Every moment of enlightenment leads to growth - my educational notes

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In a blink of an eye, the first semester of the third grade has ended. Children are nearly halfway through their primary school career. As teachers, parents, and children, in these two and a half years, we try to think about what we have gained, what we have paid, what we have lost, and what we have gained...

Thoughts and actions will make the future road smoother and more firm and powerful.

Each of us needs to reflect frequently to constantly adjust our pace.

First of all, let me talk about myself! This is my first time as a class teacher. When I first entered the fourth primary school and took over this class, I was at a loss about the work of a class teacher. As a newcomer in the new environment, I Before the start of the school year, I consulted many senior class teachers. I was completely confused about what others said about the work of the class teacher. I wished I could take a small notebook and write it down one by one. < /p>

I have a deep understanding of this. Compared with Chinese teaching work, the work of a class teacher is more cumbersome and takes up most of my time. I also put a lot of effort into this work.

So my biggest wish is that one day I can no longer be a class teacher and just be a subject teacher.

But after I went to Mianyang to meet my high school teacher, I changed this idea. I felt that all the efforts I put into my students were not as much as one ten thousandth of what my teacher put into his students. I was really ashamed. !

What a profound educational realization it must be to reach a supreme and pure state of teaching and educating people! My teacher is 56 years old and is still working diligently and quietly in his position as a class teacher...

Because he is too good to retire, he can also take pleasure in teaching and educating others. It is rare to be proud of his work as a class teacher!

In December 2019, the class teacher meeting held by their school At the celebration meeting, he can be seen at a glance in the group photo of Diamond’s head teacher commending him.

Teachers who can turn spring breeze into rain and moisturize things silently are all "magical", charismatic, shining people who make people have to respect them! Life is education, not For the sake of utilitarianism, regardless of success or failure, just waiting for the flowers to bloom.

After I went to Mianyang to meet my teacher and came back, I had a completely new interpretation of the work of the class teacher and began to review my work in the past few years.

Although I am just a very ordinary teacher among many, I am willing to calm down and truly start from the children and do everything for the children.

Just like when dealing with underachievers, I often ask myself, have I done 100% and really want to consider them? Or am I afraid that their underachievement will affect the overall performance of my class and the class as a whole? Progress?

There is selfishness, and a large part of them really don’t want the underachievers to affect the overall performance of their class, so they are easy to get angry easily.

In the second half of this semester, I suddenly figured out this problem. Since we are anxious and angry, we cannot change the result. Why not slow down, calm down and really think about these children who are temporarily lagging behind, and give them more sincere care.

Find the shining points in them and let them find a point where they can build confidence and stand up. This is what I should do.

Therefore, I began to change my direction, regardless of the results, regardless of personal gains and losses, to change them, help them, care for them, so that they can generate upward power, be able to climb all the way, and gradually catch up with the world. force.

Xiaodong, the new student in the class this semester, is also a student who is temporarily lagging behind in the class. To be honest, I didn’t welcome him very much when he first came because of his poor foundation. I often said: "You are not my biological child."

As a child who was not raised by myself, I feel very unsure of myself and don't know how to make up for it. I often feel a headache.

When I really calm down and care about the children, I gain more than I give, and what I gain is the children’s full love!

Before the English test in the afternoon of January 6 , I went to the class to count the number of people. Xiao Dong ran over to me very happily and told me: "Teacher, I finished writing my composition. I heard your voice on the radio. I couldn't believe it at first. I didn't recognize it. I thought it was someone else. I heard the teacher’s voice later, “Teacher, your voice is so beautiful!”

He said to me seriously, with an expression of joy and pride in his eyes and face! At that time, At this moment, thinking of the harshness and harshness towards him, I couldn't help but feel sad. Which child is not an angel? What a clear, transparent and pure inner world a child has!

In the past two and a half years, I have accompanied the children to grow, and the children have also promoted my progress!

In this school year, we have experienced a lot together in school. , "Campus Reading Festival", "Campus Music Festival", "Speech Contest", "June 1 Children's Day Performance", "Flag Raising Ceremony for the 70th Birthday of the Motherland", "2019 Winter Games"...

In the class, we worked hard to improve the construction of various class cultures. Star rating has been implemented since the first grade.

The most unforgettable thing for me is the 21-day reading diary challenge. The children benefited a lot, and it was even more rewarding for me.

