Sisters who have miscarried because of fetal arrest, how do you persist?

Now, more and more people don't want children. Several people who know their age have experienced it, and I have experienced it once, but now we all have our own babies and become mothers.

20 13 pregnant in April. I got pregnant two months after I stopped contraception. I was very excited when I got pregnant for the first time. At that time, I felt that pregnancy and childbirth were a very simple and natural process, and I never thought there would be accidents. About forty days later, I began to have symptoms of bleeding. I immediately went to the hospital for examination and found that the germ was low in progesterone, with a gestational sac and no fetal heart. The doctor prescribed progesterone injection for a week and went to the community hospital near my home for an injection every day. A week later, the progesterone was still low, but there was fetal heart germ. This time, the doctor changed to oral progesterone, and there has been bleeding. A week later, I checked it again. When the doctor as a B-ultrasound said that there was no fetal heart embryo bud, the whole person was confused and blank. When I gave the results to the outpatient doctor, I asked with a glimmer of hope if I could wait another week. The doctor said no, and the result is this. We should do the operation as soon as possible without delay.

The doctor said that the baby would not be born until six months after the operation. The operation performed on May 28th, the menstrual flow began to decrease gradually from June 5438+065438+1October of that year, and I was not at ease at that time. She began to get pregnant in February, 65438. I haven't moved for half a year, and my menstrual flow is getting less and less. At this time, I began to worry, thinking that there was something wrong with my body. On July 20 14, I went to a private Chinese medicine hospital to see Chinese medicine. After eating Chinese medicine for almost two months, I didn't feel the effect and the cost was very expensive. At this time, the director of our department suggested that I go to Shanghai Yueyang Chinese Medicine Hospital, so I went to this hospital to hang up the gynecological clinic. The doctor checked six hormones for me and found that estrogen was low and FSH was high. The doctor said that ovarian function is declining. In Yueyang Hospital of Traditional Chinese Medicine, I insisted on taking traditional Chinese medicine for more than three months,1check hormones at the beginning and end of October 165438+. At this time, my hormone level was close to normal, and 65438+ was found pregnant at the end of February.

The second pregnancy began to bleed for more than 40 days. Yueyang hospital gynecology didn't do maternity protection. I transferred to the private hospital I saw before, and an old Chinese doctor prescribed me Chinese medicine and oral progesterone for ten days. I went to the drugstore to buy placenta powder myself. Ten days later, I moved to Changning Maternal and Child Health Hospital. At this time, the embryo bud of fetal heart is good, but progesterone is still low, and there has been bleeding during this period. But I feel that I can pass this time smoothly, because my morning sickness is very serious, and there was almost no morning sickness for the first time. Later, I went to the hospital for review every week. I took 12 and a half weeks of anti-abortion drugs, and 12 weeks to stop bleeding. 20 15 son born at the end of August. Now the son is smart and lovely.

I had low progesterone and bleeding in both pregnancies. In the final analysis, my hormones are not good and my corpus luteum function is not good, so people with these phenomena must adjust their bodies before having children. Friends who have had fetal arrest should not give themselves too much pressure, adjust their body and mentality, and the baby will come when fate comes.

In April this year, the first child was 24 weeks old and premature. Because the first child was 33 years old, and she was pregnant with this child after two years of marriage, she couldn't get out after induced labor.

At that time, I cried for two months before I slowly adjusted. After seeing Chinese medicine for three months, I was pregnant without contraception.

This time, I thought about it carefully and my son came back to me. Who knew that I was pregnant for 23 weeks and found bleeding when I went to the toilet in the morning?

I went to the hospital immediately. The doctor in the hospital checked that the cervix of the uterus had opened two fingers, so he needed to go to a higher hospital to see if it could be ligated urgently.

Call an ambulance to the city hospital immediately, and thank my uncles, doctors and nurses who guarded me all the way and carried me to the sixth floor.

When I arrived at the hospital, the doctor had a blood test. Who knows the leucorrhea test result is not good? If there is mold, it needs to be disinfected before operation.

In fact, aunt sweeping the floor told my mother that the success rate of miscarriage protection in this situation is very low. A few days ago, a mother like me had a ruptured fetal membrane and just left the hospital.

