About being uncomfortable and in a bad mood, the most uncomfortable thing is when you suffer it yourself.

Sometimes it may be the best state to feel pain and happiness, because only when you feel pain can you know what happiness is.

When shooting yourself in the foot, maybe Everyone has experienced it. To use a popular saying nowadays, if you don’t seek death, you won’t die. In life, we are obviously trying to avoid factors that can hurt us, but in the end we often get hurt. What's even more annoying is that some of the hurt is self-inflicted.

Human life is usually a mixed bag of joys and sorrows, and few people can achieve permanent happiness, even though you have a tough heart, even though you have an invincible mentality. . If you lose pain and have no reference, you may always think that you are unhappy, that is, you are not blessed even though you are blessed. There are many kinds of pain, both external and internal, mental and physical. Since we were young, we have been brainwashed by the truth that we can become better by enduring hardships. When we encounter some sufferings, although we are occasionally vulnerable, we can overcome them in the end. But along the way, to this day, the most uncomfortable pain is that of self-inflicted pain.

When I buy a glass and take it home, I have to drop it on the table to see if it is strong. If it breaks, I feel bad. It was not broken, but there were scratches on the cup.

For couples who have been married for several years, their relationship has become increasingly stable along the way, and they have become more understanding and intimate with each other. It is said that this kind of life, which is enriched by firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, should be lived happily. But there are always people who have excess hormones and seek so-called freshness and excitement, so there are plots similar to those in "Embarrassed in Hong Kong" and "Charlotte Trouble". Let go of the ordinary and happy days, and always look for the so-called love that remains in your memory. Whether it comes from stimulation from the outside world or from inner dissatisfaction with the status quo, it actually shows that you are restless. In fact, this feeling is very similar to traveling. When you get tired of living in your own home, you always want to take a quick trip to see the world outside. But the really interesting thing is that when you first have the idea and set off on the road, after staying at the destination for a few days, you will miss your hometown. Only a very few people will be willing to stay there forever.

But emotional matters are slightly different. One is that the man is not prepared to divorce, and he feels that the woman is well-educated and a good wife and mother. Even if she knows, nothing will happen, so he boldly indulges himself. Behavior. The other is to hold on to the spirit of not being afraid of anything. If something happens, you can stay away from the current boring life and regain the sense of freshness, killing two birds with one stone. The first type is that when you taste the sweetness, a tolerant woman may be able to tolerate your behavior, but you who do not want the marriage to disintegrate will definitely be hurt, because trust is like a piece of paper, wrinkled, even if it is smoothed It can't be changed back to the way it was before. Second, you think what you are doing is particularly wise and powerful, but as time goes by, you will find that your partner is still the original wife, and you will beat your chest for this. Because life is not just composed of stimulation.

In interpersonal relationships, many people want to be a good person, a person like Song Jiang. Although I have never met him, his reputation is far and wide. I often hear that this person is willing to do charity, chivalrous and courageous, and loves to make friends with heroes all over the world. Being charitable and generous, chivalrous and courageous are words of praise, but everything has a certain degree. If these two points are regarded as the main points of friends and brothers, then the gain will outweigh the loss.

Violence in schools is common nowadays, and it reminds me of some things from my student days. Often when a group of people fight, or a group of people beat up one person, most of the participants are actually unrelated. Sometimes it is for the so-called loyalty, and more often they just want to show off themselves. Boy A is such a person. He was not involved in a fight, but he rushed to the first one, showing how majestic and brave he was. But he didn't expect that the other rabbit was anxious and bit him. He took out the dagger and stabbed him first, and then the crowd dispersed happily.

At this moment, boy A's heart is broken, but who can blame him?

Moral kidnapping is even more common in interpersonal relationships: if your salary is high, you should pay the bill! We are friends. Give it to me directly! I asked you to borrow money because you earn a lot and are friends! People who are charitable and charitable often give people the feeling that their money is worthless in interpersonal relationships, which in turn makes the people around them take advantage of them. The host said on a show that when I go to see a friend's performance, I always buy my own tickets. Every time he wants to give me tickets, I always refuse, because I think friends need support, not just to take advantage. When you create an image of yourself being charitable, you will often be taken advantage of in complex interpersonal interactions. A generous person can indeed have a good reputation, but a true friend must not just be one party giving, but mutual.