When my son was still young, in order to cultivate his reading habit, I often competed with him and read with him. However, it was always intermittent and I never really calmed down to read a few books. Most of the time this book is just for sitting there with the children and pretending.

Later, after my son developed a reading habit, I began to try to let go. My reading speed was lagging behind that of my son, because there is too much impetuosity in the adult world, and it is difficult for us to do so. Calm down, hold the book and read it with gusto.

But this time was different. Some time before the event, I had some anxiety in my heart. I often read news on my mobile phone and scrolled until late at night, which seriously affected the quality of my sleep and my health.

During the 21-day reading diary challenge with my classmates, I really got rid of the bad habit of using my mobile phone.

The children read 10 pages of books and a diary entry every day, and I read 30 pages and a diary entry.

Every day, in addition to correcting homework in class and doing simple housework, I read and journal, because I have to give the homework to the children for review the next day, and I must do it well. If I have any problems, The reason is that I didn’t finish my homework. How can I establish my authority in the class in the future?

So even if I do my homework until 11:30 every day, I still have to finish it. After finishing it, I can’t open my eyes. Huda fell asleep and no longer had time to play with his mobile phone.

During these 21 days, I studied more seriously than when I was in school. I thought that I must set a good example for the children so that they can learn from teachers. My family joked: "If you were in school If you are so serious, you probably got into Tsinghua University and Peking University!”

Of the 75 students in the class, 58 students persisted from beginning to end during these 21 days.

After that, every exam or other study task, the number of students who completed well was also this number. Including the final exam results, the number of eugenics happened to be 58. I don’t know if it was a coincidence. , is there an inevitable connection between this accident, let everyone think about it?

If you can persist for twenty-one days, you can develop a good habit, and the child's tenacity will be cultivated.

When it comes to life and work, I have never thought about catching up with anyone, imitating anyone, or surpassing anyone. Challenging myself, transcending myself, and facing myself are things I have always spared no effort to do!

Therefore, here, I would first like to thank the children for giving me the opportunity to be their teacher. They can make me confident, powerful, shining and shining day by day. Thank them! I love them from the bottom of my heart!

I would also like to thank all the parents for their support and love in the past few years. From the first grade when many people were worried about leaving their children in my hands, to the class with the largest number of students in the whole grade today, thank you for your tolerance and love. Understanding and support!

I am also grateful for the occasional doubts and criticisms. Different voices have made me start to examine my work, myself, and life, so that I can take the next step more firmly!

I also hope that in the days to come, we can continue to receive the love and support of children, and the support and understanding of parents! Home and school work together, everything is for the children, and for all children.

Parents, have you felt the changes in the children in the past few years? As teachers who get along day and night, we are involved in the growth process of every child, and we are grateful for the joy and confusion on their growth path. We all feel their joys, sorrows and joys!

By talking about my progress earlier, everyone can also see the growth of the children.

But I also want to say that in the past two and a half years, some children have grown at an astonishing rate. The three quotients that people often talk about now, IQ, EQ and back injury, may back hurt everyone. What I hear less is the ability to withstand pressure and setbacks.

Some children have run far away, and some are still standing on the starting line.

We study in school every day, with the same teachers, the same school, and similar life trajectories. The reason why the results are very different is because many parents do not provide reasonable and timely guidance.

Many children cannot think and just repeat themselves mechanically every day. They have never used their own eyes to observe the world or use their hearts to perceive the world and everything around them. Over time, the gap has become wider and wider.

I once wrote an article for Chen Yishan, a classmate who loved crying in my class - the little girl Lidou, who read it affectionately to the children in the class one day.

Before I finished reading, many children were moved to tears. After reading, I asked a child who looked confused, how did you feel after listening to this article?

She said three words to me seriously - it was too long, can you imagine my mood?

This child belongs to one of your families. Of course, there is definitely more than one child who has this idea.

But for the same thing, some children burst into tears, while others looked indifferent. ? We also need to think about the reasons

These children who cannot calm down have not learned to listen, let alone think about their parents and teachers, and share their worries for teachers and parents!

These If things go on like this, children will become very self-centered and "me"-centered, and the whole world will revolve around "me", or they will not be interested in anything.

Parents often like to take their children on vacations. Before, after, or during the trip, they can use the right time to reasonably guide their children to think actively instead of playing without purpose!

In person You can often relate to what you have experienced.