But my mother didn't tell me that on the second day of hospitalization 12, I felt something was wrong when I went to the toilet in the middle of the night, and a lot of things flowed out unconsciously. I thought my water broke just like the first time.

The doctor came to see him, and he was bleeding, and he couldn't stop it. The internal examination has been opened to 5 fingers, and the harem mouth is fully opened for half an hour. There's nothing I can do. My child is leaving me again this time.

The doctor pushed me to the delivery room and told me to wait for the baby to come out.

During the waiting, the blood kept flowing and the doctor couldn't stand it. I'm afraid the bleeding will push me into the operating room and my amniotic fluid won't break. The doctor had to break the water manually, and he could only clip the child out with a clip.

My poor child has a slight tear in her cervix because she can't be pulled out hard. Physical pain is temporary, but mental pain is lifelong.

I don't know why, twice a year.

I began to believe in life, and sometimes I have to have it, and I have to pretend all the time.

I had one after a year of marriage. At that time, my husband went to work far away, couldn't go home every day, and didn't spend much time together. At the same time, I was worried that I couldn't conceive, so I longed for pregnancy, but I still couldn't conceive after several months. Every time he has his period, he is very upset. By the end of1February, he was suddenly pregnant with a good heart, but I don't know why he was always worried. He often sees whether there is bleeding, which is a strange and bad feeling. The morning sickness reaction was obvious at the beginning. In the new year, there is no uncomfortable reaction. At that time, it was estimated that it would not work. At the end of February, one day, I suddenly saw red and went to the hospital. The doctor said that the fetus was gone. It was really hard at that time, and I shed a lot of tears. I saw other children's distress and I don't know why. I have a bad backache after my free time. I couldn't stand it for a long time, even about 20 minutes, which lasted for several months. I also have ovarian cysts. I took a lot of medicine, but it didn't work. I spent a lot of time and money. Finally, my sister-in-law said to see Chinese medicine. The first one drank Chinese medicine for about two months, but it didn't work. Later, another Chinese doctor adjusted his body and arranged for my husband and I to get pregnant in the wrong room. At this time, I got married. When I was pregnant for more than ten days, I caught a bad cold and had a high fever. My swollen face was swollen. I didn't eat much for a week, which lasted almost a week. My husband couldn't stand it. He was angry and told me to take medicine, because I had a bad cough and thick phlegm, and I couldn't speak. I just have a hunch that I will be in trouble if I take medicine when I am pregnant. Fortunately, I made the right bet. After long-term pregnancy, prenatal examination is non-invasive. So sometimes you can't long for something, but inadvertently the surprise comes again. Life is one hurdle after another, so we should face it positively.

Never avoided pregnancy after marriage, but she didn't get pregnant after two years of marriage. At first, I thought I was born in cool thin and didn't care if I had children, nor did my husband. But later, under the persuasion of my mother and mother-in-law, I went to Chinese medicine, but I didn't expect to get pregnant after a course of treatment. I was really surprised at that time, but I went to the hospital for the first time when I was seven weeks pregnant. The doctor said to check again in a few days. Maybe she was pregnant after taking medicine. About a week later, I checked again, and the embryo developed slowly, and then the blood test showed that the progesterone value and villus-promoting value were very low. I started to have a baby for more than two months. I still remember that I didn't give up and went to several hospitals for examination. The result was the same, the embryo stopped developing, and everyone advised me to terminate the pregnancy as soon as possible. I still remember the last time I came out of the hospital, I looked at my husband and couldn't stop crying. I still remember. I got off the operating table and felt a stomachache. I felt a tearing pain when my blood was cut off. Later, I couldn't help crying every time I remembered it. I even spit on myself. Why can't I even raise a child? ...

Two days after my miscarriage, my husband left home to do business. I can't help thinking in the dead of night. I am glad that my mother has always been with me, enlightening me, and then I have a son. Sometimes I wonder whether that child will be a boy or a girl, and whether it will be like my child now.

Tell me about an abortion I experienced a few years ago. I quarreled with my husband two months ago, which caused twins to miscarry. I was depressed for half a year!

