Chu Qiaochuan: Seeing people is more important than being blind.

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After the recent biography of Chu Qiao, there was a scene that caught my attention:

I showed Xing Er two pictures, one is a portrait, the other is an ugly old man, but the other is a beautiful young woman. Xing er was surprised.

Another one is to cover half a picture with her hand and let her guess what the woman is doing. The star said she was in pain when she fell to the ground. He Gongzi unfolded the whole picture, but it was a man reaching out to help the woman. Star, got a fright.

Then, Teacher Yue told a story about three disciples, Zong, Heng and Bian, who killed Heng and Bian with fake designs in order to get the true biography of Master.

Later, Yu Wenyue warned Xing Er: What did others let you see, and what did your ability let you see?

Life is like blink of an eye. In the face of life and death, a penetrating mind is more important than being blind.

Sometimes what you see is not necessarily true. When you are deceived by your eyes, you will make the wrong choice.

Star suddenly realized that his brother's appearance when he died appeared in his mind. He felt something strange and decided to re-examine Yu.

Yes, in fact, this is not a question of whether you believe your eyes, but whether you have a pair of "discerning eyes" when facing the appearance of things, whether you can see the essence through phenomena, and whether you have clear judgment.

In life, we can't trust our eyes in ignorance, but we should apply reason to cover our eyes and broaden our horizons.

Chai Jing is well aware of this. In this foggy society, she used this as a reason for journalists. From the Shanghai crash to the South China Tiger incident to academic fraud, she is not only addicted to the appearance of things, but also rationally analyzes the essence of things, sweeps away false appearances, comments on current events, hits the nail on the head, analyzes hot spots, is rational and objective, and returns the tip of the iceberg with a rational eye to a true face.

In real life, around us, we often make irrational judgments because one eye is blind.

A friend who works in a state-owned enterprise often talks to me about her company. She has always been a low-key person, serious and diligent, but recently she has been talking to me about her depression.

A friend has a colleague who is young, not good at business and not studying hard, but he has a sweet mouth and is very deceptive. Whenever there is a job assignment, she will skillfully ask her friends for help. Because her friends are familiar with her business, she does it with ease. She thinks that her colleagues are also fate, so she doesn't refuse. After a long time, I helped a lot, and my colleagues naturally enjoyed the fruits of my friends' labor. Many times it's just a thank you, and friends don't think much. He thought it was a trivial matter and didn't care too much.

Unexpectedly, Xiao was promoted.

Although an office deputy doesn't matter to friends, I still feel uncomfortable. I have been in obscurity for nearly ten years. Although I have not made any significant contribution, I am also an expert in business. I have a good reputation in the circle, but I still stand still. Is it because I have nothing to do? Didn't the leader see it?

How long has this company been here? After more than a year, she was promoted, and the leaders spoke highly of her? My friend knows that he can't do anything well! I made it myself!

Maybe small, like to show off. No matter what she does, she always asks for instructions early in front of the leaders, reports late, and shows her contribution. Is the leader confused by her illusion?

Friends are unpredictable, sometimes troubled and sometimes indifferent. Because she was originally a person who was indifferent to fame and fortune, she just learned to be smart and was no longer enthusiastic about helping Xiao A.

She thought: Lu Yao knows horsepower, and people will see it for a long time. Only serious and pragmatic people can be convincing. People who have no real skills can't stand the test of time and the polishing of the world in the end.

Sure enough, after a few months, my friend inadvertently talked about Xiao, saying that she was beaten back to her original shape. Because she screwed up an important thing, the leader was so angry that she was relieved of her post and scolded herself for hurting her eyes. After the leader found out the truth, his friend naturally replaced Xiao A.

Sometimes the eyes can deceive people and blind them, leading to wrong decision-making and bad ending.

The same is true for people in officialdom. They need to change their work style, go to the grassroots in a down-to-earth manner, mingle with the masses, observe and discover with their own eyes, so as not to use the wrong people and give orders indiscriminately.

What the eyes see may just be an illusion. To explore the essence of things, we must question what we see, and it is also a valuable character not to believe easily.

I work in a bank. I used to have a colleague who worked hard at first, relying on tellers to achieve leadership position step by step. It can be said that his career has achieved little. Slowly, I saw his change. He wore famous brands, smoked well, drank good wine, drove a luxury car, owned several houses, and was not afraid of playing cards ... It seems that life has a good charm!

I was thinking, being a leader didn't earn that much, did it? My annual income is only 20,000 to 30,000 yuan except for human life and education! Even as a leader, he is not much more than me, is he?

There may be something fishy in this?

A year later, he was caught in the news because he borrowed money from the company at a high interest rate, pocketed all his savings, illegally lent money, and pocketed it by taking advantage of his position. No wonder life is so luxurious!

"If God wants to destroy people, he must first make people crazy." Selfishness and greed can make people's hearts swell to this extent!

In this mixed world, we really need to polish our eyes, not to envy, not to compare, not to imitate … to be ordinary ourselves and to work and live in a down-to-earth way.

Looking at the life world, do those people who are well dressed, drive luxury cars and live in luxury houses really mean happiness in life? Success? Has the value of self been realized? Our eyes only see the brilliance under the spotlight in the center of the stage, but is there anything worth thinking about behind it?

Mr. Lu Xun once said: We should cultivate a pair of eyes to watch the night.

It can be seen that when the truth is intentionally concealed, blurred or whitewashed by an invisible hand, we should ask why in our hearts. Because: a penetrating mind is really more important than being blind!