I have always been worried about the small number of words written by the children. The longest composition this semester is no other than the composition "Eating Cake". Almost every child participated. First of all, they can have something to say. It can be said.

Every child can write an article of four to five hundred words. Being able to write down what he has personally experienced is progress. The difference is that a considerable number of children have their own unique thinking perspectives and are good at observation. and the profound meaning behind the excavation incident.

For example, the teacher’s love for us and the difficulty of the teacher. We must study hard to repay the teacher’s kindness to us. I love the class I am in and feel proud to be a member of Class 3.1. Proud...

Some children only eat cakes but don’t see any trouble in their hearts. They just narrate the whole thing objectively. Such articles are boring and soulless to write.

Writing is the top priority, which establishes the important position of reading. We have been emphasizing it, and I have been trying my best to encourage children to read diaries. It has certain results, but the results are very small. In other words, it is difficult to persevere.

I think there are many problems for the children in our class today. First of all, we have a very large class and discipline has never been good.

Brothers in the class have always said what is good about our class. We can also get the first clues through the final exam prison. Some children have to ask the invigilator to remember his name when they meet for the first time in the exam room. How great is this? You can only do it by "jumping"!

Secondly, there are many girls in the class, and many head teachers are envious of the number of girls. However, there are disadvantages to having too many girls, not to mention that the intelligence level of girls may be lower than that of boys. Girls have delicate minds and are easily distracted. , such as love for beauty and other aspects, will guide the public opinion of the entire class, and it is easy for the class to form unhealthy trends.

Another example is forming small groups, which affects class unity and the formation of good class style and class appearance.

In the second half of the semester, girls are not as obedient as boys and are more likely to be afraid of difficulties. When encountering a difficult learning task or helping teachers and classmates do something within their capabilities, they show a very impatient look. They only want everyone to do it for me, not everyone else.

For boys, the biggest problem is that they cannot calm down and cannot listen to lectures. There are many such students. Indulge in your own world and don't care. If you wake up for a moment and then catch up, your performance will rise significantly during that time.

When the children are at home, I also hope that parents will let them do what they can to organize their belongings.

There are many students’ desks in the class, some boys and some girls, which are never cleaned up and are dirty and messy. We should cultivate children to be planned and well-planned people, with all-round development of moral, intellectual, physical, artistic and physical skills.

Please let go of many things or order them to do them. Now that they are no longer young, don’t spoil your children by doting on them.

In the next semester, the first thing we need to do is to rectify class style and class discipline, clear obstacles for teachers to attend class with peace of mind, students to listen carefully, and create a good learning environment.

We must improve the class management system, select capable and responsible class cadres, effectively serve as assistants to teachers, and serve as role models for students.

For the students, there is still a lot of room for improvement. It is necessary to beat every little mouse into the hole at once, so that it will not come out so easily. We are like playing whack-a-mole in class. If this naughty thing doesn't show up, it will show up somewhere else.

There are more than a dozen children who often disrupt the classroom. I hope parents can join hands with teachers to jointly restrain and manage their children's words and deeds.

Many of the children in the class are parents and friends who have had their second child. Most of us are not first-time parents, so we should have more experience in being a parent than I am. .

Let me talk about myself first! For my children, as a parent, I have not done as much as a teacher for my students. I feel very guilty about this, and I am working hard to correct it.

Some people say that you are lucky and happen to meet a more obedient child. In fact, as I have said before, there are many inevitabilities hidden in chance.

What I do most for my child is to accompany him and help him establish the habit of completing homework on time and reading seriously.

I rarely interfere with homework in various subjects, but it does not mean that I am an unfit mother in the eyes of my children.

Every day I use my practical actions to subtly influence the children. Let him see a mother who is serious, responsible and strict with herself.

The same is true for writing. When the children are in second or third grade, they are proud that their mother can write some good articles.

Once we met a friend when we went to Laoya to play on behalf of the crow. The friend said: "I envy you so much. The article is so well written!"

My son was proud of it. I said to that friend: "My mother earns a lot of money from writing articles!"

Although I don't have much money, in my child's mind I am a role model for him to learn from.

For him, writing is not difficult.

"Zhang Fei Comes to Modern Times" written by him in the third grade made people laugh after reading it. "The Lighthouse" written this semester made many adults feel ashamed after reading it and wanted to continue reading. He told me to write an open book like a movie. The ending of sex...