Three years ago, I was naturally pregnant with twins, belonging to single cashmere and single sheep twins. Simply put, it is twins split from a fertilized egg, and two fetuses use a placenta and sheep fetal membranes.

Just two months ago, I quarreled with my husband one day and cried for more than an hour at night! I found some bleeding at 8 o'clock in the evening and went to the hospital at 1 1 in the evening. B-ultrasound reports that both fetuses have no fetal heart.

The doctor said that it should have just stopped developing, and one of the fetuses is 9 weeks old! The doctor also said why he didn't come to the hospital as soon as he found bleeding.

Sitting in the empty corridor of the hospital with the report, I forgot my fear, my mind was blank and my tears were falling.

The doctor told me to go home and tidy it up and dispose of it in the hospital the next day.

I stayed at home all night and cried all night. The next morning, I changed to a hospital with my husband, and the result was still the same.

Later, I went to the hospital, took induced labor medicine, and then began to have a stomachache. At the most painful time, a big fetus came out of the toilet, with clear eyes, nose, ears and mouth, and ten fingers and toes, about the size of a thumb.

Looking at it, it seems that I still have a smiling expression, which hurts my baby to death! I cried my eyes out in the bathroom, and my husband couldn't help crying.

After 20 minutes, my stomach began to hurt again. When it hurt the most, a small one came out, the size of a little finger.

Later, I had another palace cleaning operation.

I thought it was over.

But this is just the beginning.

For the next six months, I have been depressed since I resigned. I have insomnia, nightmares, and tears easily …

By chance, I met a young monk who was the host of a temple deep in the mountains. I feel that he is different from other monks who burn incense and worship Buddha all day. Every day, he gives lessons to lay people and the public who go to worship Buddha, telling them how to be a good person, how to be a good person and how to tolerate everything like the sea …

As the school teacher taught us, I stayed there for two months, listening to his class every day, sweeping the stairs with the public after class, and sweeping from one mountain to another.

Two months has really improved a lot.

Now that I think about it, I am very grateful for those two months, so that up to now, my mood is much better than before, I am not easy to be stubborn, and many things can be put down slowly.

Whenever I encounter difficulties, I can be optimistic and believe that the dark days will pass.

And now I have a healthy and lovely baby, which has been more than four months.

Appreciate everything [roses]

26-year-old, pregnant for the first time, missed abortion, and became an official after bleeding. Because she didn't stay after actively protecting the fetus, she felt that she had tried her best and didn't feel too painful to survive the fittest. But at the age of 27, she was pregnant again, excited and scared, and went to the hospital at once. She is too young to see. It is normal to take the fetal heart to remove the germ after ten days. Although she was relieved, she was still afraid that he was in danger. The doctor asked 12 weeks to do nt, but the doctor said that the baby had shrunk, and the baby stopped developing as early as eight weeks ago. When her husband was not around, he kept up with his emotions and went to the hospital at once. Because of the long time, I have to have an abortion before the Qing dynasty. After taking the abortion medicine, it really hurts, hurts, hurts. Well, it's all over. I just hate that I can't do anything.

0 1 unexpected second child

Married for three years, pregnant with Dabao, experienced many hardships. I saw Chinese medicine and western medicine, took all kinds of medicines, had numerous injections, and finally gave birth to him. So it is impossible to regenerate anything.

June+10 the year before last, I haven't had my period for a long time, and my stomach still hurts a little. After several days of moxibustion, menstruation still hasn't come. At this time, I feel sick and nauseous, feel uncomfortable all over, and always feel sleepy. My husband reminded me that I was pregnant, right? I'm still wondering how it's possible! Dabao is five years old. She hasn't been pregnant for five years. Suddenly?

It turned out that my husband was right. He was really pregnant. It's been more than 40 days. I went to the hospital to draw blood and had a B-ultrasound. The blood value is very good, and the gestational sac is quite large, but there is no fetal heart germ.

02 development is not optimistic, insist on miscarriage protection.

