What is the reaction when the baby quarrels with her husband?

I seldom quarrel with my husband when I have no baby. One is that we were in love at that time, and everyone could tolerate each other. Another reason is that I am too dumb to argue with him. After having a baby, I was still all thumbs, but as the baby grew up, I found that our quarrel gradually turned into two to one, and my husband could no longer get the upper hand. Haha, let me be happy for a while!

Generally speaking, couples try to fight in front of their children as little as possible, but sometimes there is nothing they can do about trivial matters in daily life. Then there is a principle, if you really quarrel in front of your children, you must make up in front of them, and let them know that although mom and dad will quarrel, they still love each other, love this family, love each other and love their children. Such a child will have love in his heart, will not be lonely and will not feel abandoned.

Let's talk about the baby's reaction when fighting. Generally speaking, the baby will be in a daze first, which is a bit incredible and unacceptable, because in the baby's view, quarreling is only between children, and adults, especially parents, will not quarrel. They are like their own angels, always gentle. Therefore, he will hesitate, and when he reacts, the first thing to do is to defend me. This is because I brought up the baby since childhood, eating and drinking Lazar are my closest relatives, and my words often show that my mother is the best, loves herself the most, and of course is my favorite. So when my mother is hurt, he will come out to help me as soon as possible. Even though he knows that he is limited and can't stop his father, he will fight hard. Under the threat of his father, he often would rather die than surrender. Haha, whenever this time is my most fulfilling time, I feel that my son is really not raised for nothing.

Finally, when mom and dad quarrel, no matter who the baby helps, it is a loving child, which shows that the child has his own subjective judgment. We can't blame our children for not loving each other. The most important thing is to reduce the contradiction between husband and wife and make the family full of love and harmony.