Sister-in-law hangs out too much. Tell me about it.

Basically, my aunt likes to take care of her family affairs. She should intervene in other people's affairs so easily out of concern for her brother and her own personality, but your husband's attitude is actually supporting her to do so. I think the key is your husband. Distinguish between brother and sister and husband and wife. No matter how good the brother-sister relationship is, we should also divide it into internal and external parts. Small family matters still depend on husband and wife, so you and your husband should communicate well and tell him that you don't like him telling others about family matters casually, even relatives like parents and sisters. I hope your husband can put himself in the right position.

As for your sister-in-law, as long as she is harmless, you should listen to her advice politely. If you listen, you will listen. If you don't listen, politely refuse. She can't control your behavior anyway. It's just perfunctory. I'm not a fool. I know you won't listen, so I'm naturally too lazy to talk.