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Is happiness in marriage harmful to you? What does happiness mean?

There has always been a custom in the countryside called Qingxi. If people encounter bad luck, such as being in poor health for a long time, they will try to celebrate happiness and wash away their bad luck, hoping that their health will get better soon. One way to celebrate happiness is to get married, so is it harmful to the couple themselves? Let's take a look together.

Is the wedding celebration harmful to you?

This practice has existed in ancient China, including now, and it still exists in some places. If someone in the family is seriously ill, then they will try to celebrate. For example, holding happy events, such as marrying a fiancee and visiting a house, can ward off evil spirits and see if patients can turn the corner. After the engagement, the man suddenly became seriously ill. With the consent of both parents, choosing an auspicious day in advance is called "Chong Xi". The etiquette of meeting the bride is still the same. If the groom is ill, his sister will take his place. These methods may make girls widowed for life. In addition, this is also a kind of Fan Xin, so we don't recommend it.

Xi chongxi

In addition to rushing into happiness, there is also a saying called rushing into happiness, that is, in rural areas, if two happy events collide, it is not good, and thinking that one party's happiness is weak will lead to his joy being suppressed, which will lead to his future troubles. Among them, Xi Chong Xi has:

1. On the way to the wedding, if you meet another wedding convoy, it will offset the blessing of the other party, so it is up to two matchmakers to set off firecrackers or exchange flowers to resolve it.

It is impossible for a family to hold two weddings a year.

3. Pregnant women can't attend the reception and send off relatives. Pregnancy is a happy event, and pregnant women can't participate in marriage. Otherwise, the bride may be infertile.

4. avoid attending other people's wedding banquets within one month before and after the wedding, so as not to offend others.

People celebrate happiness in several ways.

1, Wedding Ceremony: There used to be a custom that someone in the family was dying, and in order to turn the corner, they would hold a happy event to drive away the illness. For example, after the engagement, the man suddenly became seriously ill. With the consent of both parents, choosing an auspicious day in advance to get married is called "rushing to Xi".

2. If someone has bad luck or bad luck, there is a practice in folk metaphysics called "one blessing turns into a thousand disasters", and the purpose of turning happiness is achieved by rushing to happiness. Or when the yang is insufficient, you can strengthen the yang through celebrations, improve your fortune and keep fit. The usual practice is to hold a birthday party to enhance happiness and yang.

3, the merits are boundless, rushing to happiness, Dafa is good and can turn thousands of difficulties and dangers. Doing good will make you happy, and then you should grasp this happiness to raise your yang.