If two people don’t see each other for a long time, will their relationship fade?

First of all, I think if two people don’t see each other for a long time, the relationship will fade.

There is a word called: "distant relatives". An obvious characteristic of this kind of relatives is that we don't often meet and interact with them. As long as nothing special happens at home, we can even communicate with them on the phone. They don't happen often. Although they still say hello when they meet, they are far less cordial than relatives who often interact with each other. In fact, this kind of relationship between relatives has faded.

There is a saying: "Text is not as good as voice, voice is not as good as video, and video is not as good as meeting." Some partners may feel that if they don't meet often, they can't often make voice calls or open videos, or contact them. Letting the relationship fade can indeed maintain the relationship with blood-related relatives or individual friendships, but it is far from enough for love.

Because the management of love is not just about words. Only by taking actions can we better manage a beautiful love, especially for women, when she encounters difficulties. , in fact, in her heart, she most hopes that her significant other can be by her side.

If her significant other is not by her side every time she encounters difficulties, the girl may become stronger and stronger. Over time, she may also feel that she no longer needs the boy's company. Over time, you will become dispensable to her, or when she encounters difficulties, there will always be another boy who appears in time, then she may be with this boy.

So, why does the relationship fade after not seeing each other for a long time?

1. Feelings are a tactile experience, and they will become closer and closer only with frequent exchanges.

When I was in high school, there would always be a group of friends walking together during class breaks or during meals. The relationship was not bad, but after graduating from high school and entering the university campus, there was no relationship between us. We don’t have much contact with each other, and they have all gone their separate ways. The only time we contact each other is if we need help with something.

When I entered college, I made new friends. We ate, studied, and played together. We gathered together when eating, discussed each other in study, and helped each other in life. , during our graduation internship in the factory, we united to resist the power that was unfair to us.

I remember that when we first entered the factory, we needed military training. In the extremely hot summer, the military training lasted about nine days. After the military training every day, we were all exhausted. I don’t know why. Alas, the military training instructor suddenly woke us up in the middle of the night and asked us to take the stairs from the 28th floor downstairs to gather.

We all know in our hearts that the main purpose of our coming here is not to participate in professional military training, but to participate in graduation internship and work in the factory. The instructor did this a bit too much. Later, in our ** Under the same resistance, the relevant leaders replaced us with another instructor.

Looking back at the beginning, the relationship between us was so sincere, but after graduation, we went our separate ways. We no longer have this contact with each other that we often see each other, and the relationship between us also disappears. Gradually it faded.

The only person who has maintained a relationship with me until now is because after we entered the society, we still kept in touch, occasionally met and had dinner together.

2. A small farewell is better than a newlywed, but a big farewell hurts feelings.

In the world of love, there is a saying that goes: "A little separation is better than a new marriage." Yes, if two people live together for a long time, it is inevitable that there will be some conflicts and disputes. You will feel that life is a little less fresh, and at this time, being apart for a while is indeed helpful to enhance the relationship between each other, but if the separation time is too long, it will be dangerous.

In fact, to a certain extent, a small separation is also a test of each other's feelings. If the relationship between two people is very deep, what they miss in their hearts and mouths will naturally be each other's comfort, and the relationship is so deep that To a certain extent, after leaving each other, there will be a feeling of not being able to eat well or sleep well.

Of course, the premise is that they meet a few times every year. If they cannot meet a few times a year, there is a high probability that the relationship between a man and a woman will fade away, and the marriage relationship will gradually be worn away.

In general, not seeing each other for a short period of time is conducive to increasing the intimacy between each other, but if two people do not see each other for a long time, the relationship will be diluted by time sooner or later.