and communicate with unique insights on certain things, without being serious or in low taste. You also know how to put yourself in others' shoes and treat each other sincerely. You will feel very lucky to have such people in your life.

23. Some people break up because they love each other so much that they quarrel, and some people break up even though they love each other so much. In fact, the one who really stays with you until you grow old is the kind of person who doesn't have many accidents or the same heartbeat as before, but who never leaves you no matter what. From passion to family affection, from touching to gratitude, from romance to staying together. The longer time goes by, the less willing I am to leave you. This is called a lover.

24. In the world of right and wrong, people use their mouths and I use my ears; in a lively place, people move forward and I lag behind.

26. I have seen a lot of bad marriages, but I can’t find anyone who can make me go all out, so I am single.

27. The reason why you feel tired is because you talk more than you do, and your desires are greater than your abilities. I want to change but I can't do anything about it, I want to let nature take its course but I can't feel at peace with it.

28. Be a quiet person, read, travel, and wait for love. Give yourself a soft time. It doesn’t have to be too far or too expensive. Go to a quiet place to release yourself and soothe yourself. Traveling should just be about simply going out for a walk. A broad mind leads to a distant future.

29. I used to think that not many people would see me, and I would need to keep shouting to be remembered. It turns out that as long as the other party is interested, if you stand in the dark with your head down, someone will see you.

30. Most of the time, a person’s maturity begins with learning to control emotions.

31. Time can always teach you something, even if you start to feel that you should work hard.

32. Loneliness and loneliness are not the same thing. Loneliness is a kind of solitude in one's own world. Therefore, lonely people show a kind of "mellow" nobility. Loneliness is a helpless nothingness, a kind of pity at a loss. Loneliness is a kind of wealth. Only when people are lonely can their hearts truly calm down and become rational. Loneliness is not bitter, but a very high state.

33. The only thing in this world that can withstand the ravages of time is talent.

34. Sometimes you let go of something, not because you are suddenly willing to let it go, but because the deadline has come, you are willful enough, and you are more mature, and you know it is time to turn the page.

35. Remember everyone who treats you well except your parents, because they might not do so. These mood-talking phrases are profoundly realistic

1. The most beautiful days are probably those days when we first met each other, the time when we didn’t fully understand each other but were extremely eager to understand each other.

2. The ugly duckling can become a white swan, not because of how hard she works, but because her parents are white swans.

3. "Suddenly" is a good word. It seems that all lack of appreciation and being caught off guard can be attributed to suddenness. Suddenly summer passes, suddenly there is no summer vacation, suddenly you get something, suddenly you lose it, suddenly someone comes into your life, suddenly you lose someone, it seems like any change happens suddenly. Time defeats time, love defeats love, and the one who loses is not others but oneself.

4. The pain that is spoken out has been healed, but the pain that is never mentioned touches the bottom of my heart.

5. The two warmest words that a woman can give to a man are "I understand", and the two warmest words that a man can give to a woman are "I am here".

6. Mountains are as high as mountains, and water is as deep as water. There is no need to compare. Everyone has their own strengths; there is freedom in the wind and gentleness in the clouds. There is no need to imitate them. Everyone has their own personality.

7. The twenties and thirties are the most difficult years. You are shouldering increasingly heavy responsibilities, holding a salary that does not match the workload, and struggling to weigh your career and relationships... But you You have to learn to be strong. After all, if you don’t set sail, no one will set sail for you. Don’t lose the distance you originally wanted to reach just because of one setback.

8. No matter how many people you have loved, no matter how painful or happy you love, in the end, you have not learned how to fall in love, but how to love yourself.

9. The best love is so simple, it has four conditions. I like you and you like me. I'm right for you and you're right for me. The best love is so complicated. Some people fail to meet all four conditions, and some people are missing all three.

10. A big part of growth is acceptance. Accept parting ways, accept the impermanence of the world, accept loneliness and frustration, accept the sudden feeling of powerlessness, and accept your own shortcomings. Then change from the bottom of your heart and find a balance. To get along with the world, you must first get along with yourself. Turn on a lamp when it's dark, and bring an umbrella when it rains. I feel sad, but I don't want to die.