If you are rich, you can help the world; if you are poor, you can only take care of yourself. In life, we not only want to live well for ourselves, but also want everyone around us to live well. This is a beautiful long-cherished wish. But life is already so difficult, so don’t force certain things. We should not be like Guo Donglin in "Say Anything" who is desperate to save face and suffer hardship in order to be respected by others, nor should we be like Chen Peisi in "Making Movies" who harms himself and others in order to prove himself.

Some people like quiet, some like noisy. Some people advocate dullness, and some people advocate vigorousness. Only you can truly understand the feeling. No matter which one you choose, I wish you peace and tranquility in your years. There is nothing wrong with the world, and only mediocre people disturb themselves. Of all the feelings, the most uncomfortable is the one you bring upon yourself! A word about self-inflicted sorrow

A word about self-inflicted sorrow

1. You said not to bring about self-inflicted sorrow and create sorrow by yourself, and everyone can completely forget the other; you said that there is no time to look back on the past, so don’t regret it. Only then

2. Okay~ It’s your own fault! Does this have anything to do with maturity as temper should be like this?

3. Those unspeakable pains were caused by myself. You didn’t pretend to be deaf. You really weren’t moved. When I am alone, I secretly read your Weibo. If you look back, don't let me go.

4. What do I care about, what do I feel uncomfortable about, I am so busy and tired every day, and I still have time to think about some messy things. It is really all my fault. Hey, let yourself go, Qing, the road ahead It’s still a long time, so move forward bravely, good night

5. It’s a blessing in disguise that you’re doing your own thing. I was really wrong

6. When cunning is regarded as cleverness, it finally becomes everyone's own fault. The fictitious things will inevitably be exposed one day, and only reasonable phenomena will make everyone feel at ease.

7. Who can tell clearly about feelings? You don't like the person who regards you as life, but you choose to fall in love with the person who you regard as life, but can always suffocate you with one word, it is your own fault.

8. The best way to keep a person away from you is to have a heart-to-heart talk, and then you will suffer the consequences, and you deserve to cry to death.

9. You are asking for trouble, asking for trouble, and you deserve it! To myself.

10. I know that I have made mistakes, some of which I cannot correct. A lot of sadness is self-inflicted, and a lot of sadness is self-inflicted. I wanted to be good too much, but I wanted to be bad too much. I wanted to live the life I imagined, but I lived in embarrassment. The other people I care too much about are all tired because of me.

11. When can I find my gentleness, no longer manic, no longer violent, no longer resentful and resentful. Do it, it's your own fault.

12. Everyone has heard the story of a moth flying into a flame. It flies hard for the dazzling light source, and then dies after the impulse. In order to obtain money that does not belong to them, people use all kinds of means to smuggle and sell drugs, spreading drugs throughout the world, causing endless harm.

13. Don’t force yourself. Some things don’t start well, and the ending won’t be very good either. Any grievances are self-inflicted.

14. Many things are really not what I imagined! There are many things that I don’t want to face anymore! There are many things that I feel are my own fault! Let yourself become scared and no longer brave. You will never be able to find your former self. No matter how hard you try, it is useless. Your inner confidence and courage are gone! But he turned into a child who loves to cry and escape! They don’t even dare to face themselves formally!

15. Prepare to sleep late tonight and be late for work tomorrow on purpose. Determined not to put on makeup and look tired, pretending that you are one of the people who want to open a house during Chinese Valentine's Day. Single life can be described by several similar idioms: self-sufficiency, self-entertainment, self-contempt, self-abasement, self-production and self-sale, self-pity and self-inflicted suffering.

16. In the face of cause and effect, everyone is equal. Everything we experience and feel now is nothing but karma and retribution. Such causes and effects are caused by ourselves. The results we get now are entirely due to such causes that were planted in the past. When the causes and conditions mature, they will bear fruit. When we truly believe in cause and effect, we will be able to think things through and understand that all these things have been done by ourselves and are the consequences we deserve, so that we will not blame others.

17. The stone sinks into the sea, you are so sentimental, you are responsible for it! No amount of adjectives can fill the feeling of loss and confusion in my heart.

18. I think that in the end there will be someone who will give me a hug, wipe the tears from my face, and talk to me when I can't sleep. Instead of thinking that I brought it upon myself and asked for trouble!

