Why are many people willing to tell their troubles to the opposite sex?

In life, we will inevitably have troubles. For example, we are pushed out by our colleagues because we are unhappy in the workplace. We were five minutes late for work in the morning, and our boss caught us and criticized us at the staff meeting. There is also a conflict with my boyfriend. What happened to him not only didn't understand me, but also criticized me for being in a bad state recently, which was very different from what I had known before. Then, when we talk about these troubles, why do we like to talk to the opposite sex?

First of all, it is the truth that like-sex repel and opposite-sex attract.

If you have any troubles, you can certainly get real help by giving it to the opposite sex. Generally speaking, the opposite sex is more open-minded and comprehensive, and can provide some pertinent opinions for themselves. As for the same sex, it's good not to laugh at you secretly, let alone what good advice she will give you.

Second, the opposite sex knows how to listen better.

Generally speaking, the opposite sex will respect us more and listen to us patiently to finish the whole process. From the perspective of bystanders, they can also help us analyze the causal relationship and solutions of things on the basis of listening. These are the characteristics of fighting for the same sex. Moreover, the opposite sex is generally not emotional, and is good at analyzing problems from different angles, thus helping us solve our troubles.

Third, the opposite sex is more selfless.

In fact, it is difficult for people of the same sex to have really good friends. Everyone walks together in a competitive manner. Even if we don't want to slander others ourselves, it doesn't mean that you talk about your best friend all day. Maybe one day you will stab in the back. Therefore, it should be a compulsory course for every girl to be alert to the same sex in her mind. But the opposite sex is different. After all, everyone is not on the same track, so it is easy to open up and help selflessly.

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