11. I finally figured out my menstrual cycle. When money is tight, you will feel helpless and lonely; when you have some spare money, you will be particularly wasteful.

12. Things that can be met but cannot be sought are the yard with trees in Houhai, the jade of Xia Dynasty, the clouds at this moment, you in your twenties.

13. If you feel wronged, it proves that you still have a bottom line; if you feel confused, it proves that you still have pursuit; if you feel pain, it proves that you still have strength; if you feel desperate, it proves that you still have strength. There is hope. In a sense, you can never be knocked down because you still have you.

14. The reason why you will never forget a city is probably because there are people you love deeply and your youth that will never return.

15. Sometimes, like suffering from depression, you will suddenly feel bad. Occasionally, it seems like I have autism, I don’t want to talk or move. When others ask, I don’t know how to answer. Not pretending to be silent, just unable to speak. Maybe everyone has a blind spot that they can't get out of, and others can't break into. I put my deepest secrets there. If you don't understand me, I don't blame you.

16. Compared with being side by side, holding hands, and kissing, many people probably prefer hugging. Nothing makes a person realize what it means to have someone more than when you hold someone tightly in your arms.

17. Thank you for your time, being impartial and avoiding the storm, allowing me to meet you just by chance.

At the age of 18, you find swimming difficult and give up swimming. When you meet someone you like and ask you to go swimming at the age of 18, you have no choice but to say "I can't do it." When you were 18 years old, you found English difficult and gave up on English. When you were 28 years old, a great job came up but it required you to know English, so you had to say, "I can't do it." The more troublesome you are in the early stages of life and the less lazy you are to learn, the more likely you are to miss out on the people and things that interest you and the new scenery later on.

19. I have heard of many ways to lose weight, but I still live my whole life fat.

20. How to get through the low period of life? Wait quietly; sleep well; exercise, good health is needed at all times; chat with close friends, basically not complaining, mainly recalling happy times; read more, read some biographies, increase knowledge, By the way, you can also see how others survive when they are unlucky; take the opportunity to do housework and finish all the tasks that are usually too busy to take care of. ——Bi Shumin

21. Sometimes, we can’t let go not because of loss, but because we feel sorry for our own efforts.

22. Whether poor or rich, happy people are the most enviable.

23. If life suddenly attacks you and you can’t escape, then confront it head-on.

24. Some people say that people who have betrayed you are like meat that fell on the floor. It is a pity not to eat it, and it is disgusting to eat it. But there will be meat again, but the nausea after eating it will never come out. The best way is not to pick it up at all.

25. Taking a bath and washing your hair often is not necessarily because you like to be clean. Maybe you just think that your freshly blow-dried hair looks good, bathing is comfortable, and the shower gel smells good. Just like the person you like may not be very good, but when you are around him, you smile very sweetly.

26. If a person only works hard for himself, he will be too lonely after all. If there is someone you care about watching, then this life will be worthwhile.

27. The so-called active life does not necessarily have to be the kind of lifestyle where you try your best, race against time, open your mouth to dream, and keep your mouth shut about the future. Sometimes we can relax and enjoy a movie, raise a pot of flowers, cook a delicious meal seriously, or sit on the roadside and watch people coming and going. As long as those things can make us feel fulfilled and satisfied, they should be positive. Maybe the wasted time that we misunderstand is the essence of life.

28. Life will get better when it is bad to a certain extent, because it cannot get worse. After working hard, I learned many things. If I persisted, I got through.

29. What you cannot escape is the joys and sorrows of the past. What you can do is live and die by yourself.

30. It’s really ugly when you refuse to let go. You don’t want to give up, which makes you humiliated and hurt again and again. If you don’t give up anything, you will get nothing. Don't go to bed late and don't disturb yourself. When love becomes torture, when someone doesn't love you, you have to love yourself more.

31. If you like me, just confess it. At worst, you won’t even be friends. Being friends is useless. I don’t lack friends. What I lack is you!

32. The reason why you feel uncomfortable is probably because you have invested a lot of time and energy, but in the end you failed to get what you wanted, and you feel like you are filled with loss in an instant. , making you feel unworthy.

33. A person's maturity is not reflected in how many achievements he has achieved, but in facing those people and things he hates, not catering to or resisting, but just smiling indifferently. When your heart can accommodate a lot of things you don't like, it's called aura.

