My boyfriend is a middle-aged uncle who is 8 years older than me. I want to tell my mother the age of my future son-in-law. Will she agree?

Emotions are really wonderful sometimes. At a certain moment, I have the idea of ????wanting to stay together for a lifetime, and the person in front of me was once a person I hated, but now I love you so much that I can't let go.

30-year-old Xiao Chen once disliked middle-aged uncles, finding them greasy and uninteresting. If you meet him in a crowd, you will always try your best to avoid him and don't want to interact with him too much.

But the world is unpredictable and ever-changing. People you once disliked will also come to you in an unknown manner under the arrangement of time, allowing you to willingly give up your sincerity. .

Due to changes in her job position, Xiao Chen needs to go out more frequently. Along with her, there are colleagues from other departments, a middle-aged uncle who is 8 years older than her.

We had only met him a few times before, not a close acquaintance. In addition, she had always been repulsive towards the uncle, so she had preemptively blocked him in her heart and had no place for him.

After many contacts, Xiao Chen discovered that this uncle was not a "greasy man" in the secular sense. He was quite humorous and knew how to take care of others, which made her feel like a spring breeze.

Once the seeds of emotion are planted in your heart, it only takes a matter of time for them to take root and sprout. Xiao Chen knew that she had feelings for this middle-aged uncle. With her woman's unique intuition, she could feel his love.

If both parties in a relationship are happy with each other, then the relationship will develop at an alarmingly fast speed. Unknowingly, the two have confirmed their relationship as boyfriend and girlfriend. The hurdle before Xiao Chen is how to convince her parents. After all, her boyfriend is 8 years older than her and is still a middle-aged uncle.

Based on her understanding of her parents, they would definitely not agree and would definitely dissuade her and ask for someone with an age difference of less than 5 years. In this way, getting along after marriage will not be so tiring and there will not be so many problems.

However, these are all her imagination, and the reality is still unknown. In order to avoid frightening my mother with the sudden good news. Xiao Chen laid the groundwork in advance. First, he told the story in a roundabout way, saying that the good sisters around him married a middle-aged uncle who was 8 years older than him, and then assumed that if this was the case, would his mother agree.

She really knows her daughter better than her mother. When Xiao Chen asked this, her mother knew what was going on. Instead of doing what she expected, she simply said, "As long as he sincerely treats you well, that's all."

Actually, when love comes, the age gap is really not a problem. What is rare is that the three views are consistent. Many parents object because they worry that the middle-aged uncle's views are inconsistent with their beloved daughter's. If they are forcibly combined, there will inevitably be a fight after marriage.

Furthermore, they are worried that most middle-aged uncles are greasy and cannot treat each other sincerely, just for fun. They are afraid that their children will miss the sincerity and end up exhausted physically and mentally, and scarred by love. .

After all, the age gap is there, and the people and things we have experienced are also very different. The best thing is that they are similar in age, have similar experiences, and have the same language topics. Only with this combination can we It's a match made in heaven.

However, there are no absolutes in the world. Whether a person is interesting or not has no direct relationship with his or her age. The most important thing about love is heart-to-heart communication. If you treat each other sincerely, many worldly constraints can be avoided.

On the other hand, many couples of the same age are not happy after marriage, and their married life is miserable. If you look into it carefully, it is not a question of age, but a question of whether you are sincere and whether you treat each other sincerely.

My neighbor Sister Fen was also obsessed with a middle-aged uncle who was 8 years older than her when she got married. At first, I was worried that the other person was just playing for fun and didn't really treat each other, so I didn't dare to tell my parents for fear that they would worry.

After a period of dating, I found that the other person was worth trusting for life. Middle-aged uncles are not all greasy. There are also some who really want to have a family and a long and happy marriage.

At the beginning of their union, except for their parents, they hardly invited anyone else, and they didn't want such a big pomp. After all, emotional matters are like a fish drinking water, knowing whether it is warm or not. What is nice to you may be a thorn in the side of others.

Today, they are still in love, even more than before. Because they have a pair of children, the weight of happiness has doubled. As an outsider, I was particularly moved when I saw it, and felt like tears filled my eyes.

Because she lived out what many women want. She ignored the world and didn’t care about the eyes of others. She only followed her own heart and understood her own goodness without needing to prove it to outsiders.