I'm just saying how to answer.

Don't just tell yourself jokes about yourself, be firm.

1, you're just saying, but what if I take it seriously? Are you going to compensate me for my mental loss? Ha ha.

2. Oh, what should I do if I'm serious? You can't just send me away.

3. I'll go. I am serious. So you're not kidding? That won't do. If you say it, it must be true.