These years, my years and growth (2)

In the adult world, we often hear the admonition that it is almost enough to do what is in front of us. Why do you think so much? "

You should abide by the rules and accept the evaluation system imposed on you by the world; You should get along with others, do what is recognized by the secular step by step, and pursue happiness and success in the eyes of the world, otherwise you will be labeled as different.

This makes people think. Those who have no enthusiasm for life and are stereotyped lead a boring life day after day. Is "almost" really what they want?

In fact, a large part of people who say this sentence have a sense of conformity at work, which is essentially fear and anxiety about the status quo, powerlessness and anger at themselves. On the contrary, those who have dreams and work hard for them are more admirable.

In the years after my graduation, I have been working in Xiamen-Xingzi Motorcycle, a subsidiary of Sanyang Industry in Taiwan Province Province, for six years, which bears all my youthful enthusiasm and growth from campus to society.

After starting work, my enthusiasm for learning, my earnest efforts in my work and my relationship with my post have given me a good exercise in my ability to withstand pressure, and my communication, coordination and expression skills have been greatly improved. At that time, I was like a thirsty sponge constantly absorbing nutrients and expanding myself.

I still remember the last article that I was not good at socializing when I was studying, and I was a very quiet and timid girl. However, when something new happens in your world every day, you will be driven by curiosity to discover and open your current cognition.

When I settled down in the second year after work, I didn't forget my little dream in middle school: I must finish at least my undergraduate education without any regrets. Even if it is a curve to save the country, we must complete it and keep learning.

So in that year, I signed up for the adult college entrance examination. After several months of hard work, I was admitted to Jimei University, and started three years of college night classes and three years of correspondence. In the first three years, I went to work during the day and got off work at night from Xinglin to Jimei Longzhouchi by bus. Dai Yue persisted for several years. Every time I review for the exam, I burn the midnight oil. For six years, I have never had a make-up exam record. I will always get my bachelor's degree.

It is easy to persist for a month or two, and it is precious to persist in years. At that time, it was not just for secular recognition, but a kind of responsibility for one's own life. During this period, there are times when I am too tired to move and times when I want to give up. In the inner self-pulling, I will overcome my inertia.

Therefore, people should have goals, beliefs and actions, so that it is not easy to give up halfway and forget what their starting point is and where they will aspire to.

Da Bing said: "There is no such thing as a standard answer in life. Maintaining prejudice and curiosity about the world is the correct way to treat life. "

Some people say that curiosity is the driving force to explore the unknown world, but I think it is.

Curiosity is a complex cognitive emotion when we want to know what we don't know. It can be understood as an intrinsic motivation and the key to active learning and spontaneous exploration.

I remember when I was in junior high school, I liked collecting stamps with my classmates and often collected some beautiful and special stamps. What impressed me the most was the package ticket in Jiuzhaigou. The fairy tale world in autumn is so beautiful and fascinating that the seeds of travel and curiosity begin to take root. I have always wanted to go outside to see the great rivers and mountains of the motherland when I grow up.

When I was studying in Zhangzhou, I went to Xiaomei's hometown in Nanping with several classmates during the May Day holiday to satisfy my desire to travel by train. It was my first time to take the green leather train 12 hours. The first experience of the train at that time was not pleasant. Although it was Wuyi Express, it still took 12 hours, which was too long. Only the station ticket was bought with a student ID card (which was very easy to use at that time), and the hygiene on the train was not as clean and comfortable as the current moving train. There are many people in the trunk, some people who haven't bought seat tickets sleep directly under the chairs, and there are children's noises. It's no exaggeration to describe it as a mess, but we stood all the way to the end, exhausted.

However, when I arrived at my destination, I was attracted by new things, and the fatigue of the journey had already vanished. I can't wait to try Nanping's light cakes and other delicious food. It is said that street snacks can reflect the culture and soul of a place, and I feel the same way.

China is a nation of "food is the most important thing for the people", and diet is naturally the most important thing. Every place has its own long-term food culture. So that every time I go to a new city, I always pay attention to the local special food, satisfy the taste buds, and at the same time, I can understand the local cultural characteristics and know the "soul" of a place faster.

Don herold wrote a poem entitled "I will pick more daisies". She said:

If I can start from scratch, I will try to make more mistakes.

I will climb more mountains, swim more rivers and watch more sunsets.

I will eat more ice cream and less beans. I will encounter more troubles, and I won't worry in my imagination.

You see, I live cautiously, steadily and rationally, hour after hour, day after day.

Oh, I had an unforgettable moment. If I could do it all over again, I hope there will be more such moments.

Actually, I don't need anything else Just for an instant, one after another, instead of worrying about the long days ahead every day.

If I could do it all over again, I would walk around, try everything and go into battle lightly.

If I can start from scratch, I will extend my barefoot time, from early spring to late autumn.

I will ride more carousels and pick more daisies.

We are always chased by the success of the secular definition and lose ourselves in the anxiety and busyness.

But in fact, things that smell in the world are often useless.

Read some useless books, do some useless things, spend some useless time and find a chance to talk to yourself.

Only by finding your inner direction can you meet the best appearance of life.

Curiosity and happiness also promote each other. When you explore new things out of curiosity, you will forget your worries and anxieties. When you feel happy, you will be more curious about new things.

If you are not curious, you will not find "gravity" if the apple sticks to your head; Science fiction films will not be so popular;

A curious adult will be more focused and devoted when facing the uncertainty brought by new things.

In the face of difficulties, people with strong curiosity will not be easily defeated, and they will show better adaptability or "perseverance" when exploring new concepts or new scenes.

Adults face a complex world, please keep their prejudice and curiosity about the world, and don't be easily changed by the world, there is no limit.

May you live a warm and free life, be happy and be an interesting person, always naive, always young, always affectionate and never hesitate.

The world is so big, I still want to see it.