34. The most fearful thing about getting along with others is: you don’t believe what you see about me, but you believe what others say about me.

35. Every time I am disappointed, I will do one less thing to love you. Until the end, I will not take the initiative to find you, put away your things, delete your photos, and never look at you secretly again. It's time to say goodbye. Disappointment accumulates day by day, and leaving is a long-term decision. These classic mood phrases are profoundly realistic

1. Sometimes, when you start to mind something, the thing you mind will be infinitely magnified and exaggerated by you. For example, if you If you mind being alone, being alone will definitely make you sad. In fact, it is just to face life alone for the time being, but just because I mind, the small matter of loneliness becomes "grand". In fact, it is still hypocritical in the final analysis.

2. A person who has a good temper, does not get angry easily, and does not get into trouble with others is not only happy for himself, but also happy for the people around him. On the contrary, a person who loses his temper easily, always picks fights with others, and likes to find fault with others will not only suffer a lifetime of bumps and bruises, but the people around him will also suffer. It was only in my forties that I slowly understood this simple truth.

3. Human beings are like travelers who have nowhere to go. Don’t tell me where your hometown is. Just be at ease with whatever comes. The fragrance of flowers is everywhere in the world.

4. Your life will never let you down. Those wrong turns, those wrong roads, those tears left, those drops of sweat, those scars left behind, all will be forgotten. You become your unique self.

5. The calmest woman I have ever seen. She never texts or calls her boyfriend to ask her what she thinks. She said: If he is not busy, he will contact me. If he is busy, why should I disturb him? If he is not busy and does not contact me, then why should I contact him?

6. Age is like cultivated land, the essence of things will gradually be discovered. But we only have wisdom when the time has passed and we are unable to make any changes. We seem to be living backwards.

7. Perhaps, heartbeat is not love, but concentration is.

8. For you, I spent half a year’s savings and traveled across the ocean to see you; for this reunion, I even practiced my breathing repeatedly when we met.

9. The so-called stranger means that we don’t know each other at first and don’t recognize each other in the end.

10. Depression is due to one’s own incompetence, worry is due to unsatisfied desires, and irritability is a sign of cowardice.

11. In the world, there is no time that cannot be squeezed out, only appointments that you do not want to attend. Every choice is an inner orientation.

12. Pity is easy because it is a sense of superiority; tolerance is difficult because you actually admit to being hurt.

13. This is how people are, they will always live within a certain time limit. The world there may be something that even we cannot understand in a few years, but this is something we cannot break through. For you, thousands of times, I will be bruised and bruised, but I will never look back. Maybe this is life, and life is not just about doing worthwhile things!

14. At least once in your life, you should forget yourself for someone. Don’t ask for results, don’t ask for companionship, don’t ask for what you once had, and don’t even ask for you to love me, just ask for the most beautiful thing in me. In my time, I met you.

15. The key to happiness or misfortune in life depends on where you face. Time can experience many things and understand many truths; it can prove many things and see through many people; it can collect a lot of dust and cleanse away a lot of dust. Time can seal away many years and open up many memories; it can heal many sufferings and wash away many pains; it can look down upon the complexity of the world and be calm about the warmth and coldness of the world.

16. The world is too big and life is so short. You should try your best to live it the way you want it to be.

17. How to deal with negative emotions? ——Open the playlist and listen to music, or pick up the book at hand and read it. When you are lonely and helpless, never run away or find someone to talk to immediately. Calming down is the best way. If even music and books can't calm you down, just wash your face and think about your original intention. You will definitely remember who you are. This is my answer. Of course, if none of the above works, then go eat.

18. Jealousy is the greatest compliment to others and the most incompetent manifestation of oneself.

19. The real happiness in life is the happiness of the soul, which sometimes does not necessarily have a close connection with the external material life. The power of true happiness comes from the richness of the soul, from a kind of education, from the longing for ideals, and also from discussions and exchanges with good friends.

20. If you can’t get rid of some pain, learn to forget it; if you can’t forget some past, just hide it in your heart; if you can’t do some work well, ask others for help. As long as you are happy, you lack nothing.

