How to deal with people who care about others?

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1, people who suddenly ask you questions often have ulterior motives.

As the old saying goes, everything goes to the Three Treasures Hall, but in reality, if someone suddenly asks you a question, it is often malicious, because in many cases, you will ask the most questions only when you just need to be useful to others, and often it is a test rather than a question. When you think of other people's motives through the surface of things, in fact, many things often come out. So, you'd better be wary of those who suddenly climb up to find you. Many times, these people want to get more benefits from you or let you speak for them. There is not so much time for small talk in the adult world. Small talk often has ulterior motives, and small things can often become big things.

For those who have been jealous of you, please keep your distance, and jealousy will only get deeper and deeper.

In fact, we can see that all excellent people will encounter a problem, that is, many people will be jealous of you. Maybe you can't see these people at first, but as you get to the back, you will find that this jealousy is getting deeper and deeper. Later, it is no longer jealousy but jealousy. The closer the relationship, the more so.

Whether consciously or unconsciously, there will always be more and more criticisms of you, because people who envy you always want to see your jokes, or they can't see you at all, but anyone who envies you, I can say, is basically not suitable for making friends, because only if you mix badly will he be your friend. Once you get along better, you never know what extreme things he will do.

People who often complain about trifles are totally unworthy of making friends, and such people are bound to be very angry with most people.

In fact, we can see that in reality, many people are constantly complaining about trifles, so that their hearts are blocked by trifles, and they often use you as a punching bag or trash can to vent their dissatisfaction.

This kind of person is not suitable for making friends, not worthy at all, because this kind of person is often jealous and full of resentment towards most people. Maybe he complained in front of you today and then turned to complain in front of others, because in this kind of person's heart, all people are the source of his resentment, and only complaining can make him feel satisfied. Dark people are not suitable for making friends.

4. The writer suddenly started to write 1234. In fact, it is mainly because people don't like to watch long speeches, but they all like to watch lively short videos. The platform doesn't pay much attention to this piece, or they are all engaged in short videos, so in-depth articles will only become more and more unpopular in the future, and most people will become more and more dull in the future, because the brain is gradually stopping thinking, except for the polarization of wealth.

5. People who don't take advantage of petty advantages are often superior in character.

In fact, we can see that many people like to take advantage of petty advantages, because it can show their shrewdness. However, shrewdness is annoying and harmful to one's own character. Those who don't want to take advantage of petty gain are often very proud people, and they won't do these things in a falling price, so these people often have excellent personalities. We can see that those who often take advantage of petty gain often have no personality, and they often betray you at any time for the sake of interests, because in their hearts, interests are their highest realm, and people who like to take advantage of petty gain often get together, birds of a feather flock together, and people are divided into groups.

6. Only those who keep their mouths shut can become friends. Nonsense is often a habit formed over the years.

To make friends, you must first know who is worthy of making friends. If you alternate with a bad friend, you will often get more than one bargained for. For example, some people talk nonsense. You tell them one thing today, and the whole world will know it tomorrow. Such people are not suitable to be friends, but can only be their own megaphone. When you want to tell the world something, just tell them.

People who keep their mouths shut are often people who deserve to make friends. Such people can really make friends, because only those who value what you say will keep their mouths shut, and only those with good character will keep secrets for others.

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