The bigger the temper, the more difficult it is to talk about.

In society, after years of exploration, I found a phenomenon: the more capable people know how to control their emotions, the more incompetent people have a bigger temper.

In the workplace, the more leaders who have stayed in a certain position for a long time and have not been promoted, the more they like to be harsh and embarrassed to their subordinates. Take stress as anger and vent it on subordinates.

In life, the more incompetent a man is, the more he likes yelling at his wife, punching and kicking. Trying to maintain their dignity and family status through this primitive barbarism.

Everyone has a bad mood, and some people will try to control their emotions and try to solve problems. And some people just complain and lose their temper.

Some people say that bad temper is a character problem; Some people say that bad temper is an environmental problem. All human sufferings are essentially anger at their incompetence. A bad temper is actually a lack of ability.

If you look carefully, you will find that. In my own life experience, the most grumpy time is often the worst and most incompetent time in life.

Because I can't change my dissatisfied state or bad situation, I have to lose my temper to ease my dissatisfaction. People who have no skills can only deal with problems with emotions and scold others. And because I am incompetent and extremely sensitive, I get angry easily. As long as something goes wrong, it will explode instantly like a lit bomb, harming others and yourself. This is why the worse the economy, the more quarrelsome family members are; The more incompetent people are, the more they like to be sprayed on the internet.

The world of adults. No one is easier than anyone else, and no one has the obligation to pay for your bad temper. People who can tolerate your bad temper are people who love you, and you are still hurting them again and again with your bad temper.