Children's growth and success are inseparable from the teacher's teachings, but the relationship with the parents' family environment is often the most important.

I chatted with my child’s teacher because many children in their class are thoughtful and sensitive and can write many touching articles.

We talked about the very important impact of the family of origin on children. Many families and parents are not aware of it and delay their children's life without knowing it at all.

As a result, we have deep doubts about the original intention of our education - trying to make every child good enough, is it counterproductive?

The child's teacher said, "I am born with talents that will be useful." "Every child has his or her own path in life. I just hope that the children's path will be smoother."

This is our best wish. As people who have lived for decades, we should all know that nothing in this world is smooth sailing, and there is no smooth road all the time.

We also always hope that every child we meet has a smoother life path. I think this is just our best wish!

And the source of unevenness is, Not in school, not in society, but in family and parents!

Many parents will never know the harm caused to their children by their original family, and even the loss of their character.

Many children have pain in their hearts all their lives, and they keep covering their hearts and calling for mom and dad, but their parents are completely unaware of it.

When children grow up, many children cannot complain about their parents and choose to tolerate and forgive. Perhaps their parents have also suffered from the pain of their grandparents.

Many parents may want to say, Mr. Deng, your career can influence your children in a subtle way. We are uneducated, don’t understand anything, and cannot give good guidance to our children.

I think everyone can do it. If I say it, everyone has it, and that is companionship. Companionship is the longest confession of love!

Your silent companionship is to your child I love you, sitting quietly next to him while he is doing homework, or handing him a glass of water and an apple when he is tired, then touching his head and saying with a smile: "My child, you have read more today than yesterday." It’s been ten minutes. Mom is happy for you. Keep working hard and I will be with you.”

Be kind to others and treat the world and the people around you gently. These are beautiful qualities you can possess and then pass on to others. Children, such children will not be small when they grow up.

If you pass on this kind of magnanimity to your children and guide them with your own decisions, how can your children worry about a pen with their classmates at school? There's a big fight!

Only when our structure is big enough can we respond to all changes by remaining unchanged, and can we be a person who is neither humble nor arrogant.

When human beings are born, they are inherently good. Children are initially a blank sheet of paper. It is their parents and families who paint the first strokes of color on them. The difference begins from there!

We can set an example of filial piety for them, so that they will also respect their elders and honor us;

We can handle the relationship between husband and wife well, so that the children can grow up in a loving family atmosphere with light in their eyes. Only when you have love in your heart can you spread kindness and love around;

Maintain the absolute authority and dignity of the teacher in front of the children, no matter how dissatisfied you are with the teacher.

If you think that standing with your children and condemning the teacher together is a sign of love for them, and if you think that letting the children not listen to what the teacher says is bad, then you will suffer a big loss. The teacher does not any losses.

And your child is a bully at home, and may not be very popular with classmates and teachers at school. How will he win a place in society when he grows up?

Only when home and school work together, and parents and teachers work side by side and heart to heart, can we provide qualified talents for society.

Just swallow all the bitterness silently. Even if life is not easy, I always smile when I step on the podium to face my children every day. I also hope that everyone can learn to smile kindly in front of their children!< /p>

Just like the 58 children who completed the diary challenge, children who can persevere in learning deserve recognition and praise. Behind this, I think there must be 58 qualified parents who silently influence their children with their actions, so that I express my deepest respect to you! You have worked hard! I hope you can continue to persevere!

Then there are 17 children who always fail to complete their homework, and behind the children who fail to challenge various learning tasks, There must be one or two parents who are too busy to care about their children's growing feelings.

I have no intention of blaming you. I cannot see many parents even once a semester, so I sincerely hope that everyone can come to the parent-teacher conference!

I can understand how difficult life is for everyone. , a sister said to me the day before: "Sister, I don't have time to take care of my children. I want to make money while I'm young. I want to buy and build a house in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou..."

I was really angry. Say to her: "Even if you make a lot of money and your child becomes a prodigal in the end, will your efforts be of any use? Is it worth it?"

Never say when you will take care of your children again, that's right. Don't think that my busyness is the reason.

Some people may think, "My child can manage himself pretty well." The teacher knew how bad his condition was, and his learning state was in chaos, while the busy mother suddenly stopped to take a breath. I saw my child's 100% test paper, and then I felt a sense of comfort and pride. I posted it on WeChat Moments. Children without parents are awesome. Keep it up!

