How to make good friends and stay away from false friends, can you tell me?

You treat her as your best friend, spend money for her and chat with her. She often tolerates her bad temper, but she is always angry with you because of a little thing, upset, and even crowds you out with a small group. I don't understand why I am so kind to her, but I always have a hard time with her. I want to make good friends. It's not that the more you pay for her, the better she will be to you, because some people's nature. So how can we stay away from fake friends and make real good friends?

First, quit the principle of proximity. There is a sister who has just arrived in a new environment. Who sits next to her and chats with her, she treats her family as good friends and tells others her little secrets? As a result, they spread their privacy everywhere. Remember, familiarity doesn't mean that you two can establish friendship. The criterion for choosing friends is not distance, but personality, outlook and character. After all, jackals will stay by their prey, just for their own survival.

Second, learn to be eliminated from the bottom. Man is a perceptual animal. When you find that your friend has shortcomings or has done something that hurts you, you will lie to yourself. She certainly didn't mean that. We have known each other for so long. As a result, my patience and tolerance again and again have brought endless recklessness to the other side. She will never feel that she is wrong and will never change all her behaviors for you. It is to satisfy her own interests. So you have to learn to set a time period and learn to be eliminated last. For example, you made a few new friends last semester, and count what bad things they did during this period. From small to large, you can directly eliminate the last friend, stop loss in time, and eliminate the residue, so as to welcome better people.

Third, don't be idle. The initial purpose of many people making friends is to be afraid of loneliness and boredom and want to be accompanied, thus satisfying a companionship relationship. But once this relationship has a distance and no topic, it will immediately become a staged friend. So, don't go to your best friend for someone to accompany you. You should experience life more and enrich yourself. For example, you can exercise on weekends, then learn to dance, and it doesn't help to go shopping. Even if you know more about the red number, you may make a few friends with the same hobbies.