How old does a woman need a wife?

At what age does a woman need a wife? This problem should be analyzed from two aspects. First, from a physiological perspective, women generally undergo menopause at the age of 55. After menopause, most women will lose their sexual desire. Some women begin to sleep in separate rooms and are not interested in sexual life. There are also some women who still have sexual function after menopause, and some women who are in their seventies still have sexual function. There is a 75-year-old woman who also participated in a dating show on the TV station. If she can participate in a dating show, she must still have functions or needs in this area. Because when an old man is looking for a wife, he is willing to be in good health. He will look for a wife only if he has such needs. Therefore, from a physiological perspective, women's physiques vary greatly, and some still need a wife when they are nearly eighty years old.

Analyzing from the perspective of women’s psychology, women still need a healthy opposite-sex partner. There is no age limit for this. Especially today's young people are working away from their parents for long periods of time, and some are still settling down elsewhere. Mother was left alone guarding the old house. There are many elderly women in this situation. They also want to find a compatible and healthy old man to live together so that they can take care of each other, but it is really difficult to find a satisfactory old man. As a result, many older women live lonely lives. Because if you can’t find something you like, it’s better not to look for it. Because you can't find an old man you don't like to go home and cause trouble for you. Therefore, from the perspective of women's psychology, if a woman has a wife, she will need a wife throughout her life. If you don't have a wife when you get old, there is no need to find one. That is to say, just let it happen and find a wife if you have one. If you don't have a suitable one, there is no need to force it.

Generally speaking, there are two types of wives. The first is a wife who is purely a companion, and the second is a wife who can live a married life.

1. Life-style companionship between husband and wife.

Before a woman can have children, she needs a partner who can live a married life. Of course, during this period, in addition to physiological needs, the more important thing is that she can get pregnant and have children.

From another physiological perspective, both men and women need the company of their partners.

The famous writer Yi Zhongtian said in "Chinese Men and Women": A happy marriage should include a harmonious sexual life. In other words, if you want to have a happy marriage, harmony in your marital life is extremely important.

In addition to psychological companionship, correct physical companionship is also particularly important. Perfect physiological companionship, helps sleep, and has the effect of losing weight, making the skin brighter and clearer, and promoting various aspects of women's health.

With the development of the times and society, pre-marital sex between couples is becoming more and more accepted. However, many men only care about enjoyment, and even refuse to take safety measures to make themselves more comfortable. They ignore the risk factor of female fertility and abandon it after the female becomes pregnant.

Female friends must remember that if men cannot protect you, they must protect themselves. And male friends need to know that real care is to bring pleasure to the other person while also adding an extra layer of security. Reducing the occurrence of tragedies and providing additional protection for physical safety is also a course that contemporary men and women must take when engaging in intimate relationships.

2. A pure companionship wife.

After a woman cannot have children, she also needs a wife, but the wife at this time is more of a companion relative.

People are social animals and they all need companionship. This companion may be a significant other or a good friend, but they always need companionship. In this sense, a woman needs a wife no matter how old she is.

Some people think that when a woman gets older, if she loses her spouse due to special reasons or even never had a spouse, she should stop messing around, as she will eventually return to the dust. If you think so, you are wrong. Object relations psychology believes that relationships are everything, and the entire meaning of our existence is to find relationships.

In modern society, people are more closely connected, and people who are completely isolated cannot survive.

Of course, not all companionship is benign companionship. Sometimes, although that person is by your side, you can always feel that he is distant. The key to happiness is not the amount of time spent with you, but the quality of your companionship. Only when we don't want to change the other person can we truly be with each other. In other words, each of us is in a relationship, but if we want to truly integrate into the relationship, both parties in the relationship must be free.

Women need companionship at all times. If there is an elderly person in your family who is in a period of loneliness and you cannot accompany her in time, you might as well let her enter the social world and find a wife in the same situation. If the two of you join hands, the elderly person will be more grateful to you and will also increase their hope in life, thus Happier!

