What if my girlfriend always asks me for a lot of expensive gifts?

I think, look at yourself. If you feel that you can't afford each other's needs, just tell them directly. You are not a mobile ATM, your girlfriend's ATM. No money, no money. Don't buy her a gift if you don't want to give money. Does it mean that your relationship will disappear?

You know, it is normal for boys to give gifts to their girlfriends in the process of male-female communication, but if girls always ask their boyfriends to give expensive gifts, there may be problems.

You know, to send is to send, or to want. If you don't take the initiative to pay, but ask for it from the other party, then in the process of being asked for for a long time, if you don't get the corresponding harvest, the other party will definitely question their feelings. After all, do you love me or do you want me to buy you a present? I believe many men will have such doubts.

Besides, it is a big request, and it is still an expensive gift. ...

Think about it. Today is your birthday. The girl wants a birthday present. Ok, I have prepared tens of thousands of bags for you.

It will be Qixi in a few days. You said today is Valentine's Day in China. Let's show it. Ok, then send another Qixi gift.

However, the Mid-Autumn Festival will be in a few days. Do you want more and better than moon cakes? ...

Although girls frankly say that what they want can reduce their boyfriends and give them expensive things that they don't like, if they change from giving gifts to having to buy things, this change in shopping will make people feel arranged and calculated.

So, I can understand your headache.

I have a friend who is married, and he is also worried about all kinds of holiday gifts. His salary is not high, and his income level can barely arrange his family life. Once there is one more holiday every month, his wallet will be hurt.

Gifts are not just sent home. You need to go out for dinner. Eating out is not cheap. You can eat at home for many days and eat out for many days. But on holidays, I still have to go out and rub my teeth.

Needless to say, if you specify an expensive gift, it may be really unbearable. ...

So, when you can't afford it, don't pretend to be fat. Don't buy if you don't want to.

Of course, if she usually buys you a lot of expensive gifts, then you should reflect on yourself and see if your financial ability is too poor to keep up with each other.

Maybe the problem that bothers you is just a small matter in the other person's eyes. On your own, it's too "low" ...

But anyway, since you have doubts about giving gifts, it is best to ask her directly and communicate well. what do you think?