19. Do you know what it means to be trapped in a cocoon, to suffer one's own consequences, to reap the consequences of one's own actions, to live one's own faults? Just forget it if you don’t know.

20. Maybe it’s all my own fault. I just want to calm down now.

21. Sometimes I just go crazy and stupid by myself until I forget what I should look like, so I am idle and decadent in my youth, so that in the end I don’t even know what I am doing. What is selflessness? Is it self-inflicted? I am still in a state of wonder for eight lifetimes and I am walking further and further! The further I go, the more confused I become! The further you go, the more confused you become! I have lost the self that I originally set out for my ideals and worked hard to possess!

22. I thought you were the exception, the one who has been waiting! But it turns out that it’s so tiring for men to love someone, so why should they be tempted to like and love? Why should you make a mess of a good life and make yourself as unhappy as a resentful woman? Sometimes I really want to slap myself twice! These are not the so-called karma, they are entirely my own fault! You deserve to be sad! You deserve to be unhappy! You deserve to die because of your lack of thoroughness

23. Laugh to death, the bad guys bring it upon themselves, harm others and themselves, and the incompetent trash wants to harm others but helps them instead. How can you harm someone who is capable? You have been a useless person with debts for decades. You should be put in jail. I am stupid even if I listen to your words. I am stupid even if you listen to the words of a wasteful and incompetent person.

24. Being sentimental is truly self-inflicted.

25. Whether it sounds nice or not, it’s all your own fault. It’s you who moved me, and it’s you who makes me sad again. Still can't accept it.

26. Yesterday was my birthday. I didn’t want too many people to know because I didn’t want to laugh happily. The whole day passed in a haze. My mother nagged me all morning, but she didn't mention a word about my birthday. In fact, I don't like this. I've always wanted to be strong and unwilling to be weak or compromise since I was a child. It turns out that the more I act like this, the more they think I like it. They never ask me what I really want. They just feel sad. This is just what I deserve.

Twenty-seven, I thought it was because I couldn’t sing, but I accidentally discovered something, and it turned out that it was my own fault. When you are happy, I feel sad, because you must be happy because of her. I promised to forget you!

28. The life I live now is not what I want, but this is all my fault! I didn't have the courage to try it at the beginning but chose to compromise, so now I have experienced all the wrong decisions I made before.

You choose your own path, and every decision you make comes with a price, so think carefully when making decisions in the future!

29. There will always be only sadness and sadness. There seems to be no happy memories between us. In fact, I feel that I am really a failure. I meet such selfish people every time I fall in love. I'm always so blind and self-inflicted. When will it really end? I'm really tired of waiting like this. How I wish I could meet someone who is really good to me. Could it be that I did a lot of bad things in my previous life and then this happened? Do you have to pay it back in your lifetime? Not fair.

Thirty. You can’t express yourself, you can only complete it silently, you will always be duplicitous, and you will always bring it upon yourself

Thirty-one. When you lament the loss of her, you Have you ever wondered what you did for her? Where were you when she needed you? You only have the heart to say you love her, and you don't even know how to express how you love her. You deserve it! Why are you complaining here? Baby, you want to be happy and healthy.

32. I am responsible for everything, so I deserve to live such a troubled life every day. People who are better than me work harder than me, but I just don’t want to work hard anymore, and there’s nothing I can do about it, so just live like this!

33. Everyone must remember that we all obey a rule, no one is exception, it is called self-imposed consequences.

Thirty-four, a vicious circle, self-inflicted.

35. All love and loneliness are self-inflicted. Sylvia Plath's sentences about self-inflicted consequences

Sentences about self-inflicted consequences

1. I told so many lies, just to make everyone feel better, but in the end I found out that It's not your fault, it's your own fault, no one is to blame.

2. It was a mistake when we first met, that’s why I have so much heartache and tears now~ Why am I the only one who is sad and sad, because I brought it on myself~ Now that I have experienced the suffering that I have brought upon myself, when can I Let yourself go?

3. The Buddha said, it is you who builds the road for you; it is you who bury you; it is yourself who helps you; it is yourself who destroys you; What makes you successful is naturally you. Therefore, the Buddha said: Self-made and self-suffering, self-nature can be saved by oneself!

