The woman died after her unemployed husband entered the intensive care unit. What is the mentality of a man who is unemployed and violent at home?

An Anhui woman was admitted to ICU for domestic violence and died five days later. During the investigation, her family also said that her husband was unemployed, which caused widespread concern. Many netizens don't understand why there is no job and there is domestic violence. Specifically, let's talk about the following points:

First, some unemployed people are actually very grumpy. In fact, unemployed people have a really bad temper. They can't stand the anger of going to work and the pain of starting a business. They also regard this temper as their own character. The key is that these will not be displayed in front of outsiders, but only in the nest. Therefore, even if such unemployed people are crying by people who sleep with them, their family and friends will advise you to be generous.

Second, the less capable men are, the more male chauvinism is. A capable man actually respects his family, while a incapable man is not good to his family, because he often feels that he is looked down upon by his family, no matter what he does.

I have such a colleague around me. In fact, his family is very nice, but he feels that his parents, wife and sister look down on him, but he doesn't want to be looked down upon and hit him, and wants to get back at his family. This kind of person's brain circuit is really incomprehensible. Later, everyone who came in with him was promoted and jumped ship, and he was still standing still.

Third, most family members have the "custom" of persuading and not persuading to leave. In marriage, many family members are not persuaded to divorce, which is euphemistically called "it is better to destroy ten temples than one marriage", including domestic violence, and it is no exception. Similarly, they did not persuade each other, but only each other, so later they became more and more presumptuous, and the one who was persuaded generously paid the price of his life.

There is a saying that there is only one domestic violence, countless times, and the violent tendency can not be solved by forbearance. This is not a dispute of opinions, but a unilateral injury by one side. Parents of both sides, when solving problems, should first see the root of the problem, do not blindly persuade, but fundamentally answer the question, who knows the pain.