My father-in-law gave his son a bride price.

Now I hate my parents-in-law, and sometimes I feel particularly sick when I think about them. I have never believed how difficult the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is Because I grew up in a single-parent family, I think it's good to live with my mother-in-law after marriage, which is warm and lively. I remember when I first got married, my colleagues advised me never to live with my mother-in-law, which would be very contradictory. I always refute them and tell them how good, kind and honest my mother-in-law and father-in-law are to me. Now that I think about it, it is also a slap in the face. Before we got married, my father-in-law bought a house in the county and decorated it. Then my husband had a car accident and almost died. Spent a lot of money. So when I got married, my husband's family suggested that their men would not give me a bride price. Anyway, I have a house, so let me take the bride price as a mortgage. We women don't have to marry him. I think my husband's house is right. There's a house anyway. It doesn't matter whether the money is given or not. Just take it to pay off the mortgage. I didn't ask for a penny as a bride price. Mainly because my father thinks that money is not important, as long as my husband and I really love each other and my husband is good to me. So dad thinks it doesn't matter whether to give the bride price or not. In fact, even if I did, my dad planned not to send me a penny directly. In this way, the man didn't give us a penny of the bride price, and my father gave me 100 thousand, and we got married.

Just married, the true face of my father-in-law appeared. Before marriage, my parents-in-law also said that marriage would not give us money, and we women didn't have to accompany us. But after I got married, I learned that my father gave me a dowry of100000, and then I was reluctant to part with it. I have been advising my husband that I should take it out to pay the mortgage, because the house only paid the down payment. Pay more money in the middle, and the monthly mortgage will be several hundred less. I don't really want to. Because my father-in-law bought us a house, but we also live together. Besides, not only did my name not appear on the real estate license, but even my husband's name did not appear. Only my father-in-law's own name. In addition, my father gave me the dowry money and asked me to keep it for myself in case of emergency. So I refused, just refused. But my father-in-law never gave up and kept telling her husband about it. He also said that if I take out the money, I don't have to pay the mortgage every month, but he can do it himself. My husband has been remarried to me. Finally, I couldn't stand their indecision and agreed. At that time, I also thought that it was all taken out at home anyway, and the monthly mortgage could be paid less. Besides, my father-in-law promised that he would pay the mortgage himself. My husband and I have been unable to save money. It's moonlight. That's it. And my father-in-law still won't give up, saying all the time. I'm really bored. So I took out 80 thousand dowry money to pay off the mortgage.

By the time I was more than seven months pregnant, the rent was paid for three months at a time because the house I rented was about to expire. I'm sure I can't stay for another three months. Paying the rent is not cost-effective. In addition, the environment where I live is very poor, with a single room, moldy house in winter, many mosquitoes in summer and bad air. Those things that are welded around are noisy every day, and the food is not delicious because it is off the side. My husband suggested that I quit my job and go home to raise a baby. I never ate well, so I asked her mother to cook me more nutritious food, so I resigned.

