Are competitiveness and jealousy good or bad?

Simply put, being competitive is better than being jealous. Because jealousy is your envy+dislike of another person, and it is a negative attitude towards people. And competitiveness is to show your desire for success and a state of mind about things. But often many people are competitive and jealous at the same time. Whether it is good or bad depends on how you use it.

If this mentality helps you to work harder and be more motivated to study and work, that's good.

If this mentality makes you depressed, pessimistic and even want to hurt others, then it will go bad.

Everything has its ups and downs, and competition and jealousy also play a role in this change, no matter how good or bad.

One's way to success is to be always ready.

If you are ready at the right time, competitiveness and jealousy are hope.

If the right time is not ready, it is despair.

If you are prepared at the wrong time, it is also despair.

If the timing is wrong and you are not ready, you will be even more desperate.

Therefore, life is to fight with 10% hope and 90% despair! Experience 10% happiness with 90% efforts!

These are two concepts: being competitive, which means never giving up if you don't succeed in this matter. I appreciate it, because you will spend a lot of ways to solve this matter, and you will get a lot of resources to enrich yourself.

Jealousy, I don't think anyone wants to get in touch with such a person. It's terrible, don't compare, just be yourself.

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Everyone will be competitive and jealous. Some people are a little more, while others are a little less. From the perspective of racial inheritance, competition and jealousy are more conducive to our overall blood inheritance. For individuals, being competitive and jealous is a very good state. If you are not competitive, how can you grow? Resources are always limited. With a certain competitive spirit, he can help us grow to a higher stage and get more resources.

Then why do some people say that it is not good to be competitive and jealous? That's because everyone doesn't want to be surpassed by others. The competitiveness of others, the jealousy of others, that must be a bad thing for yourself. So you can see that some bosses may not see that he is usually competitive and jealous. Because he knows how to let the enemy off guard. You must never think that you are competitive. Envy is a bad thing. Don't act too much, it's a fact. If everyone knows that you have a strong competitive spirit, who will associate with you? Being with you means that I will suffer from you. This is a simple and obvious question. So people try to avoid it.

Generally speaking, don't demonize your competitive spirit and jealousy. We human beings have this kind of competition, which means that he can help us acquire certain resources. Only everyone has it, so we must learn how to use it.

Wish you a happy life!

Everything has two sides. There is an old saying that it is too late to mend. Moderate competition and jealousy can be our motivation to constantly break through ourselves. People can keep moving forward because they don't trust people who are better than themselves and are not satisfied with their situation. But once they exceed a certain limit, they will lose their minds, do many stupid things, make many mistakes that they would never make at ordinary times, and even bring irreparable consequences to themselves and the people around them.

There are thousands of people, follow their hearts. Competing for strength and competitiveness can stimulate the potential mysterious power of the human body. However, if you go too far, you will be jealous, indicating that you still have room for improvement. Try to improve yourself. Don't think about what is missing. It doesn't smell very good.

I don't know much about it. I hope you can give me more advice if there are any shortcomings.

Everyone has a competitive spirit, and it is precisely because people have a competitive spirit that we humans continue to make progress. But it depends on how to deal with this problem. Just be competitive and keep pushing yourself hard. If you keep hitting others because you are competitive or do whatever it takes to win, it is wrong.

Let's talk about jealousy. Jealousy is to envy other people's things and then get angry. In fact, this is not good for your own progress. We should know that no one is perfect, and everyone has different advantages and disadvantages. Don't compare others' advantages with yourself, but accept your own imperfections. Have an objective understanding of yourself, accept yourself and you won't be jealous of others. Life is a process of knowing yourself.

Jealousy will make you miserable.

Aggressiveness and jealousy can't be defined by good or bad!

Aggressiveness and jealousy, if used properly, help to enhance vitality.

For example, we can use young people's competitive psychology to motivate them to compete, struggle and struggle. Do things best and rejuvenate young people!

It is not good to compete for strength and win with competitive spirit and destroy it wantonly!

So is jealousy.

For example, we are jealous of others' Excellence, so we just have to work hard.

We are envied by others, which shows that we are better than others.

On the other hand, it's not good if you just envy and then hate and then make a determined effort!

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When I ask this question, I may find that competitiveness and jealousy are not good things. Since we know that they are not good things, we should wake up and clear these things from our hearts. The competitiveness is not enough, but it is only a temporary courage. Jealousy can't be produced, because it is a manifestation of narrow-mindedness. How do narrow-minded people respond? To be honest and modest, such people can show their bright hearts, and only a bright heart can blossom unbeaten flowers.

The light of life. When we walked together, there were many dark journeys. Without this dark life, life itself is bright. We often do things with our bodies and daydream with our hearts, which makes us physically and mentally exhausted. Why on earth is this? Whether to live better or to torture yourself better. We only know ourselves best, so we should get rid of physical and mental fatigue and get pleasure.

The process of life. Life needs a process, which is very important and is the experience precipitated by a person's growth, maturity and success. Everyone has the taste of this taste experience, including hardship. In this process, we have the deepest understanding and the most say. We are the spokesmen of this process. Although our processes are different, they all taste the same "bitter" life process.

Life without dyes. We are often infected, but we are not dyed. The reason is that this kind of rubbish is always produced in our hearts. Not often washed, not often washed, cleaned and sorted, not fresh and fragrant. From his own heart, no teacher has a heart, so that the heart can always be a teacher. When the mind is confused and can't find the inner self, the inner is definitely a mess. Life is not dyed, but dyed with heart.

Friend: "Learn to reflect on yourself in everything. When others criticize you, treat it as a kind of" improving your mind "; When others praise you, it is nothing more than "thinking hard".

Reasonable use of your competitive spirit can make you strive for progress, but it is not good to control your competitive spirit and become jealous.