When I saw this, I felt like it was a slap in the face. Ah, because I was correcting the paper at the time, and this kid scored 56 points and his handwriting was extremely poor.

Let’s do it again for the second time. Children, you have to work hard. I am proud of you. Children don’t look at Moments!

And both of our teachers are worried about the children. At that time, the parent showed off the fruits of victory there. I couldn't bear it and finally deleted this parent.

I hope you won’t be angry, we don’t have any grudges, because the children come together, everything is because of the children and for the children. I hope you can chat with the teacher when you are free and see? How is the child’s behavior? How?

Be good at digging out the secrets behind scores!

We came together because of our children, which I have to say is also a kind of fate. I often sit on a bench in the park or on a bench in the community in a daze, thinking about so many people coming and going. Here, few are lucky enough to be able to say a few words.

If it weren’t for the children, we would still be strangers to each other. Everyone has always asked me to have strict requirements for the children. Therefore, in the future, I will firmly guard the children against any factors that are detrimental to their growth.

In the next semester, for children who are temporarily behind in various learning tasks or who have not completed their tasks, I will bother you and take the trouble to call you to discuss good plans for your children's education. I hope you all Lots of support.

Next, let’s talk about this final exam. In the past few days, parents have asked about their children’s scores one after another. The first one was the child’s grandmother. This student’s grades were not ideal, especially in the Chinese subject. Then the grandma asked: “Teacher, what are the good scores in your class?” You must have done well in the exam, right?”

At that time, I expressed my disagreement with the aunt’s statement and conveyed my opinions and suggestions.

We Chinese people have a herd mentality and like to find points of self-comfort.

Every time when my brother took an exam when he was a child, when his father said that he did not do well in the exam, he would say that so and so did worse than me.

We are always making excuses for our inaction; also, I don’t like the term “good grades” in your class. It means that you are always hinting to your children that you are not good grades, but you are Poor student.

There was a little girl in the class who was very unconfident and said to her mother: "Getting 100 points in the test is other people's business and has nothing to do with me." This girl's thoughts changed in the next month and she hopes that she will continue to study I can set sail in life and keep up the good work!

In front of children, I never use it to distinguish students with good grades and label them. I just say lightly: "Students who are temporarily lagging behind should work hard!" "Children like to say "student tyrant" and "student scumbag".

After seeing the test paper, in any test, our eyes should not be attracted by the scores first. Instead, we should spend our energy on looking at each test question, find out where the problem lies, and see which questions are careless and wrong. , which questions are due to lack of knowledge, and which questions are due to lack of solid grasp of basic knowledge and loss of points.

Some parents sum up all their children's problems, including the entire exam failure, which is too careless and hasty.

I disagree! I know that our children often use this as an excuse to prevaricate parents, so parents choose to believe their "sloppyness."

In this exam, I usually get about 95 points. There are 9 students who rarely get 80 points and there are 9 people in the 80 points.

There are 10 people who were originally eugenics, but fell out of the eugenics ranks.

Those who got all the multiple-choice questions correct are: Liang Juntao, Yao Yuanyuan, Xiang Jiajia and Hou Pengyao.

The students who made progress include: Yang Haoming, Deng Zixuan, Luo Zihao, Chen Zhengan, Feng Shihao, Yang Lanting, Li Duoduo and Du Yujie.

Those who got perfect scores for their compositions are: Liu Hangyu, Pu Siru and Du Yujie.

1. Rectify class style and discipline, improve class management system, and improve class cadre management mechanism. Create a good learning environment.

2. Pay close attention to the implementation of basic knowledge, consolidate the foundation of Chinese teaching, master the vocabulary, and review on a rolling basis.

3. Establish a class WeChat public account to promptly publish class weekly, monthly and quarterly updates. Allow parents to keep track of their children's performance in all aspects of school and make timely adjustments. At the same time, outstanding articles by teachers and students in the class are pushed to parents.

4. Implement follow-up reading and diary to build a bridge for students to write.

5. Conduct a class speech contest and debate competition.

6. Pay close attention to students’ habit of doing homework on time and strictly require writing.

1. Read for one hour every day. Complete the reading tasks of two books. The teacher prescribed the book "The Adventures of Tom Sawyer" and a self-selected book.

This is the teacher’s reading list for the holidays. Students are welcome to review it when school starts.

2. Recite and copy a Tang poem every day.

3.10 diaries.