Go to your husband's house and prepare something! Pay attention to what!

1000 is a little small. . It's hard to buy anything decent. .

You can spend 500 yuan to buy a foot bath. 500 yuan is enough to buy a decent one, and the grade looks high enough. The main thing is that you need store service to make the packaging look good.

Spend about 380 yuan to buy two cigarettes about 20 yuan. This kind of cigarette is not expensive, but people who can smoke generally like it. . The grades are ok!

For the rest of the money, buy some high-grade fruits that are not available locally. 120 yuan is enough. This is a gift for his brother. There must be that kind of fruit that is rarely seen. . Don't send watermelons and apples.

PS: 1000 is really a little less. You are going to marry a wife. Don't be too stingy. Bad first impression. It is said that money can't measure feelings, but how much money the old people think you are willing to spend for my daughter shows how much you love my daughter. . .

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When you arrive at your father-in-law's house, you must be generous and natural. Don't be too formal and passive. When I tell you to smoke, you smoke. When I tell you to drink, you drink. .

You are completely wrong about one thing. You want to get the old man drunk and sweat himself to death. Never do that stupid thing. You are the guest and he is the host. Drunk is drunk. If you want to get the old man drunk, he will think it's embarrassing to slap him the first time you come. Maybe your father-in-law can drink well, but he doesn't necessarily like his son-in-law who likes drinking.

Or step by step:

1: If your father-in-law wants to smoke, his eyes should be quick and he just wants to touch the smoke, your lighter here must be ready to send fire. Never wait. You should know how to light other people's cigarettes! Your father-in-law will think you have a good eye.

2: You said cooking. You can go to the kitchen and help where you need it. Generally, you won't be asked to do it the first time you go to your mother-in-law. If you don't want to do it, you can sit and talk in the living room, regardless of the kitchen, and sit and talk with your husband.

When eating, you must wait for your elders to move chopsticks for the first time, and you can't eat at your parents' house. The purpose of your visit is not to eat. If your father-in-law wants to drink, take out the wine. You should catch it at once, open a bottle and pour it out. Be sure to be polite when pouring. I think you should know how to pour wine. Men and women must drink as much as both sides, and their gestures should be in place. Look at the finished drink, it's a little eye-catching to hold the bottle, and then pour it. Don't wait for the old man to say. But if your mother-in-law says you've had enough, you can see your girlfriend and see what she thinks, but if your father-in-law insists on drinking, you must follow his instructions!

After all, your brother-in-law is young, so he can ask a few questions casually without too much contact (such as studying and what he likes to play at ordinary times).

Finally, emphasize it again! Be generous and say whatever I ask you, but don't speak too fast. Slow down and give yourself room to think about how to answer. When answering questions, you'd better add your respectful name in front. If your father-in-law asks you, you can start by saying, "Uncle, this question. . . "It's best to talk less, but don't be silent. Watching TV is not necessarily a bad thing. You can find a topic to talk to them through what is happening on TV. If there is no TV, tell me about your brother-in-law.

Meeting for the first time is actually very important, and you can see your quality through some small details. A man doesn't need to say too much, but he must do it! Prepare a clean suit, not too good, but it must be clean.

That's all. I can't remember. I hope it helps you. !