Let me answer this question. From a physiological point of view, when a woman reaches menopause when she is about 55 years old, many people think that a woman does not need a wife. I don’t agree with that, because after a woman reaches the age of 50, she has normal physiological functions. Yes, but not so frequently, some even in their 70s. He needs a wife, except when he is in bad health.

In terms of heart, if the relationship between husband and wife is deep, a woman will need her husband to accompany her throughout her life, even if she has only a few children at home. After getting married and living alone, women need a wife to accompany them. If their husbands are away due to illness or other reasons, many elderly women need to find a wife to rely on. So no matter how old a woman is, she needs a wife.

All normal people need companionship, no matter men or women, young or old. The same goes for women. Yin and yang men and women need to accompany each other. Firstly, they need it physically and mentally, and secondly, they also need it physiologically.

Some people think that a woman only needs a wife during the childbearing period and no longer needs one after that. This is wrong. Menopause can occur early or late in women. Some women become menopausal in their thirties and become infertile, while others still menstruate and still have children in their fifties. Many couples have to sleep in separate rooms and beds in order to raise their children, but this does not mean that they do not need companionship, sex life, and comfort and mutual assistance between men and women. Some people also mistakenly believe that after menopause, women no longer need sexual life, sexual comfort, or the company of the opposite sex. This is very wrong. Both men and women need it, that is, asexual, mentally, spiritually, and materially. Isn’t it said that young couples come here to keep company? The companionship of a husband and wife when they are still alive and growing old is of great use in spiritual comfort. The companionship of children and grandchildren is not as good as the companionship of a husband and wife. Couples who can grow old together in harmony tend to live longer. People not only need material comfort, but also mental and physical comfort from the opposite sex. The same goes for this man and woman. Don’t think that women don’t need a wife after menopause. This is a huge blow to people. It’s just that women have stronger endurance than men. When women lose their wives when they get old, for the sake of face, they will endure it and never seek a partner of the opposite sex. However, This doesn't mean it's not needed. It’s better to have a wife in your nineties. We care about each other and need to comfort and help each other.

Women need to find a wife, and they need to be distinguished by age. Generally, women have menstrual periods, and what they need to find is both sex and a partner in normal life.

If her menstrual period has passed and she has reached the menopausal period and is already old, what she is looking for is a wife who can love and support each other in daily life and live together.

There is someone you can talk to together, someone who knows both cold and hot, and who knows your roots and roots. They can live together and spend their old age enjoying the sunset.

Regarding how old a woman needs to be, this is just my personal opinion and I don’t need any advice.

Due to the epidemic, the author was forced to live at home for more than half a month. I found that there are many women over 60 years old living alone in the village. Most of them are widowed and their children also live in the city. They only come back to visit them on holidays. And he also put down his things and left in a hurry.

The daily life of these women is very fixed. They get up early in the morning and cook. After the meal, they go to the vegetable field to tidy up, and then they chat and bask in the sun on the street.

Few women in rural areas remarry, let alone women in their 60s. For them, men have long become a memory.

Grandma Zhang, 62 years old

My husband died of myocardial infarction last year. After that, I lived in the city with my daughter for a while. Due to living habits and many other reasons, I decided to return to the countryside. . My health is okay now and I can take care of myself. My daughter comes back to visit me every once in a while. When I was bored, I would drop by and chat with my old sisters, and my life was very comfortable.

If you ask me if I need a man in my 60s, I would like to say: What I need is not a man, but companionship.

Grandma Liu, 70 years old

My wife and I have been together for nearly 50 years. When we were young, we often quarreled, and once we even got into a fight. Because of this, we got divorced, but Because the child remarried again. As our children grow up, our relationship becomes better and better. When I was 57 years old, I almost lost my uterine fibroids. When I woke up, I found a grown man secretly shedding tears beside my bed. Only then did I realize that this man was really good to me.

For women, even if they have children in a group, they are not in need of the warmth of the person beside them.