21. Believe in your own strength, but don’t refuse tears; believe in material beauty, but don’t spend your life; believe in the sincerity between people; but don’t accuse hypocrisy; believe that hard work will succeed, but Don’t run away from failure; believe in God’s fairness, but don’t forget to learn to draw a window for yourself when God closes the door.

22. People are far stronger than they think, especially when you look back, you will find that you have taken a road that you never thought of.

23. Instead of caring about what others think of you, try to do something that makes them envious.

24. There are two things in the world that cannot be looked at directly. One is the sun and the other is the human heart.

25. Life is not a movie. Forget those scripts and live the life you want.

26. You don’t know autumn is gone when the flowers bloom, and you don’t know winter is deep until the rain comes. A night rain outside the window chills the memories, but a flower blooming warms the mood.

27. The floating life is like a dream, and the floating dust is like empty space. For joy, there are countless twists and turns.

28. If you get something but feel that it is nothing more than that, then this desire is actually your desire. If you still can’t put it down after getting something, this is what you really want.

29. If you want to argue with me, I will never be generous. You have to be particularly generous. I am definitely more open-minded than you.

30. In the past, I always felt that what I couldn’t get was the best. Now, whatever you get, you can turn it into the best thing for yourself.

31. If you can afford to buy the things you like and go where you want to go, you will not lose the quality of your life because of the coming or leaving of people around you. On the contrary, you will have more fun by spending your own money. Be confident, that's why you should work hard.

32. The reason for slow enthusiasm is because you are afraid of being let down. After all, every time you invest, you give everything you have.

33. In fact, love should be pure. No one owes anything to anyone. An honest person can be trusted, but I prefer you to say that he is worth trusting. People who are kind and self-loving will be treated tenderly by the years. Before you came, I was neither resentful nor humble nor arrogant.

34. Don’t blame others easily, because we don’t have enough wisdom to know the joys and sorrows of other people’s lives and to truly understand the ups and downs of others. Because everyone has different positions and different environments, it is difficult to understand each other's feelings. Therefore, don’t just blame and criticize at will, otherwise it will cause harm to others. Be a happy person and be kind to everyone around you.

35. You should try to walk alone and enjoy your time alone. When you are lonely to the depths, loneliness becomes armor. These networks go deep into reality

1. You are unhappy because you do not love yourself properly, but often consume yourself because of others.

2. Life is like this. Wanting to have something but not being able to have it may make people give up on themselves. If you do lose something, you have to be stronger. Let the past pass, and there is no way to undo the past. Let us be strong. If we lose someone, at least there will be others who will not make us feel lonely!

3. Meeting you is an arrangement of fate, becoming a friend is my choice, and falling in love with you is an accident beyond my control.

4. The performance of life requires practice a hundred times before you can achieve beauty once. Life gives you some pain just to teach you what it wants to teach you. If you can't learn it once, you will suffer once. If you always fail to learn, you will fall in the same place over and over again.

5. Love is not about finding a perfect person, but learning to appreciate an imperfect person with perfect eyes. Devotion is not about loving only one person for the rest of your life, it means being devoted to someone when you like them.

6. Instead of getting angry because others look down on you, it is better to work hard to gain a reputation. Being angry is always more beautiful and smarter than being angry.

7. No matter how much you love, don’t humble yourself to please someone who doesn’t love you; no matter how much you hate, don’t slander someone who has been close to you behind your back.

8. I always want to work hard and live seriously, and I always want to treat others sincerely and keep smiling. I always want to have hope and never despair, I always want to be kind to my family and friends, I always want to be grateful and optimistic. But I found that there are always some roads in life that are always difficult to walk. There are always too many expectations that are always disappointed, there are always too many dreams that are always frustrated, and there are always too many words that no one can express. I always want to escape from disputes and get caught up in reality. There are always a lot of injustices and I am always helpless.

9. Good tempers are cultivated, and bad habits are cultivated. The one who can cure your temper is the one you love, and the one who can tolerate your temper is the one who loves you.

10. When you reach a certain stage, life will start to take away from you. Take away some of your friends and show you who your real friends are. Take away some of your dreams and let you see what reality is. Only when you can watch yourself busy and become a bystander of your own life can you find your own rhythm.

