How to chat with a boyfriend with high emotional intelligence

1. If you chat, you should interact. A few simple sentences can see through human nature better. When people just call your name and say hello, it's best not to chat. These topics can only end with "hmm".

2. Chatting should be interactive and learn to discover the beautiful things in life. When you see some meaningful things in life, you will feel that there are more and more topics to talk about when chatting with people.

3. Learn to be confident when chatting. Don't be too timid when chatting with your boyfriend. When you are too scared to speak, it is often easy to miss the opportunity to communicate with others. Even if there is really nothing to talk about, you can talk about what you did all day today. Just say that you are working, others can only say yes. If you say what you are doing, look at her reaction, which is also good.

4. Learn to cater to each other's emotions. When someone expresses his emotional reaction to something, you should not explain it word for word, but follow his mood and cater to the other person with humorous words.

5. Chatting doesn't need to be too arrogant and over-show yourself. No one wants to pay attention to how capable you are and what you want to do. With a pragmatic attitude and practical things, we can win each other's trust faster.

6. Humorous language can gain a woman's sincerity. The more humorous your speech is, the more people want to communicate with you. Use association to start a topic. If you want to finish the question, can you arouse the interest of the other party to communicate with you again?