I am a kindergarten teacher. I have to take my children to do aerobics every day, and we have to lift the bed and table during lunch break. It's not easy for this child to come again, so I especially cherish it and told the director. As a result, the teacher in our class also said that she was pregnant, and our due date was two days apart! The director said that one class can't have two pregnant women, so he changed our classes and switched with other classes.

It's just that the school needs to add a new class. The director asked me to lead a group of teachers to create a new class environment. I work overtime at noon and night. I can't drink a few mouthfuls a day. It's already eight o'clock when I get home every day. I'm too tired to move.

So, get back to work. It happened that the school was going to hold an open class competition, and there was a city supervision activity. I'm in charge of some materials. Needless to say, it's been another busy and tired week.

After a week's reexamination, there was a bit of germ, but the doctor said it was still not ideal. He asked me what to do, whether to abort or continue the abortion. I said decisively that I must have miscarried. Since he/she has come, I will protect them and do my best. Even if the result is not as expected, I have no regrets, because I tried my best.

Although I expected the result, I cried.

After taking anti-abortion drugs for a week, I came to the hospital with an anxious mood. Today is 9 weeks+,the last chance.

When I was lying on the B-ultrasound bed, I was shaking all over. As soon as the detector touched my stomach, I immediately asked: Is there a fetal heart embryo bud? Teacher B said, don't be nervous, you haven't seen it yet.

Then, the B-ultrasound teacher said to the colleague next to him, do you see if there is a fetal heart or a germ? This is an empty sac. Actually on-site teaching! My tears suddenly came out and my mind was full of empty bags!

Go to the doctor with a B-scan in your eyes. The doctor said I couldn't do it. You still have some trouble here, because you have taken anti-abortion medicine, and the medicine can't flow down, so you must clear the palace. I'll make an appointment for you tomorrow afternoon 1:30.

Another patient showed the doctor the receipt. The doctor said that you developed well, later than her, and the fetal heart embryo was so good, but she really failed. I went home silently with tears in my eyes.

Abortion is much better.

The next afternoon 1: 10 went to the hospital, waiting for the operation, but when I saw my name at 4 o'clock, I asked the nurse what was going on. The nurse said that there were several miscarriages today, and they were not discharged for several afternoons. Say that finish also shook his head, alas, this is how, how so many abortion.

Yes, look at the three people in front of me and the three behind me. Really helpless. What is the reason? How can so many embryos miscarry? And they are all about the same date, about 8- 10 weeks. Look at the age of pregnant women, ranging from early twenties to early thirties. It doesn't seem to be because of their age. Another nurse is actually from the hospital. It seems that it has nothing to do with occupation.

Colleagues' bellies are getting bigger and bigger, and there are joys and sorrows.

My husband sent a circle of friends with a few simple words: May heaven be peaceful. I cried my eyes out. I knew he was very happy about the arrival of the child, but ...

I took two weeks off, and when I was resting at home, I didn't mean to look through the school working group. I saw the director send a message saying that our county civil affairs bureau encouraged me to take the social work certificate, and if I passed it, I would be rewarded. I'll sign up right away.

I didn't know what this certificate was and what it was for, and I didn't expect a bonus, so I signed up decisively, because I wanted to find something to do to get myself out of my sadness and forget the pain of fetal arrest.

After returning to school, I read books carefully and brush questions every day, but I always look at my colleagues intentionally or unintentionally. Her belly is big again. If my child were still here, would it be this big?

Just watch, watch, think, think and wish all the babies a safe and smooth birth. I'm a little lost, too. I miss my baby. This wait is eight months until my colleague takes maternity leave and gives birth to a baby. I am pregnant again.

Summary:

Now my second treasure has been 7 months, and he is nursing in my arms, looking at his MengMeng face, so happy and happy. And the social worker's certificate I applied for passed smoothly!

I had a miscarriage due to fetal arrest, and I got a certificate through my study exam, which made me out of the most sad day. I hope that the subject and the sisters who have experienced this kind of experience will be strong and get out of the haze as soon as possible. Children and parents are fate. When fate comes, children will come naturally. May all children be born safely, and may all mothers be the happiest mothers.