After returning home, there are more and more contradictions with my mother-in-law and father-in-law Husband means to let my mother-in-law take care of me and make me more delicious supplements. But for two and a half months, my mother-in-law took care of me for a month at most. I fried vegetables all day and bought myself ribs once. When I was pregnant, my family bought me ribs or something. When raising a fetus, my father-in-law can no longer work. So I have been playing in my hometown. Let my mother-in-law take care of me. She said that my father-in-law can't live without people and needs someone to take care of him. Because my father-in-law catches fish at home all day and doesn't come to the county, my mother-in-law doesn't take care of me. Every time I talk about her, she says that I live with my sister, and I can't even cook a meal without making people laugh. So I took care of me for a month from my resignation to my birth. At that time, my sister learned to drive every day, and I cooked by myself every day. I am sleepy in the late pregnancy, my stomach is getting bigger and bigger, and I am lazy. So I only cook two meals a day. The reason why my sister is not allowed to cook is that we have no mother since childhood. I always feel sorry for my sister, so I love her very much. She can't cook at all, and even if she can, it tastes terrible. I am pregnant, so I always cook. In fact, I really regret that I didn't ask for a bride price at that time, because even if my father-in-law didn't buy this house, I wanted a bride price, and my father gave me 100 thousand to marry him. My husband and I can't afford a house, but we can also pay a down payment. Moreover, that house is also the real estate license and my husband's name. Originally, my husband was an only child and the house belonged to my father-in-law. I really didn't think so much, but because my mother-in-law took care of me for less than a month in the late pregnancy, my father-in-law also lived together. A lot has happened, and I regret it more and more. Even if I got married, I didn't ask for a penny of bride price. After I got married, I also took out 80 thousand to pay off the mortgage. But my father-in-law always thinks that he bought the house, and I have to listen to him anyway. Moreover, it is increasingly found that my father-in-law has a strong desire for control and male chauvinism. We can't live here for a month. My father-in-law will criticize me if I leave things at home. I forgot to turn off the light when I went to the toilet, and my father-in-law didn't want to. I was lying on the sofa and my pillow accidentally fell to the ground. My father-in-law is angry. There is a coffee table in front of the sofa. Because I am stupid in the late pregnancy, I feel uncomfortable sitting and watching TV. My father-in-law was angry when I put my feet on the coffee table. There are many footprints on the balcony at home, and my father-in-law is still angry. I don't know what happened to this footprint. My father-in-law was angry when I bought online at home. I buy beds, cars and the like for babies. He said it was useless and angry. One day, my mother-in-law's father was ill, and they went to take care of him. Nobody cooks at noon. I really wanted to eat jiaozi, so I spent 38 yuan to buy a jiaozi. He was angry when he came back to know that I wasted money. I was really angry about this, because when he came back from dinner, I immediately washed his bowl, poured vinegar and brought him chopsticks. He also ate, and later told my mother-in-law that I was wasting money. I don't understand. I am pregnant and want to eat jiaozi and spend 38 yuan. My mother died young, and my father really never treated me badly in money. I have been spoiled since I was a child. Married, pregnant, spend money to buy jiaozi, but he said. Little things like this really happen a lot. I have a bad temper. It's a miracle that I'm pregnant and have a bigger temper and can stand my father-in-law nagging in my ear every day. I really want to talk about my father-in-law here. He is really a mother. I can only talk. Male chauvinism is particularly serious. I remember once he went out for a drink and didn't come back until after eleven o'clock in the evening. My mother-in-law had her period that day and she had a stomachache all the time. I didn't feel well at night. I didn't even eat, so I went to bed early. As a result, when he came back, my mother-in-law got up and poured him foot washing water. It was a winter, and my mother-in-law came out wearing long autumn clothes and trousers to pour him foot washing water. I was really angry when I saw it. I said my mother-in-law should not do this, but my mother-in-law said there was no way. This is an old concept. Hey, I really think my father-in-law has gone too far. He usually scolds my mother-in-law like a child, and scolds my mother-in-law every day for a little thing. They are still guarding us, saying that they will not leave any dignity for others. When it happened, I actually just hated my father-in-law unilaterally, and later found out that my mother-in-law was not a good person either. I really don't understand why my father-in-law asked my husband like this. What can my husband do? Don't divorce me? Or break up with my mom's house? Besides, my mother's family is really an honest person. They didn't think that much at all. After marriage, my father-in-law did this to me. I didn't tell them all because I was afraid they were worried, but as long as I spoke ill of my parents-in-law. Everyone is talking about me, making me understand my parents-in-law. Family harmony is most important. So I don't particularly understand my father-in-law at this point. Everyone in my family always wants to make peace, and my father-in-law has nothing to do to let my husband choose. He was afraid that I would be angry when I came back, and he didn't say anything to his father. Instead, my father-in-law blamed my husband for being unkind to him, and then he collapsed in the living room when he came back. He said he would sell our house. I'm still in confinement, and I can hear clearly in the bedroom. At first I thought my mother-in-law was simple, but later I found out that she was not a good person either. Every time I quarrel with my father-in-law. She told me that she had advised my father-in-law to leave him alone. But my father-in-law wouldn't listen, and I can't help it. If I am an old-fashioned person, I don't understand what an old concept is. My father-in-law scolds his father like a curse at home and wants to rule me. What is this old idea? I have never seen how obedient he is to his old age. Why does he think so well? Take care of the old like we are small ones? Why should I wronged myself? You will be angry with your daughter-in-law when you are old, and you will be angry with him when you are young. I don't want to! My mother-in-law has too many homes. They have five brothers and sisters, two sons and three daughters. The eldest daughter-in-law didn't want to support the elderly, so she said she would come to my house, saying that my house is a building, clean and convenient. The second daughter-in-law doesn't want the old man in his house either, saying it's convenient for me to live in three rooms. I am so angry. When my parents-in-law are old, it is our responsibility to support them. Why do you want to bring my husband's grandparents back to my house? Why should I let him live in my house?