Why do you say that the more sensible and capable a daughter-in-law is, the less distressed her mother-in-law is?

I have a friend who is like this. Every time I buy cosmetics, I buy a set for my mother-in-law. Every time I go out shopping, I wonder if my in-laws are short of clothes. By the way, I'll buy it for my in-laws. Every time I pay my own electricity bill, I will give them some!

My in-laws often say that my daughter-in-law bought me cosmetics and a dress in front of my neighbors and relatives. I never have to worry about electricity bills myself! Everyone is envious!

Until one day, she came to me with tears, saying that when the company had a meeting today, her mother-in-law called her and said in a reproachful tone that when her in-laws were watching their favorite TV series, there was suddenly no electricity at home and asked her why she didn't remember to pay the electricity bill, so that she could continue quickly! Tears fell when she finished the phone call. She felt wronged and was kind to her in-laws. Except for her busy work, she doesn't let her in-laws worry about big and small things at home. She was accused of forgetting to pay the electricity bill to her in-laws. She felt that her in-laws didn't know how uncomfortable she was and asked me if I wasn't doing well enough.

The reason is this. You use your hobby to make him feel a habit. When everything you do for him becomes a habit, he becomes accustomed to it and doesn't feel your kindness. If you suddenly break this habit and do something that makes him dissatisfied, then he will think you are not good. People are like this. People have bad habits.