My mother-in-law is ill in hospital, but my daughter-in-law suddenly asks for a divorce. What do you think?

1. From the perspective of the daughter-in-law: there is no dutiful son in front of the hospital bed for a long time, let alone the daughter-in-law. Divorce is a stop loss.

from the perspective of one of the parties, the daughter-in-law was not a member of the family, and the old saying has been said? No dutiful son in bed for a long time? This will happen to your own flesh and blood, not to mention your daughter-in-law who was originally unrelated.

and from the daughter-in-law's point of view, she is not thinking more about the harmony between her mother-in-law's health and her family. She may be thinking more about the hard work of taking care of an elderly hospitalized person and the expensive medical expenses that the elderly have to bear when they are hospitalized.

These are real problems. Only those who have experienced them personally can feel the hardships, far from what Keyboard Man thought. Immoral? A few words can sum it up.

In-hospital care, from eating and living to rehabilitation assistance, requires a lot of time, energy and money. Let's not talk about such a trivial matter as serving tea and water to the elderly who are ill in hospital. Maybe we should take care of both urine and urine? The patient's diet is taboo, but the nutrition has to keep up. Do you have to take time to cook nutritious meals for the elderly? Moreover, during the hospitalization period, the original work should be put down, and care should be concentrated, resulting in more expenses and less income, making ends meet? Not to mention the hospitalization of the elderly, it is generally not a minor illness or pain, so we should do a good job for a long time. Anti-Japanese war Preparation.

When faced with these problems, weak feelings can easily come to an end, so it seems immoral to file for divorce, but if she has done her best, I think it is actually understandable.

2. From the son's point of view, it never rains but it pours. I let myself catch up with everything, and my mind almost collapsed.

As a son, I need to take on heavier responsibilities. Although my mother's illness and hospitalization are already very heavy, if I don't appease my wife in time and make her see no hope of life, it is helpless to be forced to divorce.

A good family relationship requires both parties to work hard together. When family members are in trouble, they really need to look out for each other. But many times, this kind of mutual help is not unlimited, and everyone has their own considerations in mind.

So when something happens, we should not only consider whether we can bear it, but also whether others can bear it together.

Some husbands, after their mothers are hospitalized, will not be doubly grateful to their wives who took care of their mothers. Instead, they may bring complaints and dissatisfaction to their daughters-in-law and complain about their wives?

As a son, you really should take care of your sick mother in hospital. As a husband, you need to take care of your wife and manage your small family. When your mother's illness has an impact on family life, sometimes you are forced to make multiple-choice questions, but often, life will not give people satisfactory options? There's nothing you can do about divorce, okay?

3. Think from the mother-in-law's point of view: it's a drag on the family. Can the disease be cured? If it can't be cured, don't waste time and money. It hurts to think about it.

after decades of hard work, I returned to before liberation. Sick, old people don't want to. But there is always a day when people are born, sick and dead, and no one can escape.

Daughter-in-law wants a divorce, not only because she is ill in hospital, but also because she is a drag on her family. Many elderly people will think this way at this time, and often this kind of thinking will have a negative impact on treatment: negative desire for treatment and emotions will delay physical and mental recovery.

so if a daughter-in-law can be more considerate, she shouldn't mention divorce at this time?

However, it is difficult for an honest official to break the housework. What outsiders think is actually completely unimportant. The most important thing is that the parties themselves should properly handle it and avoid tragedies.