11. Mentally healthy people always work hard and love others. As long as they can do these two things, there will be no difficulty in other things.

12. Some things may not be easy if you let them go gently. Some people, remember deeply, may not be happy. If there is some pain, just look away, it may not be an experience.

In the bumpy road, give warmth to those around you; in the stormy life, give yourself a smile. Life is about being considerate and understanding, holding happiness in your heart, melting it quietly, and spreading it slowly!

13. People need to settle down and have enough time to reflect in order to make themselves more perfect. Maybe when everyone is born, he thinks that this world exists for him alone. When he finds out that he is wrong, he starts to grow up.

14. The best appearance of a person is probably to be calmer, to accept all of one's weaknesses calmly, to no longer be anxious about how others are doing, and to be able to maintain a rhythm even when no one can see you. You may walk slowly in this way, but you will walk more solidly than anyone else. You don’t have to be afraid of missing the mark or walking on someone else’s track.

15. Everyone has his own way, and every way is correct. The misfortune of people is that they don't want to go their own way, but always want to go other people's way.

16. The road I have traveled is long, I have met many people, and I have experienced many things. I accidentally discovered that the most beautiful scenery in life is the calmness and calmness of the heart, and the wisdom and clarity of the mind. The most luxurious possession in life is an ageless childlike innocence, an everlasting faith, a healthy body, and a lover who will always hold hands. A free mind, a job you like, a peaceful sleep, and a good mood to enjoy life.

17. What others give is favor and dependence. Only those who are self-reliant can feel safe.

18. I don’t want to make a living, I want to live.

19. Be bearish when you are proud and look away when you are frustrated. There are many things in life that can be let go. Only when you can let it go can you afford it. Try to simplify your life as much as possible, and you will find that those blocked scenery are the most suitable life. Don't be too persistent and burden yourself with a heavy burden.

20. I hope that the person who walks to the wedding hall with me is you who I fell in love with without hesitation when I was young.

21. Beautiful dreams, like beautiful poems, are something that can be encountered but cannot be sought. They often appear at the least expected moment.

22. We just walked a certain distance together, why make the memory last longer than the passage?

23. If you are tired, close the curtains, close the phone, turn off the alarm clock, take a deep breath, get into bed, relax and go to sleep. Hard days always require more energy.

24. Life is full of ups and downs. You will never know what will happen next moment, nor will you understand why fate treats you this way. Only after you have experienced all kinds of changes in life, will you lose your initial glitz and look at the world with a humble attitude.

25. You never worry that you are not worthy of good people, you only worry that you are not worthy of the people you like.

26. The most persistent love in the world is to love someone with the purest heart and bear it with all the strength of your life. If you have loved like this once in your life, even if your love is like a summer flower that only blooms half a summer, you will have no regrets.

27. Most of the fears are related to laziness. I firmly believe this. We are often afraid of change. In fact, it is because we are too lazy to adapt to the new environment, learn new knowledge, and get involved in new fields. But if this is always the case, how can we mature ourselves?

28. In your life, if you hope that when you look back one day, every step you take, whether forward, backward, or stopped, will become a poem, then you will be down-to-earth. Take every step of life well. ——Wang Han

29. "Wish" is to hope that something will happen. "Faith" is believing that it will happen. “Courage” is making it happen.

30. I know that my mother must have a map of the world in her heart. There were no countries or cities on that map, only every step I took. I also know that every step I take is based on her worries.

31. I think everyone exists for a reason. You make me believe that everything I encounter does not hinder my progress, but makes me more determined. Thank you for letting me understand that if you can't give up easily on something you like, then you have to work harder to let others see your existence. I have been flying in the direction of others, this time, I want to fly in my direction.

32. Many people feel frustrated because they violated their youthful aspirations. I think I am mature, I think I am sophisticated, I think I think I am shrewd, I used to be naive, but I finally see through it and think through it. As a result, we become the kind of people we hated most when we were young.

33. Don’t make others happy and disgust yourself. Learn to reject others and respect others’ rejection.

34. When you need someone to accompany you and comfort you, you find that the only thing that can accompany you is your mobile phone.

35. Don’t invite too many people into your life. If they cannot get into your heart, they will only make your life more crowded.