My brother wants to be a brother-in-law

The communication between people is very complicated, especially involving some emotional problems, which is even more confusing. Some things must be paid attention to at all times, and the communication between some special people sometimes needs to keep a certain distance, otherwise it will lead to gossip and eventually lead to smearing.

For example, there is a saying in the countryside: "Men are afraid of their wives and sisters, and women are afraid of their husbands and brothers." The meaning of this sentence is that men and women who are not related by blood must always pay attention to it, otherwise it will cause a strange vision of society, or it will really cause some right and wrong, lead to family discord, may lead to the separation of wife and children, and even lead to the tragic scene of family breakdown.

The superficial meaning of "men are afraid of their wives and sisters" is easy to understand, that is, men are afraid of their wives and sisters. Why are men afraid of their wives' sisters? In fact, it's not that I'm afraid of other sisters, but that too close contact with my wife's secret may lead to an increase in gossip. Another situation is that I am afraid that my wife and sister will provoke me, or I can't grasp my feelings and provoke my wife and sister, which will eventually lead to moral corruption.

The wife's sister is really not related to herself, but she has become a relative because of her wife, so she must be protected. When she is in trouble, she needs to be taken care of as a sister. But if she takes care of the family and has feelings, she may have an affair, which will affect the unity of the family. In real life, my brother-in-law falls in love with my wife's sister, or my sister-in-law falls in love with my brother-in-law. In real life, the wife's sister is also called sister-in-law.

"Women are afraid of their husbands and brothers" means that women are afraid of their husbands and brothers. In fact, this does not mean that she is really afraid of her husband and brother, but that if she is too close to her husband and brother, it may cause social gossip or an alternative vision and be called immoral. It is understandable to say that my husband's younger brother is young. After all, eldest sister-in-law, like mother, can take care of some daily life.

The husband's brother is also his own brother and relative, but there is no certain blood relationship. In real life, there are also many women who fall in love with their husbands' younger brothers, or their husbands' younger brothers fall in love with their younger sisters-in-law. Everyone loves carrots and vegetables, and it is understandable that they will have feelings after a long time. But in real life, if this phenomenon really occurs, it is really a very sad thing. After all, it is the pain of taking a wife between relatives.

In fact, in real life, it is understandable that husband and sister-in-law care about each other in life and help each other when they are in trouble. Of course, the wife taking care of her brother is also a scene of unity and harmony that a family is very eager for. Because there is no certain blood relationship between the two, after a long time, there may be feelings, or feelings of love and affection, and there will be the possibility of derailment, which is not very good for this phenomenon, so there is a phenomenon of fear of too close communication. If a family gets along like brothers and sisters, it is very enviable, a family of relatives, but in real life, we must keep a certain distance and do things in a measured way, and we must not let the other party have strange ideas.

First of all, "wife and sister" refers to the wife's sister, that is, sister-in-law. "Brother-in-law" refers to the husband's younger brother, that is, brother-in-law. As for "men are afraid of their wives and sisters, and women are afraid of their husbands and brothers", just give two examples to understand.

Men are afraid of their wives and sisters.

Therefore, men are afraid of their wives and sisters, mainly husbands and sisters-in-law. It is best to respect each other and not to cross the line.

A woman is afraid of her husband and brother.

Therefore, a woman is afraid of her husband's brother, which means that a woman should keep her distance from her brother-in-law, behave herself and not make mistakes.

My wife and sister are my sister-in-law and my husband is my brother-in-law. This means that men are afraid of their sister-in-law and women are afraid of their brother-in-law. Does that make sense? I think it should vary from person to person, which is not absolutely reasonable or unreasonable. Let's see if men are really afraid of their sister-in-law in real life. In my hometown, there is a joke that my sister-in-law is my half brother-in-law. Why do you say that? Actually, my brother-in-law and my sister-in-law have a good relationship. No matter what happens to my sister-in-law, my brother-in-law will think it is his own business and will do his best to help. No one is afraid of her sister-in-law

The man who is afraid of his wife and sister here should mean that his brother-in-law dare not offend his sister-in-law before marriage. In case he offended his sister-in-law, his sister would speak ill of him in front of her. For men, the dream of winning back beautiful women may be ruined. Before marriage, the two sisters may have deeper feelings than their boyfriends. My sister may not care about other people's opinions, but she will definitely keep her words in mind. Imagine, if my sister says that this man is sloppy and not rigorous enough, then he really doesn't deserve her. No matter how strong the feelings are, it is possible for my sister to re-examine her relationship with this man. Therefore, a young man who is not married must first coax his sister-in-law, and when she is happy, she will say a lot of good things to you in front of her sister. The saying that men are afraid of their wives and sisters may come from here.

We have never heard of the saying that women are afraid of their husbands and brothers here. Why should sister-in-law be afraid of her brother-in-law? After marriage, the general sister-in-law loves her brother-in-law as much as her sister. Even in the countryside, my sister-in-law and brother-in-law have a harmonious relationship, which is different from my parents-in-law. There is a saying that eldest sister-in-law is better than mother. It is said that after a brother and sister-in-law get married, if there is no mother-in-law at home, the sister-in-law will care about her brother and sister as much as her mother.

Anyway, you have an exception. The relationship between brother-in-law and sister-in-law is really not so friendly. This kind of situation is generally because the sister-in-law is not filial to her parents and her brother-in-law can't stand it. There seems to be an unwritten rule in the countryside that no matter how bad this daughter-in-law is, my father-in-law can't beat her, but as a brother-in-law, she can be unscrupulous. I've seen my brother-in-law hit my sister-in-law. I really should hit that sister-in-law.