4. I am powerless and powerless to refute... After all, it is just you and me. Like a real full stop. Full stop without giving any chance. Just entertain yourself and do your own thing. Don't associate any beautiful things with you. You know that you can't and can't. No virtue or talent.

5. Every obstacle you have to go through in this life is all brought on by you. It’s all your own fault.

6. I really don’t know whether to scold or say that you brought it on yourself. I've really had enough. Am I mentally ill? It's pointless and pointless to make yourself angry. I think I have to look away from this now. Sometimes some things are really not what you think.

7. I know that no matter how much I do, I can't keep you. , it’s all my own fault, I’m sorry. Goodbye, Wuhan.

8. That is self-inflicted: just to abandon you; I am so nostalgic that I waited too long for something!

9. I am so sad that I feel depressed in my heart, but I don’t have the courage to look for you anymore. You brought up the tears that I haven’t shed for more than ten days in one sentence. Maybe it’s because I am asking for trouble. This is how food should be eaten. The one who can afford it but can’t put it down seems to be me, a stupid girl. I think I’m so free and easy, and always smile and say it’s okay. Only today do I realize that I am the most cowardly person

10 , You do it on the first day of the new year and I do it on the fifteenth day. If there is no cause, there is no effect. The Koreans do not look for their own reasons but blindly blame China for being harmed by it. This is really confusing the truth. Since you want to hurt China, you have to think about the consequences and bear the consequences. Don't scream or act like a victim. This is actually your own fault. To quote: You want to eat China’s food but also smash China’s bowl, threaten China’s security and still want to make money from China? There is nothing so cheap in the world.

11. Even though you know what you want, and you know that you are a person who wants what you want, you still try and insist on something unnecessary. You feel like you are being pretentious and disgusting, Yang Lu , you are a fucking lunatic, a coward, you just love yourself and blind yourself, everything is your own fault

12. You have reminded me not to have too high hopes. The greater the hope, the greater the disappointment. Now you think too much and it’s your own fault.

13. Let others become another me! I have nowhere to go and nowhere to escape. I am always hurting the people closest to me. I hope everyone will not forgive me, don’t forgive me, don’t forgive me! I brought it upon myself! You should be responsible for everything!

14. Just to throw away you are probably no longer what you wanted, and you have lost so many old times: so that’s fine. That is self-inflicted consequences: Qiu Wei, not together

15. The consequences of betrayal and separation from relatives are self-inflicted consequences. It is your own choice to climb to the end and then be able to stand up.

16. I will always be ashamed to let you down. I didn’t grasp it well. I didn’t know how to take responsibility, don’t know how to love, and didn’t know how to cherish. How could it be like this? Why was I like that in the past? I failed you, I am ashamed of you, and I deserve it.

17. A person must bear the responsibility for everything he has done. It's your own fault. Only with such a heart can we face ourselves honestly without escaping, deceiving or confusing. Only then can we face others and the world honestly. Do it with a clear conscience.

18. You said not to bring about your own sorrow and create your own sorrow. Everyone can completely forget someone. You said that it is too late to look back on the past and don’t regret it before I will try my best to get you back.

19. Every time someone is exposed, some people will be sour and some people will say ugly things. In summary, they are either incompetent or ugly. There are just a few rotten people. You don’t care about them when you see them. Haha, some people should. Rotting in the gutter is not fate, it is self-inflicted. I don’t want you to be unhappy because of me, so tell me which makeup tutorial I want to give you. It’s a rare opportunity, so take advantage of it.

20. Those bloody facts It will not be carried away by nightmares day after day, it will only be a vicious cycle, silently, like a sharp sword, killing you at any time, at any time, at any time. Oh, it’s your own fault!

21. We are all ferrymen and people being ferried. We have different directions, but we are all people who want to get from one shore to the other. Our eyes only have the future. It is destined that the encounter in the form of rubbing shoulders will never end in the reincarnation of this life. The closest distance in this life has become an insurmountable gap in this life. If you can't empathize with others, you can only suffer it yourself.

22. I keep telling myself that if something cannot be seen clearly, let it continue to be blurry. Some things, some love, and some people will be hurt if they see it too clearly. Some people know clearly that this is the kind of airport that only has a few boats on their hands, but they often don't want to believe the facts, and they still foolishly imagine that no matter how painful or injured you are, it's all your own fault.