(The pictures are all from the Internet)

Once, I didn't have children, rested at home for 7 days, and then started working. I didn't feel anything. The second time, I didn't develop for more than 50 days and had a drug abortion. I resigned at home, which coincided with the demolition of my home, and my life was not bad. It's just that I was traumatized. Six months later, I was pregnant again, inexplicably super nervous. I resigned and had a physical examination for 50 days. The embryo has no fetal heart, and I was scared for a week to review the embryo with fetal heart. I was very cautious during the whole pregnancy and my mood was very complicated. Now the baby 15 days.

Many of my friends are between the ages of 32 and 38! They all want to have a second child. No, they all stopped for about three months! The moment the doctor announced the abortion, he was depressed! The comfort of "survival of the fittest" really hurts!

When I was 35 years old, I miscarried one two months before my second child. My first baby was born at the age of 24, and everything is fine. Because it was a boy, I didn't want to have a second child at that time, and the policy was not open at that time!

We didn't deliberately have a second child. It was an unplanned pregnancy, and the second child policy has been open for several years. When it comes, I am safe. I know I'm pregnant, so I went to the community service center and ate folic acid for free for three months, one pill a day!

This is my new job. I didn't know I was pregnant! And it was introduced by an acquaintance, so the boss valued me very much. I work hard to live up to my boss's trust. It takes 45 minutes to drive from where I live. In another town, I walk at high speed! Normally, I go out at seven in the morning and get home at eight in the evening, but if there is a traffic jam, it may be very late! Especially during the Canton Fair in March, it was very busy. We go to Pazhou Exhibition Hall in Guangzhou every day, stand for one day as soon as we receive the guests, and help move the exhibits when the exhibition is cancelled. I feel in good health, so I didn't deliberately let myself work less, and it hasn't been three months, so the customs here can't be told to the public. Because that's how I got here.

But I don't know what the situation is. I went to the toilet on the morning of my third month of pregnancy and found brown secretions in my underwear. I have never tried this phenomenon, and I always feel that something is wrong. I had a strong pregnancy reaction before. Vomiting and irritability But suddenly these reactions suddenly disappeared.

I was frightened, broke out in a cold sweat, called the company for leave, and rushed to the hospital with my ID card. The doctor asked something, when will menstruation stop? How much blood is there? What color is that? Wait, and then give me a blood test. After waiting for an hour or so, the result came out. HCG and pregnant copper decreased seriously. The doctor said that this situation may not be very good, and most of it is caused by the embryo stopping developing. Then he suggested me to have a B-ultrasound and gave me a bill. I'm shaking with a B-ultrasound sheet. I was lying on the B-ultrasound bed. The doctor looked at the probe for a while and asked me if I had seen the fetal heart before. I know it's over! I begged the doctor to help me again and check it carefully. The final result is embryo abortion!

I called my husband who works in other places, and I won't say anything when I cry, but my husband and I won't give up. I don't believe it will disappear. So I quickly went to another top three hospital to have a look. After the examination, I confirmed that the embryo was stopped. The doctor said that according to the size of embryo development, it should be stopped for about a week.

My tears feel like I'm going to die. The doctor suggests that you be hospitalized as soon as possible. It will be dangerous to stay in the body, otherwise it will bleed out at any time. I asked the doctor, what is the reason? Say it's survival of the fittest, and then tell me that you can do a test after the baby comes out!

I quickly informed my husband to ask for leave and come back to accompany me to the hospital!

I packed my luggage, went to the hospital for admission, and after I was admitted to the ward, the nurse arranged for various examinations. I've never had an abortion, so I'm scared. I always feel that many babies have died here, and I feel that there is blood everywhere! All the people here are here to have an abortion, some because of missed abortion, some because of children's developmental problems, and some because of ectopic pregnancy! Anyway, I feel very uncomfortable. I always feel so gloomy here.

There is a 35-year-old woman in my ward who induced labor because of the baby thalassemia in her stomach, and a newly married girl who is only 23 years old. The fetus stopped for unknown reasons! We all talked a lot, we were very sad and reluctant, and comforted each other for a long time!