Does a 60-year-old woman still need a man? Some people believe that women at this age have neither beauty nor fertility, let alone physical needs. However, in my opinion, it is one-sided.

Indeed, they don’t care about physical needs. What they really need is emotion and belonging. I guess this is what it means to be a couple when you are young, and to be a companion when you are old!

Generally speaking, there are two types of wives. The first is a wife who is purely a companion, and the second is a wife who can live a married life.

Before a woman can have children, she needs a partner who can live a married life. Of course, during this period, in addition to physiological needs, the more important thing is that she can get pregnant and have children.

After a woman cannot have children, she also needs a wife, but the wife at this time is more of a companion relative.

People are social animals and they all need companionship. This companion may be a significant other or a good friend, but they always need companionship.

In this sense, women need a wife no matter how old they are. A purely companionate wife

Some people may think that when a woman gets older, if she loses her spouse due to special reasons or even never had a spouse, she should stop messing around, as she will eventually return to the dust.

If you think so, you are wrong.

There is a story recorded in "Harvard Emotional Intelligence Class": There is a kind of wolf pack, and the formation most commonly used when crossing the snow is "single column".

Once, a temporary team of 6 wolves encountered a herd of musk oxen on the way. They immediately changed their formation, locked the herd of musk oxen, and quickly drove the herd to a high platform. direction, and then launch a general attack on them.

First, the two westernmost wolves, led by the wolf king, quickly rushed towards the hills near the musk ox herd; then the other wolves followed, and at this time it looked like several high-speed stealth missiles. Using torpedoes, they rushed towards the cattle with the sharpest and most heart-piercing fangs.

Compared with musk oxen, the size of the wolf pack is small, but in the end the wolves were able to defeat the many with less and turn the musk ox into a delicacy in their mouths. The reason is that they know how to work as a team and The importance of cooperation.

In other words, social relationships are very important. Being in a better social relationship will bring people unexpected surprises.

Of course, not all companionship is benign companionship. Sometimes, although that person is by your side, you can always feel that he is distant.

Li Xue, a well-known psychological counselor, believes that the key to happiness lies not in the amount of time spent together, but in the quality of companionship. Only when we don't want to change the other person at all can we truly accompany each other.

In other words, each of us is in a relationship, but if we want to truly integrate into the relationship, both parties in the relationship must be free.

Women need companionship at all times.

If there is an elderly person in your family who is in a period of loneliness and you cannot accompany her in time, you might as well let her enter the social world and find a wife in the same situation. If the two of you join hands, the elderly person will be more grateful to you and will also Increase the hope of your life and become happier! Husband and wife life partner

From another physiological point of view, both men and women need the company of their partners.

In other words, if you want to have a happy marriage, it is extremely important to have a harmonious life as a couple.

In addition to psychological companionship, correct physical companionship is also particularly important.

Perfect physiological companionship, helps sleep, and has the effect of weight loss, making the skin brighter and clearer, and promoting various aspects of women's health.

With the development of the times and society, pre-marital sex between couples is becoming more and more accepted.

However, many men only care about enjoyment, and even refuse to take safety measures to make themselves more comfortable. They ignore the risk factor of female fertility and abandon it after the female becomes pregnant.

Female friends must remember that if men cannot protect you, they must protect themselves.

Male friends need to know that real care is to bring pleasure to the other person and at the same time provide an extra layer of security.

Reducing the occurrence of tragedies and providing additional protection for physical safety is also a course that contemporary men and women must learn when engaging in intimate relationships.

As the saying goes: young couples come to keep company, and single old people look for their partners. In other words, the older a woman gets, the more she needs a wife. With a wife by her side, she can take care of each other. If a person is not feeling well and has a cold or something, and there is no one to pour him a sip of tea, no matter how filial his children are, after all, they are not around, and sometimes it is inconvenient to call them, especially at night, when the children have children, the wife It's different. Listen to the following women’s intimate words from their wives!

