For the rest of your life, find someone who can reassure you.

There is a popular question in Zhihu: "What kind of people do you want to spend the rest of your life with?"

The most popular answer is: "Be sure to find someone who can make you feel at ease. The feeling of peace of mind is like pushing Chai Men away on a snowy night and seeing the warm fireplace burning in the room, and you are safely in the arms of the person you love. This moment is secure and happy. "

0 1 Love at first sight can't last long.

When you are young, a man's handsome appearance and witty conversation will always make women tempted and fooled.

However, after getting along for a long time, we often find that vigorous enthusiasm can't reach the dullness of time, and the joy of falling in love at first sight can't reach the long-lasting peace of mind.

The heartbeat feels like a basin of cold water. When it comes to a hot stove, it heats up crazily. When the water boils, the pot is dry. Either break up and bite the bullet and burn the bottom of the pot. Finally, the pot is gone, the water is gone, and your love is gone.

Peace of mind is like a pot of warm water on the stove in winter. The fire is slowly roasting, and the water in the pot is slowly boiling, and then it has been kept in such a boiling state. He is not surprised, and you are not worried.

A person who excites you will stimulate your hormones and make you feel unprecedented happiness, but such happiness is often short-lived, while a peaceful person can make you feel poetic and distant in the fireworks world and enjoy long-term happiness in a dull time.

02? Companionship is the longest confession.

Simple love is the warmest, and ordinary company is the most reassuring.

People are born lonely. The best love is never heartbreaking love, nor is it unforgettable love, but in the day-to-day dullness, someone asks you if the porridge is warm, someone stands with you at dusk, and someone can accompany you to watch the sunrise and sunset and see the clouds rolling.

A good relationship won't make you cry at once, but spoil you in a dull and long day. With him, you will always feel the taste of happiness in every ordinary day, and experience the truest feelings in the triviality of daily necessities.

The most beautiful love is never sweet words, but as long as he holds your hand, he will never give up and accompany you to your old age.

When you are with someone who makes you feel at ease, perhaps, life will be dull, but the spark of passion will go out one day after a long time, but long-term companionship can make you feel warm from the bottom of your heart in this complicated world.

03? Being together in the wind and rain is the most reassuring.

Someone said, "The most poisonous love words in love are never that I love you, but that I am here."

In love, the most reassuring feeling for women is that no matter how wronged you are, no matter what unfair things you encounter, you won't feel particularly helpless, because you know that there must be someone in this world who will give you warmth and care. He will tolerate your shortcomings and shortcomings and accept your imperfections. Even if the whole world abandons you, he won't let you go.

A person who makes you feel at ease has always been very responsible. His love for you is never lip service, but will always be with you when you need it, and accompany you through the most difficult period in your life.

A man who doesn't take responsibility and can't reassure you seems to love you forever when it's calm, but drag out an ignoble existence when it's rough.

As the saying goes, "love is like a house, and a sense of security is the foundation." Love without security is like a dangerous building that leaks air and rain, and it may not fall down at any time. "The man who makes you feel at ease is the one who can shelter you from the wind and rain, fully protect you and give you a sense of security in this stormy world.

04? The best love is peace of mind for a lifetime.

Life, the farther you go, the more you will understand that the fierceness of holding a torch in the wind is not as good as the peace of mind when it is plain. As Jason sang in the song "Don't forget peace of mind", "In the end, don't forget peace of mind."

In love, it is rare to see your heart for thousands of years, but in many cases, staying together is more valuable. It is a great happiness to find someone who is comfortable with you and allows you to spend the rest of your life with peace of mind.

The best love never makes you feel excited at once, but it can make you feel at ease for a lifetime. It's a long way to go, Xiu Yuan. It's easy to meet someone who makes you move, but it's not easy to meet someone who makes you feel at ease and is willing to accompany you all your life.

Beautiful as you, I hope your love can start from your heart and be loyal to your peace of mind.

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