How to avoid rebellious psychology

rebellious psychology is common to all people, regardless of age, identity and status. However, in the period when one's values are cultivated, most rebellious psychology is in adolescence, so it is called rebellious period.

However, rebellious psychology is not a bad thing, but excessive rebellious psychology will make people feel antagonistic when communicating with others. If rebellious psychology is moderate, you can maintain your personal views and keep your sanity. However, if the rebellious mentality is excessive and affects personal life, we should exercise restraint.

Your question is ambiguous. What you want to ask is whether to avoid being too rebellious, or to let others not be rebellious when communicating with you. I'll talk about both.

first, when you have rebellious attitude, first take yourself out of the problem and consider from an objective point of view whether your rebellious attitude is reasonable or unreasonable, whether your own rebellious thoughts are consistent with your usual views, and whether you are rebellious against a certain person or an attitude, rather than a rebellious view. If you think your rebellion is correct, I suggest you stick to yourself for the time being, then consider whether your persistence is correct, first have a view of right and wrong, and then talk about the correctness of rebellion. And blindly avoiding psychology is a way to weaken personal thoughts, and people make progress precisely because of their rebellious mentality.

second, first of all, you should be a person who is not disliked by others, and at least not be disliked by others in terms of language, expression and treatment, otherwise it will easily stimulate others to have rebellious mentality against you. Secondly, when expressing your views, you should first seek common ground, win the approval of others in mind, and then express your objections, so as not to be opposed by others as soon as you say them. Nowadays, many people on the Internet are excessively rebellious and irrational. It has to be said that it has something to do with the angle, attitude, tone or identity of the poster. However, as the most personal person, it is best not to oppose it blindly, and it will really lose your mind.