It happened in our village. The old lady is ill and needs three sons to wait on her in turn. The eldest brother and the third son have no opinion. When it was the second son's turn, the second son's daughter-in-law answered at home without saying anything, leaving the old lady hanging there. Their third son can't stand it. He raised his hand and slapped his sister-in-law. The second daughter-in-law was crying on the ground. Later, this matter was coordinated by the village Committee, and the second daughter-in-law took her mother-in-law home, and her brother-in-law apologized to her sister-in-law. But since then, the second daughter-in-law is really a little afraid of her brother-in-law.

In rural areas, there are many proverbs about the opposite sex, especially that they are related by blood, which will appear in the proverbs. One of them is the sentence "Men are afraid of their wives and sisters, and women are afraid of their husbands and brothers".

Weddings and funerals are important events for our farmers. In order to reflect the importance we farmers attach to marriage, many customs have been produced since ancient times. When they get married, this sister-in-law becomes a stumbling block, or comes up with various tricks, such as drinking up the stairs; Either ask for a red envelope directly, and the number cannot be too small. In any case, rural grooms have to bleed a lot.

When getting married, the woman is also afraid of her husband's younger brother. As we all know, it is not easy for farmers to get married now. My brother doesn't want to see his brother wronged. He will try his best to help his brother at the wedding, which may make the woman unable to do some overall things. For the woman, it is to break the wedding atmosphere.

In fact, this wife, sister and brother-in-law have other aspects.

Sister-in-law is his wife's sister, and these two may sometimes unite to test a man's loyalty. One accidentally fell into the trap of both, which is one of them. The second is that the present countryside is full of temptations. Sister-in-law treats her brother-in-law as a lollipop and buys whatever he wants. If you don't buy it at this time, your wife and sister-in-law will be unhappy; Buy it, it's going to eat dirt again. My husband's younger brother is similar to this.

There is a strange phenomenon in the countryside now, that is, if a man marries a rural woman with sisters, others will think that he is more capable than the average person. The truth in this is very deep, and everyone understands it.

These are my views on this issue. I have to say that this sentence left by our ancestors is still very reasonable. It seems to refer to the relationship between men and women in rural areas, but in fact it is more about teaching us how to be a man.

Men are afraid of their wives and sisters, while women are afraid of their husbands and brothers. This meaning is easy to understand. Fear is related to people's psychology. Men are afraid of their wives and sisters, which means men are afraid of worrying about their wives and sisters; Women are afraid of their husbands and brothers, which means women are afraid of worrying about their husbands and brothers. My wife and sister are aunts, and my husband and brother are uncles. Why are men afraid of their wives and sisters and women afraid of their husbands and brothers? This is what people should think about.

If you teach men and women not to kiss, people should have ethics and don't commit adultery. This is a big taboo. And people are the most common mistakes made by sex addicts. This kind of thing is really rare in reality. I have a friend. After getting married and having children, my wife helps with the children. Although it's not far, nurses have to work in three shifts and work at night, and often don't go home at night. My wife and sister are in the middle of the night. As children, brother-in-law and aunt often have to get up at night, and lonely men and women live in an apartment. There is always a time when men and women can't help it. Of course, there are many reasons why men are afraid of their wives and sisters, and this is just one of them. There are many reasons to be afraid, all of which deserve attention.

Women are afraid of their husbands and sisters as men are afraid of their wives and sisters. I have a friend's daughter who went out to work and got married. After having children, she took care of them in her husband's hometown and could not go out to work. Her husband is going to work outside the home, and he also has a younger brother who goes to college. She came back during the summer vacation to help her sister-in-law grow vegetables and take care of her nephew. Have a harmonious relationship and deep feelings. One is lonely, the other is sexually active, and the sister-in-law is about to have an affair, which makes sense. Between men and women, we should keep a certain distance and be alert inside. Don't be too close and too hot across the distance, or you'll be really afraid of something big and difficult to clean up.

Men are afraid of their wives and sisters, and women are afraid of their husbands and brothers. The point is "fear"!

The word "fear" is not an explanation of "fear", but really means "avoid and keep your distance". For example, people often say, "I am afraid of you, and I will stay away."

Why do men keep their distance from their sister-in-law and women keep their distance from their brother-in-law? Look at a story of Tik Tok-

I grew up in the countryside, lived in the countryside for more than 10 years, and now I often go back to the countryside, knowing more about the world in the countryside.

What I was most afraid of in the countryside was that you were fooling around with men and women, which was also the most talked about by everyone. In fact, many of them are just catching shadows, but they may have a great influence on the parties! If you are labeled as a "whore", you will be disgraced in the countryside all your life, even if it is just groundless! Therefore, gossip will kill people.

The relationship between brother-in-law and sister-in-law, sister-in-law and brother-in-law is extremely subtle In the past thousands of years, there have been some affairs between brother-in-law and sister-in-law, and between sister-in-law and brother-in-law. Because they are closer and know each other better, it is inevitable that they will have feelings after a long time. Just like Pan Jinlian and Song Wu in Water Margin, that's it. Even in some places, the relationship between brother-in-law and sister-in-law, sister-in-law and brother-in-law is inherently biased!

Therefore, in order to avoid rumors and others biting their tongues behind their backs, the best way is to keep your distance from your brother-in-law and sister-in-law and avoid unnecessary misunderstandings. "Men are afraid of their wives and sisters, and women are afraid of their husbands and brothers", that's all! "Afraid" is not him (her) himself, but is afraid of gossip and secular vision!

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The rural proverb "Men are afraid of their wives and sisters, and women are afraid of their husbands and sisters" is a sentence that should be avoided between the two sexes in ancient times. Just like the customs and habits of our hometown, it is generally an old-fashioned family. My father-in-law can't just enter my daughter-in-law's room, and my brother-in-law can't enter my sister-in-law's room. In fact, the reason is the same, just to avoid suspicion.