The doctor saw that my gestational age was relatively small, and 12 weeks suggested that I choose medical abortion. The young 23-year-old girl next door also had an abortion first, but she came to induce labor at the age of 35, because it was seventeen weeks, and the fetus was still alive and needed an abortion needle!

The process of drug abortion is also very painful. I took the medicine according to the doctor's instructions, and after about three hours, I began to have some pain and bleeding. My mother-in-law said to me, "I don't want to lie in bed, I want to go out and walk more, and it is best to climb the stairs!" " "I went up and down dozens of floors and climbed stairs. The pain was accompanied by a lot of blood clots, so I quickly took a basin to the toilet to check whether there was embryonic tissue. I tried several times, but there were a lot of blood clots!

I went back to the ward to rest, and the whole ward smelled of blood. At night, I still feel a little guilty and unwilling to give up. I cried and fell asleep unconsciously. I always feel that my stomach is churning and pulling, so painful and tossing and turning! When I woke up, it was the next morning, and the whole bed was covered with blood. The nurse said impatiently!

When we get together, we feel a surge below. I immediately went to the toilet, followed these blood clots with a small basin, took a look, felt that there was embryonic tissue inside, and immediately showed it to the nurse for confirmation. The nurse said yes, and the doctor told me to have a B-ultrasound examination. Later, B-ultrasound confirmed that the flow was clean. Tell me what to pay attention to, prescribe some medicine and motherwort granules, and prepare for the operation and discharge. The doctor said he was lucky, at least he didn't have to curettage. I only sat in the empty month for seven days, because it was really hard to endure in the empty month, and I still thought about the crying of the child day and night. My husband sometimes laughs at me, not his seed, but my soil! Although it germinated, it died! I really didn't want to be alone, so I went to work again.

In theory, the doctor said it is best to have a baby for half a year, but two months later, I am pregnant with a second child now. I think it's a blessing for the child to come back to me. I was afraid that something would happen to him, so I actively checked, but I didn't take folic acid, because I always thought it was folic acid that caused the termination of childbirth. Instead, I eat a lot of fruits and vegetables with high folic acid. Besides, I am also deficient in progesterone. I go to the hospital for an injection every night. I've been playing for a month, and my ass is numb, painful and itchy. A month later, I switched to oral progesterone and took anti-abortion drugs. Two weeks later, I went to check, and B-ultrasound showed hydrops, saying that hydrops usually disappeared by itself, so don't worry or be afraid. The doctor told me to have more rest.

Anyway, all the way down, after five levels, six will be defeated, just like playing monsters, every level is terrible! Because I am a 35-year-old woman, having a second child, it is really tiring to be pregnant with this child. There are various problems, such as progesterone deficiency, edema and failure of Down's screening. I did a non-invasive clearance. First there was more amniotic fluid, then there was less amniotic fluid, and fetal monitoring failed. After an emergency caesarean section, the child finally landed, but only four pounds and five ounces. The umbilical cord twisted 50 times when it was cut out. God bless! Grateful, grateful for everything ~

Embryo abortion is really hard, but I believe that God will take care of us and the child will definitely come back to us ~

I write this article to encourage my parents who have the same experience as me, and believe that everything has the best arrangement! Come on!

The fetus stopped twice. On August 3, I took my fetal heart to check the germ, and the B-ultrasound began to bleed less than half an hour after I came home. I'm joking with my husband. My period didn't come. As a result, as soon as I went to the toilet, I really gave my aunt a scare. I rushed to the hospital to have a baby, got married in the middle, and went to the hospital for examination after marriage. The doctor told me that the fetus stopped, so I went to the hospital for an abortion. I went to the hospital for examination at the seventh week of my second pregnancy. The doctor told me that it was not good, but I met many friends after the last abortion and was waiting for good news, so I discussed it with my husband. A week later, I went to check that there were yolk sacs and germs, but there was no fetal heart. We said that after nine weeks, there was still no fetal heart. The doctor advised us to have an abortion quickly, so we had no choice but to have an abortion. After the abortion, the embryonic tissue was sent for chromosome examination, and no abnormality was found. We're still doing a comprehensive inspection. We are trying to prepare for pregnancy. There are similar sisters who will refuel and wait for healthy babies.