Ms. 1 is 58 years old. When she was chatting with me, she confided to me: Alas! I have been crying for too long. I have been single for 30 years. I have dedicated all my youth to my children, my parents and even my sister. I have raised my children and sent them away. Now I am getting older, suffering from a lot of illnesses, and I don’t even know anyone around me. Leng knows hot, and there is no one to talk to! My children think that they are being filial to me by constantly giving me money and buying luxury goods for me. Little did I know that what he gave me was not what I needed! The so-called emotions have no destination, and the soul is always wandering! Don't be afraid of entering your old age, sisters, your mission has been completed, go pursue your destiny! Life is short, and loneliness is the most difficult time for the elderly to endure. 2Ms. Xiaoxia is 46 years old. During a heart-to-heart chat with me, she said: She has always thought that she is an invincible little strong person who can live a good life without a man. I have been single for more than ten years, and I look carefree and bold on the outside, but I am actually lonely and lonely inside, especially when I go back alone after a party with friends and classmates. There will never be a light on or a glass of water at home, especially when you are sick and lying alone in bed, the despair is an emotion that no child can understand.

3Ms. Yang is 69 years old. When she was chatting with me, she said: As long as I am alive, I cannot live without a man. After living so long, I finally understand that no matter how many or few children I have, children are not as good as a companion in old age. I am very lucky to have married my wife 3 years ago. If I had not gotten married at that time, it would be unthinkable for me now. Even thinking about it makes me scared. I am an old person and my children are middle-aged. Therefore, I understand that my children are under a lot of pressure! I won't care or complain, but I will plan and arrange my old age. Finding an old companion to depend on will not cause trouble to your children, but will also lighten the burden on yourself.

In fact, an old companion is a kind of support. When a woman reaches the age of sixty or seventy, she looks for an old companion. She is not coveting the love between men and women, but looking for a simple support. She is no longer lonely when she goes out. No longer lonely. In daily life, we can be honest with each other and talk about what's on our mind. We don't have to hold anything back. We can talk freely with our wife anytime and anywhere. With a wife, you are protected both materially and spiritually, and you no longer have to worry about anything in your later years. In fact, no matter how old a woman is, she doesn’t like to be a drag on her children! But I will think about my children again in my lifetime. It's a pity that many children don't understand their mother's thoughts. Not only do they not understand, they even try to obstruct her, and they are completely unable to put themselves in the shoes of single mothers! As the saying goes: Young couples come to keep company when they are old. In fact, men and women are the same. No matter how old they are, they all need a companion by their side. The older they get, the lonelier they feel inside and the more they need someone to accompany them. Why do the elderly generally like children? The meaning is: they want to take joy from their children, because they are empty inside, so they especially like the lively atmosphere of children.

No matter how old you are, as long as you can find someone to rely on as a companion, you will need it at any age until the end of your life...

Thank you for asking!

Since we are talking about a wife, we need a companion throughout our lives, and we cannot do without our wives when we grow old.

Women are at a disadvantage in some aspects. They need to rely on someone in life and psychology. Without a wife, they are always like duckweeds in running water, floating unsteadily.

We are not people of the same generation. We always have different concepts and life philosophies. Coupled with old age and frailty, our thoughts and actions have become slow. Living with our children, we always feel that we are He is a redundant person. He does not act or speak as freely as he does in front of his wife. Although he is accompanied by his children and grandchildren, he is always lonely in his heart. He has nowhere to talk to his intimate words buried in his heart!

When tears flowed, my wife wiped them away silently with dry, hard hands, which were warmer than the hot towels handed to me by my children.

When he was thirsty, his wife handed him a bowl of hot tea in a large porcelain bowl, leaned next to it, and asked kindly: "It's hot, drink slowly, don't burn it." ''It tastes much better than giving a jar of Jiaduobao to your children.

A woman’s mind is as delicate as a thin noodle, and her psychological needs are greater than her daily needs. Therefore, needing a wife is a lifelong matter, and life in old age without a wife is imperfect.