How to be a good stepmother?

True love from the heart for children. Whether you are kind or not, you should first forget that the child was born to your husband and ex-wife. You need to imagine that it is your own child who is related to you, so that you can love this child from the heart. I need the approval of my parents-in-law, and the appearance of my stepmother will almost be rejected by my children at first. If someone in my family can repair my child's feelings with me, it will bring ten times better results than my own efforts, and this role is most suitable for my parents-in-law, so I must be recognized by my parents-in-law. Care about children's daily life.

It is said that the phenomenon of stepmother beating children is a constant phenomenon, but this is not what we should do. Let's not talk about what the stepmother should do, even if the mother hits the child. When a stepmother educates her children, the best way is to find ways to make friends with them. As friends, the distance between us will be closer, and it will also pave the way for better communication. Many TV dramas with stepmother theme have certain reference value, but they may not be applicable to every child, so how to find the most suitable method for stepmother is the top priority.

In order to establish close relationship with children earlier, many "mothers" will always bring amazing benefits to children. Even trying to please children. The final result is not satisfactory, because they want their children to accept the identity of the new mother again. It takes a period of transition, and at this time, the child's heart will be particularly sensitive, and rushing for success will often bring counterproductive results. So don't rush to establish a relationship, and don't deliberately observe for a period of time, understand your child's preferences, pay attention to your child's attitude feedback, and then take further contact.

Stepmother is a word, a great responsibility and a different position. Good or bad will be the center of discussion. Everyone says that stepmother is not good, so what is the situation and difficulties of stepmother?