23. Poverty, hunger, HIV, and poor educational environment. At its root, it is all self-inflicted. Too kind, hugging every devil with ulterior motives, drinking from the same bowl of wine, and calling each other brothers. But he still didn't have the courage to tear off the masks of these demons. The family was surrounded by walls, and he didn't forget the instructions of his ancestors, as long as there were livestock in the family.

The day when every guest arrives is a holiday! Don't try to change us, we've been this way since time immemorial!

24. What else can I say? There is no internet in the dormitory, no hot water, no sink, no mirror, no toilet. There are no supermarkets, no small shops, and no fruit selling around the school. At night It takes courage to go to the toilet. It takes almost two hours to walk to the county seat. It’s your own fault. It’s your own choice. There’s no point in crying. You have no support. You can only rely on yourself. I always remind myself that I’m here to teach, not to enjoy blessings. But why do I still feel that I feel wronged and can’t hold back my tears

25. I should be the kind of person who is destined to be lonely all my life because when I am in a bad mood, I can only stay alone and there are many people who care about me and are close to me. People were scared away. After I started over, I got to know a lot of people, and then I was afraid of getting too close. I finally got close. After I got closer, most of them were alienated by me. So I got to know each other and separated all the time, and I suffered for myself, but I couldn't change it and couldn't open my mouth. If you enter your heart but can't keep it, you must have done something evil in your previous life

26. It's your own fault and made your life circle a mess. What reason do I have to complain but just want to be well!

Twenty-seven. It is truly unprecedented and unprecedented. I think it is quite good. This program is very interesting and must be watched. I like this show and now you don’t care. Maybe it’s my own fault. Why did I have to be with you then? It’s really interesting to see our challenges

28. My heart is so tired, so tired, and sometimes I feel resentful and resentful! Why? Why should I carry this? It's all your own fault, why should I consider your feelings? I can’t bear it

29. Just bear the pain and discomfort by yourself, why don’t you tell others, it’s no big deal! You don't deserve what you get, it's just your own fault!

Thirty. What’s the use of raising children? I’ll be angry with you when I grow up, but I won’t know how to care about you when I’m old. It’s all due to improper education! It's your own fault.

Thirty-one. Sometimes Sagittarius is like this. He is happy in the crowd. He misses and hurts and is happy late at night.

Thirty-three. I am used to it not mattering, but it is not really anything. I don't care, I probably just have to deal with it as if nothing happened.

34. Never give up your sincerity easily again. After so much, in the end, what you thought was a blessing in disguise turned out to be your own fault in his eyes. It was all because you believed too much in the beginning. It seems that people like to be abused, and often cannot see the people around them who are truly good to them. Finally, I wish you happiness.

Thirty-five. After thinking about it for a long time, I feel that everything is caused by myself. If I don’t seek death, I won’t be afraid of death. My intuition is really that the more afraid I am, something will happen. If the person I can’t keep is gone, I will leave.

Thirty-six. Others always have to bear the responsibility for the wrong things I do. When will you learn to grow up and be independent? Don’t let the people around you clean up the mess for you. You always think you are smart and end up trying to live up to your own expectations. Better What about the sad and bad mood: The idiot is always self-sufficient, self-contemptuous, self-deprecating, and self-suffering

1. The idiot is always self-sufficient, self-contemptuous, self-deprecating, and self-suffering.

2. No matter how good you are, I don’t love him. No matter how bad you are, I still love him.

3. I want to know where you were when I was helpless and begging

4. Maybe what you get may not last long; if you lose it, you may no longer have it.

5. I want to love you, but it is a matter of emotion. I have to make my own decision.

6. The human heart is too crowded, and the heartache will be painful if the heart beats.

7. I will write down everything I have done for you in a diary. After a few years, I will look through it again to see how stupid I was.

8. What changes for love is only the childishness of the year, and it will not change his heart that does not love you.

9. Even if everyone is looking at me and waiting for me Fall down, even if you are scarred, you have to stand up...

10. The hard life of getting up early and going to bed late is coming again

11. Love is intertwined in the distance between time and space. Holding hands will last forever

12. The pain you give me is more heartbreaking than the pain of a razor blade cutting my arm. .

13. If you don’t understand, just say it. If you understand, just smile and don’t say it.

14. There is no need to skip classes anymore, because there are no classes...

15. My heart is dying, are I still afraid of being hurt by you?