Excuse me, who can make it clear (which is more important, sister and wife)?

they are all important, and no one can be left behind.

Responder: xjbt278-Assistant Level 3 4-19 17:29

I sympathize with you very much, but I don't have any good way. If your sister wants, you can help her find a boyfriend you can rest assured and lead a normal life that belongs to her. Living in your home is always not a long-term solution, so it will be better for her! ! !

Respondent: I won't forget-the probation period is level 1 4-19 17:33

I think you should talk to your sister alone. As you said, she took on such a big responsibility at an early age, and she suffered a lot of grievances in this family. You should also communicate with your lover to find out why she treats your sister like this. Have they had any unpleasant things? If it's not easy, if economic conditions permit, see if you can let your mother and sister move to another place. Usually help and cook together, but there is some time for your sister to control herself. In this way, she will have less time to face your lover, and maybe she will not be as silent as she is now. I can understand your feelings. I think the most important thing is to untie her heart to make her smile again! Obviously, your wife has been picking on your sister! Your wife is so intolerant that you are used to it! As a man, since your family lives together, you should be fair. You can't say nothing about your wife's fault. I'm not saying that you should quarrel with her, but you should put a bowl of water flat in front of everyone and tell her that your sister is a good person. She misunderstood.

of course your sister doesn't want to talk. What did she say? First of all, she can't provoke your wife. Your wife obviously bullied her too much. She is really kind. To be honest, I would slap her! It's not over with her But she is very kind and weak, so she shut up, so as not to be singled out and pointed out by your wife! Besides, the reason why she put up with it is for you! If she really has any problems with your wife, you must be caught in the middle and suffer indignities! Your wife is so powerful, she doesn't want you to suffer indignities, and she doesn't want you to have any differences with your wife because of her. In case of another big divorce, you are her own brother, and she wants you to be happy. She doesn't want you to lose your daughter-in-law!

A bowl of water should be leveled. Think about what you should do! Now I can hear from your account that the main problem now lies with your wife (your wife has gone too far in some things), so you should do your wife's ideological work well. You still have to do your daughter's work now. The root of the matter is caused here, mainly because your wife thinks that your daughter didn't call her mother because your sister taught her, so now you let your daughter and wife handle the mother-daughter relationship well (of course, this is what daughters should do, and parents should take the lead). In fact, this is a question of affection and love, which are equally important in a sense. I hope your family can be more harmonious! (It's just my personal opinion, for reference only)