Why do women always think other people's husbands are good?

It is said that men are romantic and love other people's wives most. There is a folk saying that "a wife is not as good as a concubine, a concubine is not as good as a thief, and a thief is not as good as a thief". The meaning is simple and clear, so many men realize the so-called "truth" in this sentence, and many men are practicing it.

The last sentence of this sentence is wonderful, that is, what you can't get is always the best, and so is husband and wife. We face our lover all day, and we are simple and clear about where there are moles on him. How can we be fresh?

So some people think that the other half is the best. I've heard many women often complain, "Look at how nice men in other people's homes are. They can make money, do housework and take care of their wives, but what about you?" If you can't earn money, you won't do housework, and your children won't teach you. It's all about me What do you want? "

I remember when I was a child, what the adults in the village said most was, did you say that XX's husband was virtuous? Working outside is too tired, so I will help my wife feed the pigs to sweep the floor when I get home. Look at the hole in my house. I slept like a dead pig all day, and thunder couldn't wake me up. My life is over.

The other replied, "Your family has a good temper. Although it is not very profitable, it is still good for you. At least I won't hit you or scold you. Everything will follow you. My family has a big temper and does not make money. It will always work for me. "

Another woman said, "You have the cheek to say that my family is not only rude, but also thinks that I am useless, not as powerful as you, and can do anything." In his eyes, I am a freeloader. "

This is worse than being together. Why are they not better than their own men? I'll feel much better if I go in this way, but I'm a little sad if I choose almost. Doing so will only make you more unhappy and unhappy, but why blame the other half for doing something that makes you unhappy and unhappy?

In marriage, both men and women, from the moment you choose each other, you have understood his advantages and disadvantages. Why did you accept it at the beginning, but now you can't? Is it true that the other half has changed, or has your taste changed?

If you liked such a man, why didn't you choose such a man to marry?

You must choose a man now, but after you get married, you must overturn your opinion. Isn't this hard for yourself?

Women are naturally better at jealousy and vanity than men, so they think it is better to think of other people's husbands. Not because they are really nice, but because she doesn't have such a man, she won't be satisfied.

Women are always good at comparing with the women around them and always like to find superiority from them. Once they can't find it, their mentality will change, and they will blame all this on their other half and think that they are incapable, so they let themselves live so cowardly.

They always like to define their own happiness by the happiness of others. They always think that others are the happiest one, but they are a Cinderella. In her eyes, other people's husbands are advantages, and their husbands are disadvantages.

When they are carried away by jealousy and vanity, they will pursue unwarranted happiness, even fall into it, and even portray and fabricate the evil deeds of their other half in their minds to criticize him.

Let yourself find happiness again without guilt, and don't want to admit that half of the misfortune of marriage is your responsibility. So they will show weakness and make others feel that they are victims.

Carnegie once said: "If you want to have a happy marriage, as a wife, you must have the pioneering spirit and be willing to let your husband do what he likes. Even if he is taking risks, you should support him unconditionally. When you encounter difficulties and setbacks, you must be convinced and unconditionally supported to achieve your husband's success. You will also be happier. "