Why do girls work so hard?

Work hard?

"A person's greatest luck is that both adults and children have to embark on an extremely difficult road, but this one is reliable. The greatest misfortune of women is that they are surrounded by almost irresistible temptation and are only encouraged to slide down to achieve bliss, but when they find themselves fooled by a mirage, it is usually too late and their strength has been exhausted in failed adventures. "

I said a sentence before, although it is ugly, it is true: if a girl doesn't work hard, the world she can see is the ugliest: workplace discrimination, the choice of marriage market, and even values are learned from the mouths of seven aunts and eight aunts.

She has no idea what she wants. She always lives under the rules and requirements of others. She must be obedient and virtuous, maintain material things and follow the trend in order to survive.

This is the real world, the dark forest, the jungle. The weak only deserve to live under the laws of the strong, and they want to gain power and respect by their own efforts.

Unfortunately, men often grow up in competition, and they can recognize the dark side of society earlier. Girls, on the other hand, mostly grew up in sweet bubbles. If they don't try hard to recognize the reality, they will often become the accessories of the strong, unaware of it and never tire of it. In the process of consultation, I can clearly perceive this:

Many happily married women are usually highly educated and knowledgeable. They know what they want and what real freedom is.

They have their own careers and social contacts, and they will never live by men. On the contrary, they have the right to refuse and the reason and courage to say "no" to things that make them unhappy.

What about the rest of the unhappy women?

They have been living in various temptations of life, blinded by pink bubbles, and always fantasize about the drama of "the prince saves Cinderella", but in the end, reality always gives them a head-on blow.

Spoiled since childhood, without ambition and self-discipline. I think "men owe themselves. If they are not good to themselves, they just don't love themselves. "

"; There is no ability to distinguish right from wrong in emotional matters. When I met love rat, I met a bad guy. When I left that good man, I began to cry and cry. After I got married, I began to be more of an asshole. Seeing someone else marry a rich husband, my demands are outrageous. "The bride price must be 300,000, and there is a room name in the urban area. Your beauty is enough to ensure that you can eat and drink for the rest of your life. " ..

Girls with this "don't want to work hard" mentality have a high probability of meeting a good man.

Finally, they often meet love rat and dump her when they are tired of playing. I don't want to improve myself when I get here. On the contrary, I will feel that I am particularly excellent and can meet better people to take over.

However, most men will only choose to fall in love with such a woman, but will never marry her.

After the age of 30, you must have a career without a career, a degree without a degree, and your face value is not competitive. If you are not elected, you will start to scold men and find psychological comfort for yourself.

So anyway, why do girls work so hard?

Say something very realistic:

"It is to accumulate your own strength, avoid falling into the whirlpool of various temptations, let yourself control your life as much as possible, and make your future full of more possibilities."

I have such a friend around me,

To tell the truth, when I first came into contact, I was ugly, just a little transparent in the crowd. But it is such a person that I really admire.

She wanted to go to Beijing University of Political Science and Law for postgraduate study, but she disappeared in the circle of friends for half a year. The undergraduate major has nothing to do with law, but people only sleep for four hours every day, starting from scratch, and they are really admitted.

She wants to start a business and buy an apartment in Shanghai. She studied investment and business in various circles all day, and was so busy that she flew every day, but after three years, people really bought it.

One didn't rely on home, and the other didn't rely on crooked ways. The most terrible thing is that no one knew these things before she succeeded.

Tell me, did such a woman encounter gender discrimination in the workplace? Of course not. She is the boss herself, and the men in business will give her three points.

Will she be discriminated against in marriage and love?

No, her pursuers were sent from Beijing to Paris. As long as she is willing, the matching male resources must be the best.

Will she haggle over the bride price, house, three walnuts and two dates?

Not to mention, such a woman is not afraid of divorce, even her husband's infidelity, or even her husband's futility. She can walk out of love smartly or walk out smartly.

Men and women, as long as this person works harder, can climb higher on the social pyramid.

The higher the place, the more sunshine and the darker the world.

If girls don't work hard, as long as they have a little beauty before the age of 28, they can still enjoy the gender bonus.

However, after the age of 28, the more bonuses they enjoyed before, the greater the rebound, because they have never seen what the darkness of society looks like and have been living under the hypnosis of various temptations.

When she saw the cruelty of society, she woke up, but it was too late. Because of the capital and brains needed to resist social injustice, Yiyi was cultivated by her own efforts when she was young.

Work hard, not for others.

But for myself.

For your soul to be more free, enjoy the life you want, say "no" to those unpleasant things, control the life you want, and don't depend on anyone.

Try to get out of the ivory tower and see the outside world.